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Documentul pe care so\u021bul meu credea c\u0103 l-am uitat<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a r\u0103mas cu cea\u0219ca de cafea \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fiica noastr\u0103 st\u0103tea \u00een fa\u021ba lui, cu un dosar deschis \u0219i cu o expresie pe care nu i-o mai v\u0103zusem niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu p\u0103rea furioas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nu pl\u00e2ngea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era calm\u0103 \u0219i hot\u0103r\u00e2t\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Maria, \u00eenchide valiza \u0219i du-te la serviciu, a spus Adrian.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mai am dou\u0103 ore p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eencep programul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu discut problemele mele financiare cu un copil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Asear\u0103 mi-ai spus c\u0103 sunt adult\u0103 \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 pl\u0103tesc chirie. Acum sunt din nou copil?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So\u021bul meu a deschis gura, dar nu a g\u0103sit imediat un r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Maria a \u00eentors prima pagin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Vreau doar s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem cu to\u021bii acelea\u0219i lucruri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe mas\u0103 se afla o copie a unui contract \u00eencheiat cu doisprezece ani \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cel recuno\u0219team.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era acordul prin care eu \u0219i Adrian stabiliser\u0103m cum urma s\u0103 fie administrat\u0103 casa dup\u0103 ce folosisem banii primi\u021bi din v\u00e2nzarea apartamentului p\u0103rin\u021bilor mei pentru achitarea unei p\u0103r\u021bi importante din credit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00cemi aminteam perfect ziua aceea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

St\u0103tusem \u00eentr-un birou notarial, cu Maria, pe atunci \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 de \u0219apte ani, a\u0219tept\u00e2ndu-ne la bunica ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian \u00eemi spusese c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 semn\u0103m documentele ca s\u0103 nu mai existe discu\u021bii despre contribu\u021biile noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dup\u0103 c\u00e2\u021biva ani, c\u00e2nd \u00eel \u00eentrebasem unde era copia mea, \u00eemi r\u0103spunsese c\u0103 se pierduse \u00eentr-o mutare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu mai insistasem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Avusesem \u00eencredere \u00een el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201eTat\u0103, casa asta nu este doar a ta\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Maria a \u00eempins documentul spre tat\u0103l ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u00cenainte s\u0103-mi ceri chirie, vreau s\u0103 te \u00eentreb ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De ce spui mereu c\u0103 este casa ta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a ridicat din umeri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 eu am muncit ca s\u0103 o cump\u0103r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2014 \u0218i mama nu a muncit?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu am spus asta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar asear\u0103 ai spus c\u0103 eu m\u0103n\u00e2nc din banii t\u0103i \u0219i consum curentul t\u0103u. De parc\u0103 mama n-ar exista.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am sim\u021bit cum mi se \u00eenc\u0103lzesc obrajii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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De ani \u00eentregi, Adrian avea obiceiul s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 despre toate lucrurile din cas\u0103 ca \u0219i cum i-ar fi apar\u021binut exclusiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ma\u0219ina lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Casa lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Banii lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd cump\u0103ram ceva din salariul meu, spunea uneori c\u0103 el \u00eentre\u021bine familia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu \u00eel contraziceam mereu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uneori eram prea obosit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alteori nu voiam s\u0103 ne cert\u0103m \u00een fa\u021ba Mariei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar acum fiica noastr\u0103 \u00eel privea direct \u00een ochi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2014 Mama a v\u00e2ndut apartamentul bunicilor ca s\u0103 putem p\u0103stra casa, a continuat ea. Nu-i a\u0219a?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a oftat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da. \u0218i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i a lucrat aproape cincisprezece ani f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i cumpere mare lucru pentru ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Asta fac p\u0103rin\u021bii, Maria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Exact. Asta fac p\u0103rin\u021bii. Nu le trimit facturi copiilor pentru c\u0103 au crescut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen buc\u0103t\u0103rie s-a l\u0103sat o lini\u0219te ap\u0103s\u0103toare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Caietul albastru \u0219i cincisprezece ani de sacrificii<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Maria a deschis caietul meu vechi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe prima pagin\u0103 scria: \u201eCheltuieli familie \u2013 2011\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cemi aminteam de el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cencepusem s\u0103 notez fiecare cheltuial\u0103 dup\u0103 ce r\u0103m\u0103seser\u0103m cu foarte pu\u021bini bani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ratele erau mari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria avea nevoie de haine, rechizite \u0219i medicamente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu lucram ca asistent\u0103 administrativ\u0103 la o firm\u0103 din Pite\u0219ti, iar Adrian avea un atelier de t\u00e2mpl\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen anii buni c\u00e2\u0219tiga mult mai mult dec\u00e2t mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar existaser\u0103 \u0219i ani \u00een care atelierul nu adusese aproape niciun profit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Atunci eu pl\u0103tisem ratele, utilit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i cump\u0103r\u0103turile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mam\u0103, de ce ai p\u0103strat toate chitan\u021bele astea? m-a \u00eentrebat Maria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ca s\u0103 \u0219tiu pe ce se duc banii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Le-ai p\u0103strat \u0219i c\u00e2nd tata nu mai avea de lucru?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Am \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria a \u00eentors c\u00e2teva pagini.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Uite, tat\u0103. \u00cen anul \u00een care atelierul a fost \u00eenchis pentru renovare, mama a pl\u0103tit aproape toate cheltuielile casei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a privit spre fereastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu trebuie s\u0103-mi aminte\u0219ti fiecare perioad\u0103 grea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu vreau s\u0103 te umilesc. Vreau doar s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi cum sun\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00eei spui cuiva c\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219te pe banii t\u0103i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So\u021bul meu a t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ce mai ascundea valiza<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Maria a scos un plic alb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i acum vreau s\u0103 v\u0103 ar\u0103t ceva despre mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am privit-o nedumerit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce este?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Planul meu pentru primul salariu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a r\u00e2s ironic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u00cen sf\u00e2r\u0219it, ajungem la subiect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria a desf\u0103cut plicul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen\u0103untru erau trei foi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe prima scria: \u201eEconomii\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe a doua: \u201eCheltuieli personale\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe a treia: \u201eContribu\u021bie acas\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Am f\u0103cut bugetul \u00eenainte s\u0103 m\u0103 angajez, a spus ea. Voiam s\u0103 pun bani deoparte pentru facultate \u0219i pentru un curs de contabilitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu \u0219tiam c\u0103 se g\u00e2ndise at\u00e2t de serios la viitor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i voiam s\u0103 v\u0103 ajut, a continuat Maria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a ridicat privirea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci care este problema?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Problema este felul \u00een care mi-ai cerut-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria \u0219i-a \u00eempreunat m\u00e2inile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dac\u0103 mi-ai fi spus c\u0103 familia are nevoie de ajutor, a\u0219 fi contribuit bucuroas\u0103. Dac\u0103 mi-ai fi explicat c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b s\u0103-mi gestionez banii, te-a\u0219 fi ascultat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A f\u0103cut o pauz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar tu mi-ai spus c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu pl\u0103tesc, pot s\u0103 plec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian nu a r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i asta m-a durut mai mult dec\u00e2t orice sum\u0103 de bani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00centrebarea pe care nici eu nu \u00eendr\u0103znisem s\u0103 o pun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Maria a tras un scaun \u0219i s-a a\u0219ezat \u00een fa\u021ba tat\u0103lui ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Tat\u0103, vreau s\u0103 te \u00eentreb ceva. Dar te rog s\u0103-mi r\u0103spunzi sincer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 C\u00e2nd ai r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 serviciu acum c\u00e2\u021biva ani, mama \u021bi-a cerut chirie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a \u00eencremenit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce leg\u0103tur\u0103 are?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu, nu mi-a cerut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u021ai-a spus c\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nci din banii ei?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Te-a amenin\u021bat c\u0103 te d\u0103 afar\u0103 dac\u0103 nu contribui?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a cobor\u00e2t privirea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria a vorbit mai \u00eencet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci de ce ai considerat c\u0103 este normal s\u0103-mi vorbe\u0219ti mie a\u0219a, \u00een prima s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 de munc\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am sim\u021bit un nod \u00een g\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era \u00eentrebarea pe care o purtasem \u0219i eu \u00een suflet de ani \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce, atunci c\u00e2nd unul dintre noi avea nevoie de sprijin, Adrian considera c\u0103 ajutorul era o obliga\u021bie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar c\u00e2nd el era cel care oferea ceva, transforma totul \u00eentr-o datorie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian spune pentru prima dat\u0103 adev\u0103rul<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

So\u021bul meu \u0219i-a frecat fruntea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Voi dou\u0103 nu \u00een\u021belege\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria nu l-a \u00eentrerupt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Eu am crescut altfel, a continuat el. La optsprezece ani, tata mi-a spus c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103-mi pl\u0103tesc singur cheltuielile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i ai f\u0103cut-o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u021ai-a fost greu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a z\u00e2mbit amar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Foarte greu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci de ce vrei s\u0103 trec \u0219i eu prin acela\u0219i lucru?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So\u021bul meu a r\u0103mas t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria a continuat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dac\u0103 ai suferit c\u00e2nd bunicul te-a tratat a\u0219a, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 faci acela\u0219i lucru cu mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a privit-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Vreau s\u0103 fii responsabil\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i eu vreau s\u0103 fiu responsabil\u0103. Tocmai de aceea m-am angajat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Via\u021ba nu este u\u0219oar\u0103, Maria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tiu. Dar casa noastr\u0103 nu ar trebui s\u0103 fie locul \u00een care \u00eenv\u0103\u021b asta prin amenin\u021b\u0103ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen acel moment, am v\u0103zut ceva schimb\u00e2ndu-se pe chipul so\u021bului meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru prima dat\u0103, nu mai p\u0103rea sup\u0103rat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0103rea ru\u0219inat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce adusese Maria valiza<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Tot nu mi-ai explicat de ce ai venit cu valiza, a spus Adrian dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva minute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria a privit spre ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 voiam s\u0103-\u021bi ar\u0103t ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A scos de la fundul valizei o pereche de pantofi mici, roz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I-am recunoscut imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Erau primii pantofi pe care \u00eei purtase c\u00e2nd \u00eenv\u0103\u021base s\u0103 mearg\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cei p\u0103strasem \u00eentr-o cutie cu amintiri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria i-a a\u0219ezat pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u00ce\u021bi aminte\u0219ti de ei, tat\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a z\u00e2mbit f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vrea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Bine\u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u00cemi povesteai mereu c\u0103 m\u0103 \u021bineai de m\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd f\u0103ceam primii pa\u0219i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 A\u0219a este.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria a scos apoi un ursule\u021b vechi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i pe acesta mi l-ai cump\u0103rat c\u00e2nd am fost internat\u0103 cu pneumonie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu dormeai f\u0103r\u0103 el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu dormeam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Au urmat c\u00e2teva desene, o fotografie de la prima zi de \u0219coal\u0103 \u0219i o felicitare f\u0103cut\u0103 de Maria c\u00e2nd avea \u0219ase ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe felicitare scria, cu litere str\u00e2mbe:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eTati, e\u0219ti eroul meu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a luat-o \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i atunci ochii i s-au umplut de lacrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eNu vreau s\u0103 devin chiria\u0219a ta\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Maria a \u00eenchis valiza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Tat\u0103, toate lucrurile astea au fost \u00een camera mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian nu spunea nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu le-am pus \u00een valiz\u0103 ca s\u0103 plec. Le-am pus ca s\u0103-\u021bi amintesc cine sunt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fiica noastr\u0103 a f\u0103cut o pauz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Sunt fata pe care ai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat-o s\u0103 mearg\u0103 pe biciclet\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Maria\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Sunt copilul pe care \u00eel a\u0219teptai la poarta \u0219colii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vocea \u00eei tremura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Sunt fata care te suna prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd lua o not\u0103 bun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian \u0219i-a \u0219ters ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tiu, iubita mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i acum, pentru c\u0103 am primit un loc de munc\u0103, nu vreau s\u0103 devin brusc chiria\u0219a ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria s-a uitat c\u00e2nd la mine, c\u00e2nd la tat\u0103l ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Vreau s\u0103 contribui la cheltuielile casei. Vreau s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b s\u0103 fiu independent\u0103. Dar vreau s\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103, dac\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi \u00eemi pierd serviciul sau am o problem\u0103, pot veni acas\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi fie fric\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a l\u0103sat felicitarea pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Po\u021bi veni oric\u00e2nd acas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria l-a privit cu ochii umezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci de ce mi-ai spus asear\u0103 c\u0103 pot s\u0103 plec?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So\u021bul meu a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Scuzele pe care nu credeam c\u0103 le voi auzi vreodat\u0103<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Adrian s-a ridicat \u00eencet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A ocolit masa \u0219i s-a oprit \u00een fa\u021ba fiicei noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Maria, \u00eemi pare r\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fata a r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Am vrut s\u0103 te \u00eenv\u0103\u021b s\u0103 fii responsabil\u0103, dar am ales cel mai prost mod de a o face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria \u0219i-a \u0219ters lacrimile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 M-ai f\u0103cut s\u0103 simt c\u0103 nu mai am loc aici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tiu. \u0218i \u00eemi pare r\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a inspirat ad\u00e2nc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Tat\u0103l meu m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 cred c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 pl\u0103tesc pentru orice lucru pe care \u00eel primesc. Probabil am repetat ce am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat de la el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar nu trebuie s\u0103 faci asta cu mine, tat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ai dreptate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi a spus ceva ce nu-l mai auzisem spun\u00e2nd de foarte mult timp:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Casa asta este \u0219i casa ta. Nu pentru c\u0103 pl\u0103te\u0219ti. Ci pentru c\u0103 e\u0219ti fiica noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria a izbucnit \u00een pl\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am r\u0103mas l\u00e2ng\u0103 mas\u0103, cu m\u00e2na la gur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu \u00eemi venea s\u0103 cred c\u0103 o discu\u021bie \u00eenceput\u0103 at\u00e2t de ur\u00e2t se transformase \u00eentr-un moment de sinceritate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar Maria nu terminase<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 ce s-au lini\u0219tit, fiica noastr\u0103 s-a \u00eentors spre mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mam\u0103, acum trebuie s\u0103 vorbim \u0219i despre tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am clipit surprins\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Despre mine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria a luat caietul albastru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Tu ai \u021binut casa asta \u00een picioare \u00een multe perioade grele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eencercat s\u0103 z\u00e2mbesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 A\u0219a fac p\u0103rin\u021bii, draga mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tiu. Dar asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 munca ta trebuie s\u0103 fie invizibil\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a ridicat privirea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria a continuat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mama a lucrat, a f\u0103cut cump\u0103r\u0103turi, a g\u0103tit, a avut grij\u0103 de mine \u0219i a \u021binut eviden\u021ba tuturor cheltuielilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se str\u00e2nge inima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Maria, nu trebuie\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ba da, mam\u0103. Trebuie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S-a \u00eentors spre tat\u0103l ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 C\u00e2nd spui \u201ebanii mei\u201d, ui\u021bi c\u0103 mama a contribuit \u0219i ea. \u0218i chiar dac\u0103 \u00eentr-o perioad\u0103 unul dintre voi ar fi c\u00e2\u0219tigat mai pu\u021bin, asta nu i-ar fi f\u0103cut munca lipsit\u0103 de valoare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a r\u0103mas t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ai dreptate, a spus \u00een cele din urm\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi s-a \u00eentors spre mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Elena, cred c\u0103 \u0219i \u021bie \u00ee\u021bi datorez ni\u0219te scuze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu am \u0219tiut ce s\u0103 spun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Am vorbit de prea multe ori de parc\u0103 eu a\u0219 fi f\u0103cut totul singur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi-au dat lacrimile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu vreau s\u0103 \u021binem scorul, Adrian.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nici eu. Dar vreau s\u0103 recunosc c\u0103 n-am fost corect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Regulile noi ale familiei<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen acea diminea\u021b\u0103, am discutat aproape dou\u0103 ore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu am rezolvat toate problemele c\u0103sniciei noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar am \u00eenceput s\u0103 vorbim despre lucruri pe care le evitaser\u0103m ani \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria ne-a explicat c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 economiseasc\u0103 pentru studii \u0219i s\u0103-\u0219i pl\u0103teasc\u0103 singur\u0103 cheltuielile personale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian i-a spus c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be s\u0103 gestioneze responsabil banii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu am propus s\u0103 stabilim \u00eempreun\u0103 un buget realist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu o chirie impus\u0103 ca pedeaps\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu o sum\u0103 aleas\u0103 din orgoliu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ci o contribu\u021bie discutat\u0103, potrivit\u0103 veniturilor \u0219i planurilor Mariei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Vreau s\u0103 pun lunar o sum\u0103 deoparte pentru cas\u0103, a spus fiica noastr\u0103. Dar vreau s\u0103 pot economisi \u0219i pentru viitorul meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mi se pare corect, am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i mie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci putem face un buget \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenainte s\u0103 plece la serviciu, a mai spus ceva:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 nu mai folosim niciodat\u0103 expresia \u201edac\u0103 nu-\u021bi convine, pleac\u0103\u201d atunci c\u00e2nd ne cert\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a privit-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De acord.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Primul salariu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni mai t\u00e2rziu, Maria a primit primul salariu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A venit acas\u0103 cu un z\u00e2mbet larg.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mam\u0103! Tat\u0103! Mi-au intrat banii!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Felicit\u0103ri, iubita mea!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Cum te sim\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De parc\u0103 a\u0219 putea cump\u0103ra jum\u0103tate de ora\u0219!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am r\u00e2s cu to\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi Maria a scos trei plicuri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mi-am \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit banii exact cum am stabilit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen primul pusese economiile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen al doilea, banii pentru cheltuielile personale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen al treilea, contribu\u021bia pe care hot\u0103r\u00e2se s\u0103 o ofere pentru gospod\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a privit plicul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Maria, vreau s\u0103-\u021bi spun ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Sunt m\u00e2ndru de tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fiica noastr\u0103 a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 am adus bani?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu. Pentru c\u0103 ai g\u00e2ndit responsabil \u0219i ai avut curajul s\u0103-mi spui c\u00e2nd am gre\u0219it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria l-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mul\u021bumesc, tat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Surpriza pe care Adrian o preg\u0103tise \u00een secret<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

La sf\u00e2r\u0219itul lunii, so\u021bul meu m-a chemat \u00een sufragerie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe mas\u0103 era un plic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce este? l-am \u00eentrebat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ceva ce trebuia s\u0103 fac de mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen\u0103untru se afla o confirmare de deschidere a unui cont de economii destinat Mariei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian pusese deoparte o sum\u0103 din economiile sale personale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Vreau s\u0103 o ajut s\u0103-\u0219i continue studiile, mi-a spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 E un gest frumos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i m-am g\u00e2ndit la ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 La ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dac\u0103 Maria este de acord, contribu\u021biile ei lunare pot merge \u00eentr-un fond separat pentru viitorul ei. Dar vreau s\u0103-i spunem clar ce facem cu banii. F\u0103r\u0103 secrete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Cred c\u0103 o s\u0103 se bucure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i eu sper.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen seara aceea, i-am explicat Mariei propunerea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A fost surprins\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Tat\u0103, nu trebuie s\u0103 faci asta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci de ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 te ajut s\u0103 porne\u0219ti \u00een via\u021b\u0103 mai bine dec\u00e2t am pornit eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria l-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 mult pentru mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O conversa\u021bie pe care n-o voi uita niciodat\u0103<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00centr-o sear\u0103, la c\u00e2teva luni dup\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2mplarea cu valiza, st\u0103team cu Adrian pe teras\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria era \u00een camera ei \u0219i \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba pentru un examen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So\u021bul meu privea gr\u0103dina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Elena, pot s\u0103 te \u00eentreb ceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Sigur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De ce nu m-ai contrazis mai ferm \u00een seara aceea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am r\u0103mas pe g\u00e2nduri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 nu voiam s\u0103 ne cert\u0103m \u00een fa\u021ba Mariei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar aveai dreptate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a oftat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Cred c\u0103 m-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 am ultimul cuv\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da, i-am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M-a privit surprins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Chiar a\u0219a?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Chiar a\u0219a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am z\u00e2mbit am\u00e2ndoi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi am devenit serioas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Adrian, nu vreau ca Maria s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 tac\u0103 doar pentru a p\u0103stra lini\u0219tea \u00eentr-o familie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So\u021bul meu a dat \u00eencet din cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nici eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i nici eu nu mai vreau s\u0103 fac asta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian mi-a luat m\u00e2na.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci va trebui s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m am\u00e2ndoi s\u0103 vorbim altfel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era un \u00eenceput.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un an mai t\u00e2rziu, valiza a ap\u0103rut din nou<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen diminea\u021ba \u00een care Maria a \u00eemplinit dou\u0103zeci de ani, am g\u0103sit-o \u00een hol cu aceea\u0219i valiz\u0103 mare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am sim\u021bit cum mi se str\u00e2nge inima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Maria, pleci undeva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mam\u0103, lini\u0219te\u0219te-te! De data asta chiar am pus haine \u00een ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a ap\u0103rut din buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Unde pleci?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u00centr-o excursie de weekend cu prietenele mele. Din banii mei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So\u021bul meu a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Foarte bine. S\u0103 te distrezi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria a f\u0103cut o pauz\u0103 teatral\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i nu-mi cere\u021bi chirie pentru cele dou\u0103 zile \u00een care nu dorm acas\u0103!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am izbucnit cu to\u021bii \u00een r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a ridicat m\u00e2inile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Promit!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria ne-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at \u0219i a ie\u0219it pe u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am urm\u0103rit-o de la fereastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mergea cu pas sigur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Avea propriul salariu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Economii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Planuri pentru facultate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i, mai presus de toate, \u00eencrederea c\u0103 putea discuta deschis cu p\u0103rin\u021bii ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finalul pove\u0219tii: lec\u021bia pe care ne-a dat-o propriul copil<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen seara aceea, dup\u0103 ce Maria plecase, Adrian a intrat \u00een camera ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe birou se afla fotografia de la prima ei zi de \u0219coal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A luat-o \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Parc\u0103 ieri o duceam de m\u00e2n\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la poart\u0103, a spus \u00eencet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M-am apropiat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 A crescut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da. \u0218i cred c\u0103 este mai \u00een\u021beleapt\u0103 dec\u00e2t eram eu la v\u00e2rsta ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Uneori copiii ne \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 lucruri pe care ar fi trebuit s\u0103 le \u0219tim deja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a privit spre valiza mic\u0103 de amintiri r\u0103mas\u0103 \u00een dulap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tii ce m-a durut cel mai tare \u00een diminea\u021ba aceea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 C\u00e2nd mi-a spus c\u0103 nu vrea s\u0103 devin\u0103 chiria\u0219a mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A f\u0103cut o pauz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Eu credeam c\u0103 o \u00eenv\u0103\u021b responsabilitatea. Dar ea a \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 pentru a mai avea un loc \u00een familia noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i asta nu ar trebui s\u0103 simt\u0103 niciodat\u0103 un copil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adrian a a\u0219ezat fotografia la loc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Sper c\u0103 \u0219tie c\u00e2t de mult o iubesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Acum \u00eei ar\u0103\u021bi mai des.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am stins lumina \u0219i am ie\u0219it \u00eempreun\u0103 din camer\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenainte s\u0103 \u00eenchid u\u0219a, m-am uitat \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103 spre biroul Mariei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe el se afla un bile\u021bel pe care fiica noastr\u0103 \u00eel scrisese cu c\u00e2teva zile \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eResponsabilitatea \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 contribui pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pas\u0103, nu pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi este fric\u0103 s\u0103 nu fii dat afar\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am citit cuvintele de dou\u0103 ori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 acesta fusese, de fapt, \u00eentregul rost al valizei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maria nu \u00eencercase s\u0103 scape de responsabilit\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu refuzase s\u0103 contribuie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu ceruse s\u0103 fie \u00eentre\u021binut\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Voise doar s\u0103 ne aminteasc\u0103 faptul c\u0103 o familie nu este o rela\u021bie \u00eentre proprietar \u0219i chiria\u0219.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este locul \u00een care \u00eenve\u021bi s\u0103 fii responsabil f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi fie team\u0103 c\u0103 vei pierde iubirea celor apropia\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Locul \u00een care ajutorul nu devine automat o datorie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i locul \u00een care respectul trebuie s\u0103 existe \u00een ambele sensuri, indiferent cine aduce mai mul\u021bi bani acas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen acea diminea\u021b\u0103, fiica noastr\u0103 venise cu o valiz\u0103 plin\u0103 de amintiri, documente \u0219i \u00eentreb\u0103ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar plecase spre serviciu l\u0103s\u00e2ndu-ne ceva mult mai important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O lec\u021bie despre iubire, demnitate \u0219i felul \u00een care ar trebui s\u0103 ne trat\u0103m oamenii cei mai dragi.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar eu, la patruzeci \u0219i \u0219ase de ani, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat de la propriul meu copil ceva ce nu reu\u0219isem s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg pe deplin nici dup\u0103 dou\u0103zeci de ani de c\u0103snicie:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu p\u0103strezi o familie unit\u0103 prin amenin\u021b\u0103ri \u0219i obliga\u021bii. O p\u0103strezi prin respect, comunicare \u0219i siguran\u021ba c\u0103 fiecare om are un loc acolo, chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd trece printr-o perioad\u0103 grea.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Documentul pe care so\u021bul meu credea c\u0103 l-am uitat Adrian a r\u0103mas cu cea\u0219ca de cafea \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103. Fiica noastr\u0103 st\u0103tea \u00een fa\u021ba lui, cu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":51933,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52045"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=52045"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52045\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":52046,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52045\/revisions\/52046"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/51933"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=52045"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=52045"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=52045"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}