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\u2014 Doamn\u0103, Matei mi-a cump\u0103rat m\u00e2ncare, a \u0219optit b\u0103ie\u021belul. \u0218i i-a ajutat \u0219i pe ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103 \u00een pragul s\u0103lii de sport.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei \u00ee\u0219i fr\u0103m\u00e2nta degetele \u0219i evita s\u0103 m\u0103 priveasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pe masa din fa\u021ba lui erau c\u00e2teva farfurii de carton, dou\u0103 sticle cu ap\u0103 \u0219i o cutie \u00een care cineva pusese bancnote \u0219i monede.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Matei, am spus \u00eencet, vino pu\u021bin la mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S-a apropiat cu pa\u0219i mici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mami, \u0219tiu c\u0103 mi-ai spus s\u0103 cump\u0103r ce m\u0103 face fericit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 A\u0219a este.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i am f\u0103cut asta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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M-am uitat la el, apoi la b\u0103ie\u021belul care \u00ee\u0219i \u0219tergea lacrimile cu m\u00e2neca gecii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci poveste\u0219te-mi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei a inspirat ad\u00e2nc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar promite-mi c\u0103 nu te superi c\u0103 n-am cump\u0103rat nimic pentru mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen clipa aceea, doamna Mariana s-a apropiat \u0219i mi-a pus u\u0219or m\u00e2na pe um\u0103r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Doamn\u0103 Andreea, cred c\u0103 ar fi bine s\u0103 v\u0103 spun eu cum a \u00eenceput totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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B\u0103ie\u021belul care privea de la distan\u021b\u0103<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea mi-a povestit c\u0103 t\u00e2rgul \u00eencepuse la ora zece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Curtea \u0219i sala de sport erau pline de copii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unii alergau de la un joc la altul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al\u021bii cump\u0103rau pr\u0103jituri, pizza \u0219i juc\u0103rii f\u0103cute manual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0103rin\u021bii voluntari amenajaser\u0103 standuri colorate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Se auzea muzic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era genul de zi pe care copiii o a\u0219teapt\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei intrase \u00een sal\u0103 cu cei 250 de lei \u00een buzunar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prima lui oprire fusese, bine\u00een\u021beles, standul cu fursecuri uria\u0219e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar \u00eenainte s\u0103 cumpere ceva, observase un copil st\u00e2nd singur l\u00e2ng\u0103 perete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se numea Rare\u0219.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Avea zece ani \u0219i se transferase la \u0219coal\u0103 cu doar o lun\u0103 \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu participa la niciun joc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu avea bilet pentru tombol\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i privea \u00een t\u0103cere cum ceilal\u021bi copii \u00ee\u0219i cump\u0103rau m\u00e2ncare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei se apropiase de el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2014 Tu de ce nu te joci?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rare\u0219 ridicase din umeri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu vreau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar ai v\u0103zut jocul cu inele? Po\u021bi c\u00e2\u0219tiga o minge!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu am bani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei se uitase la bancnotele din m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2014 Nici m\u0103car pentru pizza?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rare\u0219 cl\u0103tinase din cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mama mi-a zis s\u0103 nu cer nim\u0103nui nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Atunci Matei luase o hot\u0103r\u00e2re.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 P\u0103i nu ceri. Te invit eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Primii bani cheltui\u021bi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Matei \u00eel dusese pe Rare\u0219 la standul cu pizza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cump\u0103rase dou\u0103 felii \u0219i dou\u0103 pahare cu suc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi \u00eei pl\u0103tise participarea la un joc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rare\u0219 c\u00e2\u0219tigase o ma\u0219inu\u021b\u0103 mic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Doamna Mariana mi-a povestit c\u0103 b\u0103ie\u021belul o \u021binuse \u00een palm\u0103 de parc\u0103 ar fi fost cel mai pre\u021bios lucru din lume.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu trebuie s\u0103-mi dai toate astea, \u00eei spusese Rare\u0219.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tiu. Dar vreau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei ridicase din umeri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 e mai distractiv s\u0103 te joci cu cineva dec\u00e2t singur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se umezesc ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar povestea nu se terminase acolo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen timp ce m\u00e2ncau, Matei observase \u00eenc\u0103 doi copii care priveau standurile f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 cumpere nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unul dintre ei era \u00een clasa a treia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Cel\u0103lalt, \u00een clasa a patra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei \u00eei chemase l\u00e2ng\u0103 el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Vre\u021bi s\u0103 juc\u0103m ceva \u00eempreun\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Copiii acceptaser\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar el \u00eencepuse s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 \u0219i pentru ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00centrebarea care a schimbat t\u00e2rgul<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 aproape o or\u0103, Matei ajunsese la standul organizat de doamna Mariana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea \u00eel observase \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bind jetoane altor copii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Matei, v\u0103d c\u0103 e\u0219ti foarte generos ast\u0103zi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mama mi-a dat bani s\u0103 cump\u0103r ce m\u0103 face fericit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i ce te face fericit?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 S\u0103 nu stea nimeni singur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doamna Mariana z\u00e2mbise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar apoi Matei o \u00eentrebase ceva nea\u0219teptat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2014 Doamna, de ce unii copii nu au bani deloc la t\u00e2rg?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea \u00eei explicase c\u0103 familiile au situa\u021bii diferite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unele \u00ee\u0219i permit mai multe lucruri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Altele trebuie s\u0103 fie foarte atente la cheltuieli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i exist\u0103 copii pentru care chiar \u0219i o felie de pizza poate fi un r\u0103sf\u0103\u021b greu de pl\u0103tit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei r\u0103m\u0103sese pe g\u00e2nduri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar t\u00e2rgul este pentru toat\u0103 \u0219coala, nu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci n-ar trebui s\u0103 se poat\u0103 distra toat\u0103 lumea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Doamna Mariana mi-a m\u0103rturisit c\u0103 \u00eentrebarea aceea o pusese pe g\u00e2nduri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Organizaser\u0103 t\u00e2rgul cu inten\u021bii bune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Str\u00e2ngeau bani pentru materiale educa\u021bionale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar nu se g\u00e2ndiser\u0103 suficient la copiii care nu puteau cump\u0103ra nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Cutia de carton<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Matei g\u0103sise o cutie goal\u0103 l\u00e2ng\u0103 standul cu rechizite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ceruse o coal\u0103 de h\u00e2rtie \u0219i un marker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi scrisese:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201ePENTRU CA NIMENI S\u0102 NU R\u0102M\u00c2N\u0102 PE DINAFAR\u0102.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sub mesaj ad\u0103ugase:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eDac\u0103 ai bani \u00een plus, po\u021bi ajuta. Dac\u0103 nu ai, po\u021bi lua un jeton.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Se \u00eentorsese la \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Doamna, pot s\u0103 pun banii mei aici?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ca s\u0103 cump\u0103r\u0103m bilete \u0219i m\u00e2ncare pentru copiii care nu au.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea \u00eel privise surprins\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar tu ce o s\u0103-\u021bi mai cumperi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei z\u00e2mbise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2014 Eu deja am m\u00e2ncat pizza cu Rare\u0219. \u0218i am jucat un joc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 E\u0219ti sigur?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu ajutorul doamnei Mariana, cutia fusese a\u0219ezat\u0103 la un stand supravegheat de adul\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei pusese \u00een ea banii care \u00eei r\u0103m\u0103seser\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea verificase suma \u0219i organizase distribuirea jetoanelor astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t niciun copil s\u0103 nu fie pus \u00eentr-o situa\u021bie st\u00e2njenitoare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu era vorba despre a ar\u0103ta cu degetul cine avea bani \u0219i cine nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era vorba despre a-i include pe to\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ce au f\u0103cut ceilal\u021bi copii<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

La \u00eenceput, c\u00e2\u021biva colegi au privit cutia cu ne\u00eencredere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un b\u0103iat a \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De ce dai banii t\u0103i altora?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei a r\u0103spuns simplu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 eu am primit mai mul\u021bi dec\u00e2t \u00eemi trebuie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar nu mai po\u021bi c\u00e2\u0219tiga ursule\u021bul acela mare!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu-i nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Tu chiar nu vrei nimic?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Matei s-a uitat spre Rare\u0219, care r\u00e2dea \u00een timp ce \u00eencerca s\u0103 arunce un inel pe o sticl\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ba da. Vreau s\u0103 se distreze \u0219i el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un coleg a scos zece lei din buzunar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pot s\u0103 pun \u0219i eu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Sigur!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva minute, o feti\u021b\u0103 a venit cu cinci lei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Apoi un alt b\u0103iat cu dou\u0103zeci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un p\u0103rinte care auzise ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 a contribuit \u0219i el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Organizatorii au \u00eenceput s\u0103 ofere c\u00e2teva jetoane suplimentare din fondul evenimentului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen mai pu\u021bin de dou\u0103 ore, ideea unui copil de unsprezece ani devenise o ini\u021biativ\u0103 a \u00eentregii \u0219coli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i tocmai asta o emo\u021bionase at\u00e2t de tare pe doamna Mariana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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De ce pl\u00e2ngea \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Doamn\u0103 Andreea, mi-a spus ea, \u00een dou\u0103zeci \u0219i patru de ani de \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m\u00e2nt am v\u0103zut mul\u021bi copii buni. Dar ast\u0103zi fiul dumneavoastr\u0103 ne-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 observ\u0103m ceva ce noi, adul\u021bii, trecuser\u0103m cu vederea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi-am \u0219ters ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Eu doar i-am dat ni\u0219te bani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tiu. Dar felul \u00een care a ales s\u0103-i foloseasc\u0103 spune multe despre el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am privit spre Matei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

St\u0103tea cu m\u00e2inile la spate, de parc\u0103 a\u0219tepta s\u0103 fie certat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2014 Mami, chiar nu e\u0219ti sup\u0103rat\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M-am aplecat \u0219i l-am \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu, puiule.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nici c\u0103 am cheltuit to\u021bi cei 250 de lei?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i nici c\u0103 nu \u021bi-am cump\u0103rat ceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d printre lacrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Matei, tu mi-ai f\u0103cut deja un cadou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M-a privit nedumerit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce cadou?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mi-ai ar\u0103tat ce fel de om \u00eencepi s\u0103 devii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M-a str\u00e2ns \u0219i mai tare \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Povestea lui Rare\u0219<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenainte s\u0103 plec\u0103m, doamna Mariana m-a rugat s\u0103 mai r\u0103m\u00e2n c\u00e2teva minute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi-a explicat, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 intre \u00een detalii care \u021bineau de via\u021ba privat\u0103 a familiei, c\u0103 Rare\u0219 trecea printr-o perioad\u0103 dificil\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mama lui \u00eel cre\u0219tea singur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se mutaser\u0103 recent \u00een ora\u0219.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Femeia \u00ee\u0219i pierduse serviciul \u0219i \u00eencerca s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 altul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rare\u0219 venise la t\u00e2rg pentru c\u0103 voia s\u0103 fie al\u0103turi de colegi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar nu avusese bani pentru activit\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu i-a spus nim\u0103nui c\u0103 \u00eei este greu, mi-a explicat \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea. Probabil \u00eei era ru\u0219ine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am privit spre b\u0103ie\u021bel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenc\u0103 \u021binea ma\u0219inu\u021ba c\u00e2\u0219tigat\u0103 la joc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Rare\u0219, am spus, \u021bi-a pl\u0103cut t\u00e2rgul?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Care a fost partea ta preferat\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S-a uitat spre Matei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 C\u00e2nd am avut cu cine s\u0103 m\u0103 joc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Atunci am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 cei 250 de lei nu cump\u0103raser\u0103 doar pizza \u0219i jetoane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cump\u0103raser\u0103, pentru c\u00e2teva ore, sentimentul c\u0103 un copil nu era exclus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O \u00eentrebare pe drumul spre cas\u0103<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen ma\u0219in\u0103, Matei a fost neobi\u0219nuit de t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De obicei, dup\u0103 \u0219coal\u0103 vorbea f\u0103r\u0103 oprire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen ziua aceea privea pe geam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 La ce te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti? l-am \u00eentrebat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mami, crezi c\u0103 Rare\u0219 o s\u0103 aib\u0103 bani data viitoare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am ezitat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu \u0219tiu, puiule.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar dac\u0103 nu are?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci poate \u0219coala va g\u0103si o solu\u021bie ca to\u021bi copiii s\u0103 participe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei s-a g\u00e2ndit pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Putem s\u0103 facem \u0219i noi ceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am privit drumul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218tiam c\u00e2t de greu \u00eemi era uneori s\u0103 m\u0103 descurc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu aveam economii mari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu puteam rezolva problemele tuturor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar nici nu voiam s\u0103-i spun c\u0103 bun\u0103tatea este inutil\u0103 doar pentru c\u0103 nu putem face totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Putem \u00eencerca s\u0103 ajut\u0103m \u00een moduri care nu ne dep\u0103\u0219esc posibilit\u0103\u021bile, i-am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Adic\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Putem vorbi cu doamna Mariana. Putem dona rechizite c\u00e2nd avem \u00een plus. Putem ajuta la organizarea unor activit\u0103\u021bi gratuite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i pot s\u0103 fiu prieten cu Rare\u0219.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Asta po\u021bi face chiar de m\u00e2ine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cina noastr\u0103 obi\u0219nuit\u0103<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen seara aceea, am preg\u0103tit paste cu sos de ro\u0219ii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era una dintre m\u00e2nc\u0103rurile preferate ale lui Matei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne-am a\u0219ezat la mas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca \u00een fiecare sear\u0103, am \u00eenceput jocul nostru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Cel mai frumos lucru de ast\u0103zi? l-am \u00eentrebat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 C\u00e2nd Rare\u0219 a c\u00e2\u0219tigat ma\u0219inu\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i cel mai ur\u00e2t?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A r\u0103mas pe g\u00e2nduri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 C\u00e2nd mi-am dat seama c\u0103 el st\u0103tea singur \u0219i nimeni nu observase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Acum e r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u, mami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am luat o \u00eenghi\u021bitur\u0103 de ap\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Cel mai ur\u00e2t moment a fost c\u00e2nd m-a sunat doamna Mariana \u0219i am crezut c\u0103 ai p\u0103\u021bit ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei s-a \u00eencruntat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 te-ai speriat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu ai de ce s\u0103-\u021bi ceri iertare. Nu a fost vina ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i cel mai frumos?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L-am privit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 C\u00e2nd am intrat \u00een sala de sport \u0219i am aflat ce ai f\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A z\u00e2mbit larg.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 eu am fost partea ta frumoas\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci ai voie s\u0103 ai dou\u0103 p\u0103r\u021bi frumoase?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ast\u0103zi schimb\u0103m regulile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mesajul primit a doua zi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Diminea\u021ba urm\u0103toare, doamna Mariana mi-a trimis un mesaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cemi spunea c\u0103 profesorii discutaser\u0103 despre ini\u021biativa lui Matei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hot\u0103r\u00e2ser\u0103 s\u0103 organizeze viitoarele t\u00e2rguri astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t fiecare copil s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 un num\u0103r de jetoane gratuite pentru activit\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Familiile care doreau puteau contribui voluntar la un fond comun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Copiii nu aveau s\u0103 fie \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bi\u021bi \u00een categorii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nimeni nu trebuia s\u0103 dovedeasc\u0103 faptul c\u0103 este s\u0103rac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To\u021bi urmau s\u0103 poat\u0103 participa m\u0103car la c\u00e2teva jocuri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La finalul mesajului, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea scrisese:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eUneori, avem nevoie de un copil ca s\u0103 ne aminteasc\u0103 ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat o comunitate.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am citit mesajul de trei ori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi l-am chemat pe Matei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Vino s\u0103 vezi ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A citit cu aten\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Adic\u0103 data viitoare Rare\u0219 nu o s\u0103 mai stea singur?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Sper c\u0103 nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci a meritat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O surpriz\u0103 de la colegi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

O s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 mai t\u00e2rziu, la \u0219coal\u0103 a avut loc o mic\u0103 festivitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu era un eveniment mare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doar c\u00e2teva clase adunate \u00een sala de sport.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doamna directoare a vorbit despre solidaritate \u0219i despre importan\u021ba de a observa c\u00e2nd cineva are nevoie de ajutor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu a prezentat numele copiilor care primiser\u0103 jetoane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu a vorbit despre problemele financiare ale vreunei familii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen schimb, le-a mul\u021bumit tuturor elevilor care contribuiser\u0103 la ini\u021biativ\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi l-a chemat pe Matei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fiul meu s-a ridicat ro\u0219u la fa\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Eu n-am f\u0103cut mare lucru, a murmurat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doamna directoare a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ai avut o idee bun\u0103 \u0219i i-ai \u00eencurajat pe ceilal\u021bi s\u0103 participe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Colegii au \u00eenceput s\u0103 aplaude.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei se uita spre podea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 festivitate, Rare\u0219 s-a apropiat de el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Vrei s\u0103 vii s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 \u00een parc?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei a ridicat imediat privirea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Sigur! Aduc mingea!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rare\u0219 a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i, pentru mine, acela a fost momentul cel mai important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu aplauzele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu felicit\u0103rile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ci faptul c\u0103 doi copii deveniser\u0103 prieteni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce mi-a spus mama lui Rare\u0219<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen s\u00e2mb\u0103ta aceea, am mers cu Matei \u00een parc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rare\u0219 ne a\u0219tepta l\u00e2ng\u0103 locul de joac\u0103, \u00eempreun\u0103 cu mama lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era o femeie de aproximativ treizeci \u0219i cinci de ani, cu ochii obosi\u021bi \u0219i un z\u00e2mbet timid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dumneavoastr\u0103 sunte\u021bi mama lui Matei?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da. Andreea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Eu sunt Ioana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne-am str\u00e2ns m\u00e2inile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Copiii au fugit imediat spre terenul de fotbal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ioana a r\u0103mas l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Voiam s\u0103 v\u0103 mul\u021bumesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru b\u0103iatul dumneavoastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Matei mi-a povestit despre Rare\u0219.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ioana a privit spre copii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u00cen ultima vreme, fiului meu i-a fost greu s\u0103 se adapteze. Ne-am mutat, a schimbat \u0219coala \u0219i a pierdut leg\u0103tura cu prietenii lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A f\u0103cut o pauz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u00cen ziua t\u00e2rgului, a venit acas\u0103 z\u00e2mbind pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 multe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am sim\u021bit un nod \u00een g\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 M\u0103 bucur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu mi-a vorbit at\u00e2t despre pizza sau despre juc\u0103rie. Mi-a vorbit despre Matei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am privit spre teren.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fiul meu alerga dup\u0103 minge, iar Rare\u0219 r\u00e2dea \u00een hohote.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Cred c\u0103 \u0219i Matei a c\u00e2\u0219tigat un prieten, i-am spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ioana a \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Uneori, asta valoreaz\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t orice cadou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lec\u021bia pe care am primit-o eu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen seara aceea, dup\u0103 ce Matei a adormit, am r\u0103mas singur\u0103 \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe mas\u0103 se afla portofelul meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L-am deschis \u0219i m-am uitat la locul \u00een care fusese bancnota de 200 de lei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu eram o mam\u0103 perfect\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uneori eram prea obosit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uneori ridicam vocea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alteori m\u0103 sim\u021beam vinovat\u0103 c\u0103 nu \u00eei puteam oferi fiului meu tot ce aveau colegii lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vedeam fotografii cu vacan\u021be scumpe, camere pline de juc\u0103rii \u0219i anivers\u0103ri spectaculoase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i m\u0103 \u00eentrebam dac\u0103 Matei sim\u021bea lipsa acelor lucruri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar \u00een ziua t\u00e2rgului \u00een\u021belesesem ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu toate lucrurile importante pot fi cump\u0103rate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i nu toate lec\u021biile valoroase sunt predate de adul\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu \u00eei d\u0103dusem fiului meu 250 de lei, crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 \u00eei ofer o zi de distrac\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

El transformase banii \u00eentr-o ocazie de a-i face \u0219i pe al\u021bii ferici\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar mie \u00eemi oferise un motiv s\u0103 fiu m\u00e2ndr\u0103 de omul care devenea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fursecul uria\u0219<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

La aproape dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni dup\u0103 t\u00e2rg, Matei a venit acas\u0103 cu o pung\u0103 de h\u00e2rtie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mami, am ceva pentru tine!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce ai acolo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A scos din pung\u0103 un fursec imens, cu buc\u0103\u021bele de ciocolat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Celebrul fursec uria\u0219?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Exact!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De unde \u00eel ai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Doamna de la cofet\u0103ria care a participat la t\u00e2rg a auzit povestea \u0219i mi-a dat unul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i nu l-ai m\u00e2ncat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei a cl\u0103tinat din cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu. L-am p\u0103strat pentru noi doi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L-am privit emo\u021bionat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 tu mi-ai dat banii. \u0218i vreau s\u0103 ai \u0219i tu parte de ceva bun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am luat un cu\u021bit \u0219i am t\u0103iat fursecul \u00een dou\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne-am a\u0219ezat la masa din buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era at\u00e2t de mare, \u00eenc\u00e2t abia \u00eenc\u0103pea pe farfurie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei a mu\u0219cat din jum\u0103tatea lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mami, e cel mai bun fursec din lume!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am gustat \u0219i eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Cred c\u0103 ai dreptate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi m-a \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dac\u0103 anul viitor \u00eemi dai iar bani pentru t\u00e2rg, pot s\u0103 fac acela\u0219i lucru?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Po\u021bi s\u0103 alegi ce te face fericit, Matei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A r\u0103mas pe g\u00e2nduri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci cred c\u0103 o s\u0103 pun iar c\u00e2\u021biva bani \u00een cutie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mi se pare o idee frumoas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar data viitoare o s\u0103-mi cump\u0103r \u0219i eu un fursec!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am izbucnit am\u00e2ndoi \u00een r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cel mai frumos lucru pe care \u00eel poate \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba un copil<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Au trecut c\u00e2teva luni de atunci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei \u0219i Rare\u0219 sunt \u00een continuare prieteni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se joac\u0103 fotbal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00ce\u0219i fac temele \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i uneori se ceart\u0103 pentru lucruri m\u0103runte, a\u0219a cum fac to\u021bi copiii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La \u0219coal\u0103, ideea jetoanelor gratuite a r\u0103mas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu a rezolvat toate problemele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar a f\u0103cut ca mai mul\u021bi copii s\u0103 se simt\u0103 inclu\u0219i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar eu am p\u0103strat o fotografie de la t\u00e2rg.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen ea, Matei \u0219i Rare\u0219 stau unul l\u00e2ng\u0103 cel\u0103lalt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rare\u0219 \u021bine \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 ma\u0219inu\u021ba c\u00e2\u0219tigat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matei r\u00e2de cu toat\u0103 fa\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen spatele lor se vede cutia de carton cu mesajul scris de fiul meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201ePENTRU CA NIMENI S\u0102 NU R\u0102M\u00c2N\u0102 PE DINAFAR\u0102.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am pus fotografia pe frigider.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O v\u0103d \u00een fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i de fiecare dat\u0103 \u00eemi amintesc de telefonul primit la ora 14:18.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De vocea tremurat\u0103 a \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De spaima cu care am alergat spre \u0219coal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i de clipa \u00een care am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 fiul meu f\u0103cuse ceva ce eu nu i-a\u0219 fi putut cere niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A ales singur s\u0103 \u00eempart\u0103 ceea ce avea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I-am dat 250 de lei ca s\u0103-\u0219i cumpere o zi frumoas\u0103. El a folosit banii ca s\u0103 fac\u0103 ziua mai frumoas\u0103 \u0219i pentru al\u021bi copii.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu \u0219tiu ce meserie va avea Matei c\u00e2nd va cre\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 va deveni medic, profesor, inginer sau va alege cu totul alt drum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar sper s\u0103 nu piard\u0103 niciodat\u0103 acea parte din el care a observat un copil singur, s-a apropiat \u0219i i-a spus:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Hai s\u0103 ne juc\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103, uneori, cel mai mare dar nu este ceea ce cumperi pentru cineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este felul \u00een care \u00eel faci s\u0103 simt\u0103 c\u0103 are \u0219i el un loc printre ceilal\u021bi.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u2014 Doamn\u0103, Matei mi-a cump\u0103rat m\u00e2ncare, a \u0219optit b\u0103ie\u021belul. \u0218i i-a ajutat \u0219i pe ceilal\u021bi. Am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103 \u00een pragul s\u0103lii de sport. Matei \u00ee\u0219i<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":51995,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51993"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=51993"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51993\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":51996,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51993\/revisions\/51996"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/51995"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=51993"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=51993"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=51993"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}