{"id":51966,"date":"2026-11-12T12:21:28","date_gmt":"2026-11-12T12:21:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=51966"},"modified":"2026-11-12T12:21:28","modified_gmt":"2026-11-12T12:21:28","slug":"zece-ani-am-trait-cu-el-ca-o-sotie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=51966","title":{"rendered":"ZECE ANI AM TR\u0102IT CU EL CA O SO\u021aIE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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Mihai a l\u0103sat foile pe mas\u0103 \u0219i s-a uitat la mine de parc\u0103 nu m\u0103 mai recuno\u0219tea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 asta, Andreea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u00censeamn\u0103 c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 ne desp\u0103r\u021bim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A clipit de c\u00e2teva ori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2014 Pentru o prostie spus\u0103 la restaurant?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu pentru o prostie. Pentru adev\u0103rul pe care mi l-ai spus dup\u0103 zece ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A ridicat din nou documentele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00cen plic se afla o notificare scris\u0103 de mine, prin care \u00eei comunicam c\u0103 nu mai doream s\u0103 continu\u0103m convie\u021buirea \u0219i c\u0103 trebuia s\u0103 stabilim, \u00eentr-un termen rezonabil, cum urma s\u0103 se mute din casa mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu era un ordin judec\u0103toresc \u0219i nu pretindeam c\u0103 \u00eel puteam scoate din locuin\u021b\u0103 peste noapte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era \u00eens\u0103 prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00eei spuneam limpede c\u0103 rela\u021bia noastr\u0103 se terminase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mai era acolo o copie a contractului de credit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u0218i un extras din cartea funciar\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De ce ai scos actele casei? a \u00eentrebat el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 asear\u0103 mi-am dat seama c\u0103 tu \u0219i cu mine nu \u00een\u021belegem la fel cuv\u00e2ntul \u201e\u00eempreun\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce leg\u0103tur\u0103 are casa cu nunta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2014 O s\u0103 ajungem \u0219i acolo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mihai s-a a\u0219ezat \u00een fa\u021ba mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenc\u0103 p\u0103rea convins c\u0103 totul era o demonstra\u021bie menit\u0103 s\u0103-l sperie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Andreea, hai s\u0103 fim maturi. Nu po\u021bi s\u0103 arunci zece ani pentru c\u0103 nu vreau eu o ceremonie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L-am privit \u00een ochi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2014 Nu ceremonia era problema, Mihai. Problema era c\u0103 tu \u0219tiai de ani \u00eentregi c\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103 te c\u0103s\u0103tore\u0219ti cu mine \u0219i m-ai l\u0103sat s\u0103 cred altceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 N-am promis nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Exact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am luat o gur\u0103 de cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 N-ai promis nimic. Dar ai acceptat tot ce \u00ee\u021bi ofeream.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Lucrurile pe care nu le observasem timp de zece ani<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

La \u00eenceputul rela\u021biei noastre, Mihai era omul care \u00eemi aducea flori f\u0103r\u0103 motiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cemi preg\u0103tea cafeaua diminea\u021ba \u0219i \u00eemi trimitea mesaje c\u00e2nd \u0219tia c\u0103 aveam o zi grea la serviciu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu m\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gostisem de un om rece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gostisem de cineva care p\u0103rea s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Poate tocmai de aceea \u00eemi fusese at\u00e2t de greu s\u0103 observ schimb\u0103rile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 ce cump\u0103raser\u0103m casa, Mihai \u00eencepuse s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 tot mai des despre lucrurile care \u00eei lipseau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Voia un televizor mai mare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Voia s\u0103 schimb\u0103m ma\u0219ina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Voia s\u0103 mergem \u00een concedii mai scumpe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd \u00eei spuneam c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fim aten\u021bi cu banii, \u00eemi r\u0103spundea:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu tr\u0103im dec\u00e2t o dat\u0103, Andreea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Eu c\u00e2\u0219tigam mai bine dec\u00e2t el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lucram ca specialist financiar la o firm\u0103 din Bra\u0219ov \u0219i aveam un salariu stabil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mihai lucra \u00een v\u00e2nz\u0103ri, iar veniturile lui variau de la o lun\u0103 la alta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu m\u0103 deranja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00centr-o familie, oamenii nu trebuie s\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tige exact la fel ca s\u0103 fie parteneri egali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar, privind \u00een urm\u0103, \u00eemi d\u0103deam seama c\u0103 eu devenisem persoana care se ocupa de toate lucrurile nepl\u0103cute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Rate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Facturi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Asigur\u0103ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Repara\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Economii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar Mihai era cel care spunea c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m mai mult de via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd ap\u0103rea o problem\u0103, o rezolvam eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd ap\u0103rea o oportunitate de distrac\u021bie, o organiza el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i, cumva, ajunsesem s\u0103 consider aceast\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bire normal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Contul comun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen noaptea de dup\u0103 aniversarea noastr\u0103, nu reu\u0219isem s\u0103 dorm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La \u00eenceput, m\u0103 uitasem la tavan \u0219i repetasem \u00een minte cuvintele lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eUnde s\u0103 mai pleci?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu faptul c\u0103 refuza c\u0103s\u0103toria m\u0103 duruse cel mai tare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ci siguran\u021ba cu care presupunea c\u0103 nu voi pleca niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pe la dou\u0103 diminea\u021ba, m-am ridicat \u0219i am mers \u00een birou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am deschis laptopul \u0219i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 verific situa\u021bia financiar\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu pentru c\u0103 pl\u0103nuiam o r\u0103zbunare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ci pentru c\u0103 trebuia s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg ce \u00eensemna, practic, o desp\u0103r\u021bire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Am desc\u0103rcat extrasele contului comun din ultimele \u0219ase luni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218tiam c\u0103 de acolo se pl\u0103teau utilit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i cump\u0103r\u0103turile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218tiam c\u0103 am\u00e2ndoi aveam acces la bani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar nu verificasem de mult fiecare tranzac\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 citesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Plata energiei electrice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Internet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Supermarket.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Asigurarea locuin\u021bei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi am v\u0103zut o retragere de 4.000 de lei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Urmat\u0103, c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni mai t\u00e2rziu, de una de 3.500 de lei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u0218i \u00eenc\u0103 una, de 5.000.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am continuat s\u0103 caut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen \u0219ase luni, Mihai retr\u0103sese aproape 28.000 de lei \u00een numerar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu erau bani care lipseau \u00een mod inexplicabil din banc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tranzac\u021biile erau \u00eenregistrate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar eu nu \u0219tiam pentru ce fuseser\u0103 folosi\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i nici nu-mi aminteam s\u0103 fi discutat vreodat\u0103 despre ele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am sim\u021bit un nod \u00een stomac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00eei spuneam c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 punem mai mult deoparte, Mihai \u00eemi r\u0103spundea c\u0103 via\u021ba devenise foarte scump\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum \u00eencepeam s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb c\u00e2t din acea explica\u021bie era adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00centrebarea care i-a schimbat expresia<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen buc\u0103t\u0103rie, Mihai continua s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 documentele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce vrei s\u0103 fac? S\u0103 m\u0103 mut la hotel?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Vreau s\u0103 stabilim o solu\u021bie corect\u0103. Dar mai \u00eent\u00e2i trebuie s\u0103 vorbim despre bani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A ridicat spr\u00e2ncenele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce bani?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eentors laptopul spre el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce ai f\u0103cut cu cei aproape 28.000 de lei retra\u0219i din contul comun?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A \u00eencremenit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De unde ai scos suma asta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Din extrase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Sunt banii no\u0219tri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tiu. Tocmai de aceea te \u00eentreb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A \u00eenceput s\u0103 se foiasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Am avut ni\u0219te cheltuieli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce cheltuieli?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Lucruri personale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De aproape 28.000 de lei?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Andreea, nu trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi justific fiecare leu!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am r\u0103mas calm\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu fiecare leu. Dar o sum\u0103 at\u00e2t de mare, luat\u0103 din economiile comune, merit\u0103 m\u0103car o explica\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A \u00eempins scaunul \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Acum m\u0103 controlezi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu. \u00cencerc s\u0103 aflu ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat cu banii pe care credeam c\u0103 \u00eei economisim \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mihai s-a ridicat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 N-am chef de interogatorii la prima or\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i a ie\u0219it din buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De data aceasta, nu m-am dus dup\u0103 el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Discu\u021bia cu sora mea<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen acea diminea\u021b\u0103 am sunat-o pe sora mea mai mare, Elena.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Locuia \u00een Sibiu \u0219i era una dintre pu\u021binele persoane c\u0103rora le puteam spune orice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat? m-a \u00eentrebat imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I-am povestit despre aniversare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despre r\u00e2sul lui Mihai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despre refuzul lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i despre banii retra\u0219i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Elena m-a ascultat \u00een lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Andreea, pot s\u0103-\u021bi spun ceva f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te superi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Sigur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De c\u00e2\u021biva ani am impresia c\u0103 tu te str\u0103duie\u0219ti s\u0103 p\u0103strezi rela\u021bia, iar el doar se bucur\u0103 de ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eenchis ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De ce nu mi-ai spus?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u021ai-am spus, dar de fiecare dat\u0103 \u00eemi explicai c\u0103 Mihai e doar obosit sau stresat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi-am amintit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Avea dreptate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd cineva observa c\u0103 Mihai m\u0103 trata cu indiferen\u021b\u0103, g\u0103seam eu o explica\u021bie \u00een locul lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 fac, Elena.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, nu lua decizii financiare importante f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti cu un avocat. \u00cen al doilea r\u00e2nd, g\u00e2nde\u0219te-te la ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti tu, nu doar la ce ar accepta el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am r\u0103mas t\u0103cut\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era o \u00eentrebare simpl\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce \u00eemi doream eu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu ce voia Mihai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu ce credeau prietenii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu ce ar fi spus rudele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i, pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 foarte mult timp, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 caut r\u0103spunsul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce am aflat despre banii disp\u0103ru\u021bi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Dou\u0103 zile mai t\u00e2rziu, Mihai a venit acas\u0103 mai devreme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M-a g\u0103sit \u00een sufragerie, citind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Putem vorbi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eenchis cartea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S-a a\u0219ezat pe fotoliu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Am fost la banc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Am scos extrasele. Ai dreptate \u00een privin\u021ba sumelor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am a\u0219teptat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Am \u00eemprumutat ni\u0219te bani fratelui meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L-am privit surprins\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fratele lui, Sorin, avea o mic\u0103 firm\u0103 de transport.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu ne vizitam des, dar \u0219tiam c\u0103 afacerea trecuse prin perioade dificile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 C\u00e2t i-ai dat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Aproape tot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 F\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi spui?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Avea nevoie urgent\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i de ce nu ai discutat cu mine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mihai a ridicat din umeri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tiam c\u0103 o s\u0103 spui nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am sim\u021bit cum m\u0103 cuprinde o oboseal\u0103 profund\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Deci ai decis singur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Era fratele meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Iar banii erau economiile noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 O s\u0103-i dea \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 C\u00e2nd?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu \u0219tiu exact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am inspirat ad\u00e2nc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Exist\u0103 vreun contract?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Vreo confirmare scris\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Avem mesaje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu \u0219tiam dac\u0103 \u00eemprumutul era singura explica\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar \u0219tiam c\u0103 Mihai luase o decizie important\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 consulte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i c\u0103 nu ar fi recunoscut-o dac\u0103 nu verificam extrasele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eCredeam c\u0103 nu m\u0103 vei p\u0103r\u0103si niciodat\u0103\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen aceea\u0219i sear\u0103, Mihai a \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 conving\u0103 s\u0103 renun\u021b la desp\u0103r\u021bire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Andreea, suntem \u00eempreun\u0103 de zece ani. Nu putem arunca totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu eu am spus c\u0103 nu m\u0103 voi c\u0103s\u0103tori niciodat\u0103 cu tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Eram nervos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 R\u00e2deai, Mihai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ai r\u00e2s c\u00e2nd \u021bi-am spus ce \u00eemi doresc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu mi-am dat seama c\u0103 te r\u0103nesc at\u00e2t de tare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De zece ani \u00ee\u021bi spun c\u0103 \u00eemi doresc o familie \u00een care am\u00e2ndoi ne asum\u0103m acelea\u0219i lucruri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar suntem o familie!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Atunci de ce ai ascuns un \u00eemprumut de aproape 28.000 de lei?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu a r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i de ce ai fost at\u00e2t de sigur c\u0103 nu te voi p\u0103r\u0103si?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mihai \u0219i-a cobor\u00e2t privirea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva secunde, a spus \u00eencet:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 am crezut c\u0103 m\u0103 iube\u0219ti prea mult ca s\u0103 pleci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am sim\u021bit o durere surd\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Te-am iubit, Mihai. Dar iubirea nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 pot accepta orice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A ridicat ochii spre mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i acum?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Acum trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b s\u0103 m\u0103 aleg \u0219i pe mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce \u00eensemna, de fapt, casa noastr\u0103<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na urm\u0103toare am avut o consulta\u021bie juridic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am dus contractul de credit, actul de proprietate \u0219i documentele referitoare la cheltuielile casei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Avocata, doamna Ana Marinescu, mi-a explicat c\u0103 trebuia s\u0103 separ\u0103m dou\u0103 probleme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prima era proprietatea locuin\u021bei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A doua era contribu\u021bia financiar\u0103 a fiec\u0103ruia \u00een timpul rela\u021biei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Casa figura pe numele meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu eram titulara creditului \u0219i persoana \u00eenscris\u0103 ca proprietar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar faptul c\u0103 nu eram c\u0103s\u0103tori\u021bi nu \u00eensemna c\u0103 orice sum\u0103 investit\u0103 de Mihai putea fi ignorat\u0103 automat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 exista un litigiu, contribu\u021biile \u0219i eventualele preten\u021bii trebuiau analizate pe baza documentelor \u0219i a regulilor legale aplicabile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu vreau s\u0103-i iau nimic din ce \u00eei apar\u021bine, i-am spus avocatei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Este o abordare corect\u0103. Important este s\u0103 ave\u021bi o eviden\u021b\u0103 clar\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 evita\u021bi orice m\u0103sur\u0103 unilateral\u0103 care ar putea complica situa\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu voiam s\u0103-l pedepsesc pe Mihai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Voiam doar s\u0103 nu mai fiu persoana care suport\u0103 singur\u0103 consecin\u021bele deciziilor lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ziua \u00een care a \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u00eempacheteze<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 mai multe discu\u021bii, Mihai a acceptat s\u0103 caute o alt\u0103 locuin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Au fost zile \u00een care p\u0103rea s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i zile \u00een care m\u0103 acuza c\u0103 distrugem tot ce construiser\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uneori \u00eemi spunea c\u0103 m\u0103 iube\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alteori c\u0103 voi regreta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu \u00eencercam s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n consecvent\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu mai voiam s\u0103 iau o decizie doar ca s\u0103 se termine o ceart\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00centr-o s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, l-am g\u0103sit \u00een dormitor, pun\u00e2nd haine \u00eentr-o valiz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Am g\u0103sit un apartament, mi-a spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 M\u0103 bucur c\u0103 ai rezolvat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S-a oprit din \u00eempachetat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Chiar nu m\u0103 rogi s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am r\u0103mas l\u00e2ng\u0103 u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A p\u0103rut surprins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dup\u0103 tot ce am avut?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Tocmai pentru c\u0103 \u0219tiu ce am avut, nu vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 mai prefac c\u0103 este suficient.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A \u00eenchis valiza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Credeam c\u0103 te vei r\u0103zg\u00e2ndi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i atunci am \u00een\u021beles ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mihai nu se temuse niciodat\u0103 c\u0103 m-ar putea pierde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu pentru c\u0103 era sigur de iubirea noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ci pentru c\u0103 era sigur c\u0103 eu voi face mereu compromisurile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ultima noastr\u0103 conversa\u021bie<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenainte s\u0103 plece, Mihai s-a oprit \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era aceea\u0219i \u00eenc\u0103pere pe care o renovaser\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aceea\u0219i mas\u0103 la care b\u0103user\u0103m cafeaua \u00een fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acelea\u0219i dulapuri pe care le aleseser\u0103m \u00eentr-o s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 ploioas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Andreea, mi-a spus, dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi promit acum c\u0103 ne c\u0103s\u0103torim, te r\u0103zg\u00e2nde\u0219ti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L-am privit mult timp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu zece ani \u00een urm\u0103, a\u0219 fi pl\u00e2ns de fericire la acea \u00eentrebare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu cinci ani \u00een urm\u0103, a\u0219 fi acceptat f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 clipesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chiar \u0219i cu c\u00e2teva luni \u00eenainte, probabil a\u0219 fi sim\u021bit c\u0103 visul meu era pe cale s\u0103 se \u00eemplineasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar acum lucrurile erau diferite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nu, Mihai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 nu vreau s\u0103 te c\u0103s\u0103tore\u0219ti cu mine de fric\u0103 s\u0103 nu pierzi casa sau via\u021ba pe care o aveam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Voiam s\u0103 faci asta pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi doreai cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar te iubesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Poate c\u0103 da. Dar ai confundat prea mult timp iubirea mea cu obliga\u021bia de a r\u0103m\u00e2ne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mihai \u0219i-a cobor\u00e2t capul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i mie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu l-am \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu pentru c\u0103 \u00eel uram.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ci pentru c\u0103 \u0219tiam c\u00e2t de u\u0219or a\u0219 fi putut transforma acel gest \u00eentr-o nou\u0103 promisiune pe care nu eram preg\u0103tit\u0103 s\u0103 o fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat cu banii<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Problema economiilor nu a disp\u0103rut odat\u0103 cu plecarea lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am continuat s\u0103 discut\u0103m despre sumele retrase din contul comun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mihai mi-a ar\u0103tat mesajele schimbate cu fratele lui \u0219i am cerut clarific\u0103ri despre \u00eemprumut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu ajutorul unor consult\u0103ri juridice, am \u00eencercat s\u0103 stabilim ce contribu\u021bii \u0219i obliga\u021bii avea fiecare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eenchis contul comun dup\u0103 ce am clarificat opera\u021biunile \u0219i am mutat pl\u0103\u021bile curente \u00een contul meu personal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu am recuperat imediat to\u021bi banii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O parte au fost restitui\u021bi treptat, iar pentru restul am stabilit \u00een scris pa\u0219ii de urmat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu a fost o victorie spectaculoas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu am primit un cec uria\u0219.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu s-a rezolvat totul \u00eentr-o singur\u0103 zi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar am \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai tr\u0103iesc cu senza\u021bia c\u0103 lucrurile financiare se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een jurul meu, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 am dreptul s\u0103 pun \u00eentreb\u0103ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Primele luni singur\u0103<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

La \u00eenceput, casa mi s-a p\u0103rut prea mare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Diminea\u021ba m\u0103 trezeam \u0219i m\u0103 a\u0219teptam s\u0103 aud pa\u0219ii lui Mihai pe hol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uneori puneam din obi\u0219nuin\u021b\u0103 dou\u0103 ce\u0219ti pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi \u00eemi aminteam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i puneam una \u00eenapoi \u00een dulap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Au existat seri \u00een care m-am \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 nu exagerasem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 nu ar fi trebuit s\u0103 accept c\u0103 unii oameni pur \u0219i simplu nu \u00ee\u0219i doresc s\u0103 se c\u0103s\u0103toreasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar apoi \u00eemi aminteam c\u0103 problema nu fusese doar c\u0103s\u0103toria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fusese felul \u00een care Mihai r\u00e2sese de o dorin\u021b\u0103 important\u0103 pentru mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fusese lipsa lui de sinceritate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fuseser\u0103 deciziile financiare ascunse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i siguran\u021ba c\u0103 eu nu aveam unde s\u0103 plec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00centr-o zi, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 schimb c\u00e2teva lucruri prin cas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am mutat masa l\u00e2ng\u0103 fereastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am cump\u0103rat perdele noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am transformat camera pe care o foloseam pentru depozitare \u00eentr-un mic birou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 ies din nou cu prietenele mele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu pentru c\u0103 voiam s\u0103 demonstrez ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ci pentru c\u0103 aveam, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, timp s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb ce \u00eemi f\u0103cea mie pl\u0103cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cent\u00e2lnirea nea\u0219teptat\u0103<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

La aproape \u0219ase luni dup\u0103 desp\u0103r\u021bire, l-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit pe Mihai \u00eentr-un supermarket.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era l\u00e2ng\u0103 raionul de cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M-a observat primul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Andreea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M-am \u00eentors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Bun\u0103, Mihai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A z\u00e2mbit st\u00e2njenit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ar\u0103\u021bi bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mul\u021bumesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Ce mai faci?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Sunt bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A urmat o t\u0103cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Eu \u00eenc\u0103 m\u0103 obi\u0219nuiesc, a spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Nici pentru mine n-a fost u\u0219or.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mihai a privit spre co\u0219ul meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mai ai c\u00e2inele?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da. Max e foarte bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Mi-e dor de el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi m-a privit direct.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Andreea, m-am g\u00e2ndit mult la ce mi-ai spus \u00een ultima noastr\u0103 zi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Cred c\u0103 te-am luat de-a gata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am sim\u021bit o triste\u021be bl\u00e2nd\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Da, Mihai. A\u0219a a fost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 am \u00een\u021beles prea t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u0218i mie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne-am desp\u0103r\u021bit politicos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u0103r\u0103 ceart\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u0103r\u0103 promisiuni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i, pentru prima dat\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 speran\u021ba ascuns\u0103 c\u0103 poate totul se va \u00eentoarce la cum fusese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un an mai t\u00e2rziu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Ast\u0103zi am 39 de ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Locuiesc \u00een aceea\u0219i cas\u0103 din Bra\u0219ov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cemi pl\u0103tesc ratele, am grij\u0103 de Max \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eemi beau cafeaua diminea\u021ba la masa de l\u00e2ng\u0103 fereastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu m-am c\u0103s\u0103torit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i nici nu m\u0103 gr\u0103besc s\u0103 \u00eencep o alt\u0103 rela\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar nu m\u0103 mai simt ca o femeie care a\u0219teapt\u0103 s\u0103 fie aleas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 c\u0103l\u0103toresc mai mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am reluat leg\u0103tura cu prietene pe care le neglijasem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i am descoperit c\u0103 lini\u0219tea poate fi un lucru minunat atunci c\u00e2nd nu mai trebuie s\u0103 te \u00eentrebi dac\u0103 persoana de l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te acela\u0219i viitor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uneori, oamenii m\u0103 \u00eentreab\u0103 dac\u0103 regret cei zece ani petrecu\u021bi cu Mihai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u0103spunsul meu este complicat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu pot spune c\u0103 totul a fost r\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am avut \u0219i momente frumoase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am c\u0103l\u0103torit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am construit amintiri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar regret anii \u00een care am ignorat lucruri care m\u0103 dureau, sper\u00e2nd c\u0103, dac\u0103 voi fi suficient de r\u0103bd\u0103toare, ele se vor schimba singure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce am \u00een\u021beles despre iubire<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen seara anivers\u0103rii noastre, Mihai mi-a spus c\u0103 o c\u0103s\u0103torie este doar o h\u00e2rtie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Poate c\u0103, pentru el, a\u0219a era.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu to\u021bi oamenii \u00ee\u0219i doresc s\u0103 se c\u0103s\u0103toreasc\u0103, iar o rela\u021bie poate fi profund\u0103 \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 un certificat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar pentru mine, c\u0103s\u0103toria \u00eensemna o alegere asumat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i aveam dreptul s\u0103-mi doresc asta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La fel cum Mihai avea dreptul s\u0103 nu-\u0219i doreasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Problema nu era c\u0103 aveam dorin\u021be diferite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Problema era c\u0103 el \u0219tia acest lucru \u0219i a preferat s\u0103 am\u00e2ne conversa\u021bia ani la r\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Crezuse c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu discut\u0103m despre viitor, eu voi continua s\u0103-i ofer prezentul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i, pentru mult timp, a avut dreptate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar \u00een diminea\u021ba \u00een care am pus plicul pe masa din buc\u0103t\u0103rie, ceva s-a schimbat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu am devenit brusc mai puternic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu mi-a disp\u0103rut frica.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu am \u00eencetat s\u0103-l iubesc peste noapte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pur \u0219i simplu am decis c\u0103 iubirea mea pentru el nu poate fi mai important\u0103 dec\u00e2t respectul pe care mi-l datorez mie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ultima amintire<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Cu c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni \u00een urm\u0103, am g\u0103sit \u00eentr-un sertar o fotografie de la \u00eenceputul rela\u021biei noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu aveam 28 de ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mihai m\u0103 \u021binea de umeri \u0219i r\u00e2deam am\u00e2ndoi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am privit fotografia mult timp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi-am amintit c\u00e2t de fericit\u0103 eram \u00een ziua aceea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i c\u00e2t de convins\u0103 eram c\u0103 g\u0103sisem omul l\u00e2ng\u0103 care voi \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu am rupt fotografia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu am aruncat-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am pus-o \u00eentr-o cutie, al\u0103turi de alte amintiri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 acei ani au f\u0103cut parte din via\u021ba mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar nu mai trebuiau s\u0103-mi hot\u0103rasc\u0103 viitorul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi am mers \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi-am preg\u0103tit cafeaua exact a\u0219a cum \u00eemi place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am deschis fereastra \u0219i am l\u0103sat aerul rece al dimine\u021bii s\u0103 intre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Max dormea l\u00e2ng\u0103 u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Casa era lini\u0219tit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i, pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 foarte mult timp, lini\u0219tea aceea nu m\u0103 mai speria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi-am amintit \u00eentrebarea lui Mihai:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eDup\u0103 zece ani, unde s\u0103 mai pleci?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 acum \u0219tiam r\u0103spunsul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu trebuia s\u0103 plec nic\u0103ieri ca s\u0103 \u00eencep o via\u021b\u0103 nou\u0103. Trebuia doar s\u0103 \u00eencetez s\u0103 mai a\u0219tept ca altcineva s\u0103 decid\u0103 c\u00e2t valorez.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i poate c\u0103 aceasta a fost cea mai important\u0103 lec\u021bie pe care am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat-o \u00een cei zece ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O rela\u021bie nu trebuie s\u0103 se termine pentru c\u0103 lipse\u0219te un inel. Dar atunci c\u00e2nd lipsesc sinceritatea, respectul \u0219i dorin\u021ba de a construi \u00eempreun\u0103, nici cel mai frumos inel din lume nu le poate \u00eenlocui.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mihai a l\u0103sat foile pe mas\u0103 \u0219i s-a uitat la mine de parc\u0103 nu m\u0103 mai recuno\u0219tea. \u2014 Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 asta, Andreea? \u2014 \u00censeamn\u0103 c\u0103<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":51933,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51966"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=51966"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51966\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":51967,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51966\/revisions\/51967"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/51933"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=51966"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=51966"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=51966"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}