{"id":51937,"date":"2026-11-12T10:28:52","date_gmt":"2026-11-12T10:28:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=51937"},"modified":"2026-11-12T10:29:16","modified_gmt":"2026-11-12T10:29:16","slug":"cea-mai-buna-prietena-a-fiicei-mele-purta-ochelari-de-soare-in-fiecare-zi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=51937","title":{"rendered":"CEA MAI BUN\u0102 PRIETEN\u0102 A FIICEI MELE PURTA OCHELARI DE SOARE \u00ceN FIECARE ZI"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ro.matheusfeed.com\/author\/dan\/\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https%3A%2F%2Fro.matheusfeed.com%2Fcea-mai-buna-prietena-a-fiicei-mele-purta-ochelari-de-soare-in-fiecare-zi%2F&amp;text=CEA%20MAI%20BUN%C4%82%20PRIETEN%C4%82%20A%20FIICEI%20MELE%20PURTA%20OCHELARI%20DE%20SOARE%20%C3%8EN%20FIECARE%20ZI\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fro.matheusfeed.com%2Fcea-mai-buna-prietena-a-fiicei-mele-purta-ochelari-de-soare-in-fiecare-zi%2F\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am luat telefonul \u0219i am c\u0103utat num\u0103rul mamei Sofiei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O chema Laura \u0219i, de\u0219i locuiam una l\u00e2ng\u0103 cealalt\u0103 de c\u00e2teva luni, nu vorbiser\u0103m niciodat\u0103 despre ochelarii fiicei ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu voiam s\u0103 fiu indiscret\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar acum se \u00eent\u00e2mplase ceva grav, iar Ana era at\u00e2t de tulburat\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t nu reu\u0219ea s\u0103 se lini\u0219teasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura a r\u0103spuns dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva apeluri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Bun\u0103, Cristina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vocea ei p\u0103rea obosit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Bun\u0103, Laura. \u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 te deranjez, dar Ana tocmai a venit de la \u0219coal\u0103 \u0219i mi-a povestit ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat cu Sofia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La cel\u0103lalt cap\u0103t al firului s-a f\u0103cut lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Da, a murmurat ea. Am fost chemat\u0103 s\u0103 o iau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Cum se simte?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Este foarte speriat\u0103. Nu vrea s\u0103 ias\u0103 din camer\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am privit-o pe Ana, care st\u0103tea pe canapea \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i str\u00e2ngea la piept ursule\u021bul preferat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cemi pare foarte r\u0103u. Ana este \u0219i ea afectat\u0103. Mi-a spus c\u0103 ni\u0219te copii i-au smuls ochelarii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura a oftat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiam c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi s-ar putea \u00eent\u00e2mpla asta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Laura, nu vreau s\u0103 te \u00eentreb ceva nepotrivit. Dar Ana mi-a spus c\u0103 Sofia se teme c\u0103 vei fi sup\u0103rat\u0103 pe ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Femeia a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dumnezeule\u2026 asta crede?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 A\u0219a mi-a spus Ana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu sunt sup\u0103rat\u0103 pe ea. N-a\u0219 putea fi niciodat\u0103 sup\u0103rat\u0103 pe ea pentru a\u0219a ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am a\u0219teptat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva secunde, Laura a continuat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Cristina, po\u021bi veni pu\u021bin p\u00e2n\u0103 la noi? Cred c\u0103 este timpul s\u0103 vorbim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am acceptat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I-am spus Anei c\u0103 merg la vecini \u0219i c\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentorc repede.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mami, Sofia o s\u0103 fie bine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eengenuncheat l\u00e2ng\u0103 ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sper c\u0103 da, iubita mea. \u0218i vreau s\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 ai f\u0103cut bine c\u0103 mi-ai povestit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar b\u0103ie\u021bii au r\u00e2s de ea\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiu. \u0218i ce au f\u0103cut ei a fost foarte ur\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ana m-a prins de m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Spune-i Sofiei c\u0103 eu vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 mai joc cu ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit trist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cei voi spune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am traversat curtea \u0219i am sunat la u\u0219a vecinilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura mi-a deschis aproape imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Avea ochii ro\u0219ii \u0219i p\u0103rea c\u0103 pl\u00e2nsese mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Intr\u0103, te rog.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen sufragerie era lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pe m\u0103su\u021b\u0103 se aflau o pereche de ochelari de soare rup\u021bi \u0219i un pachet de \u0219erve\u021bele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura a observat c\u0103 m\u0103 uitam la ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sunt ochelarii pe care i i-a smuls b\u0103iatul acela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-am a\u0219ezat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura a luat ochelarii \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sofia s-a n\u0103scut cu o afec\u021biune congenital\u0103 rar\u0103 a ochilor. Are coloboame, iar aspectul irisurilor este diferit de cel obi\u0219nuit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am privit-o f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 spun nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 La unul dintre ochi, irisul are o deschidere care \u00eel face s\u0103 par\u0103 ca o pic\u0103tur\u0103. Cel\u0103lalt are \u0219i el o form\u0103 neobi\u0219nuit\u0103. \u00cen plus, Sofia este foarte sensibil\u0103 la lumin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit un nod \u00een g\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 De aceea poart\u0103 ochelarii?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cen parte, da. Lumina puternic\u0103 o deranjeaz\u0103. Dar nu acesta este singurul motiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura \u0219i-a \u0219ters lacrimile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 C\u00e2nd era mai mic\u0103, ni\u0219te copii au \u00eenceput s\u0103-i spun\u0103 lucruri \u00eengrozitoare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce fel de lucruri?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 C\u0103 arat\u0103 ciudat. C\u0103 are ochi de extraterestru. C\u0103 nu vor s\u0103 se joace cu ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit cum m\u0103 cuprinde furia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Era doar un copil\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Avea cinci ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura a privit spre u\u0219a dormitorului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00centr-o zi s-a \u00eentors de la gr\u0103dini\u021b\u0103 \u0219i m-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 ochii ei sunt ur\u00e2\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vocea i s-a fr\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 N-am \u0219tiut ce s\u0103-i r\u0103spund. I-am spus c\u0103 este frumoas\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 nu are nimic de ascuns. Dar ea a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103 \u0219i m-a rugat s\u0103-i cump\u0103r ochelari de soare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am privit perechea rupt\u0103 de pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i de atunci \u00eei poart\u0103 mereu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Aproape mereu. La \u00eenceput doar c\u00e2nd ie\u0219ea din cas\u0103. Apoi a \u00eenceput s\u0103-i poarte \u0219i \u00een\u0103untru, chiar \u0219i c\u00e2nd nu era nevoie pentru lumin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura a f\u0103cut o pauz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Am discutat cu medicii \u0219i cu un psiholog pentru copii. \u00cencerc\u0103m s\u0103 o ajut\u0103m s\u0103 se simt\u0103 \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 o for\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 renun\u021be la ceva care, pentru ea, a devenit o protec\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-am amintit cum Sofia st\u0103tea la masa noastr\u0103, m\u00e2nc\u00e2nd lini\u0219tit\u0103, cu ochelarii pe nas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i cum nu ceruse niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 fie tratat\u0103 diferit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar de ce crede c\u0103 te-ai sup\u0103ra dac\u0103 cineva i-ar vedea ochii?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura a cobor\u00e2t capul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Cred c\u0103 din cauza unei discu\u021bii pe care am avut-o acum c\u00e2teva luni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am a\u0219teptat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cenainte s\u0103 ne mut\u0103m aici, Sofia a avut un incident la locul de joac\u0103. Un copil a fotografiat-o f\u0103r\u0103 ochelari \u0219i a ar\u0103tat poza altora. Au \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce groaznic\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Am fost at\u00e2t de furioas\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t i-am spus c\u0103 nu mai trebuie s\u0103 lase pe nimeni s\u0103-i ia ochelarii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura \u0219i-a acoperit fa\u021ba cu palmele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Cred c\u0103 a \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 ar fi vina ei dac\u0103 s-ar \u00eent\u00e2mpla din nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eentins m\u00e2na \u0219i i-am atins u\u0219or bra\u021bul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Poate ar ajuta s\u0103-i spui clar c\u0103 nu a f\u0103cut nimic gre\u0219it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Asta \u00eencerc de c\u00e2nd am adus-o acas\u0103. Dar nu vrea s\u0103 m\u0103 asculte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen acel moment, din hol s-a auzit o voce sub\u021bire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mami?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne-am \u00eentors am\u00e2ndou\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia st\u0103tea \u00een pragul sufrageriei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Purta pijamaua roz cu iepura\u0219i pe care o v\u0103zusem de at\u00e2tea ori la noi acas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Avea pe fa\u021b\u0103 o alt\u0103 pereche de ochelari de soare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen m\u00e2ini \u021binea un ursule\u021b de plu\u0219.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sofia, iubita mea, a spus Laura. Vino aici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feti\u021ba s-a apropiat \u00eencet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd m-a v\u0103zut, s-a oprit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Doamna Cristina\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Bun\u0103, Sofia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i-a str\u00e2ns ursule\u021bul la piept.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ana v-a spus?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mi-a povestit ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat la \u0219coal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feti\u021ba a cobor\u00e2t capul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se rupe inima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pentru ce, draga mea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 Ana a v\u0103zut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-am ridicat \u0219i m-am a\u0219ezat \u00een genunchi, ca s\u0103 fim la aceea\u0219i \u00een\u0103l\u021bime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sofia, Ana nu este sup\u0103rat\u0103 pe tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feti\u021ba a ridicat pu\u021bin capul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu. A venit acas\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd pentru c\u0103 a v\u0103zut c\u00e2t de r\u0103u te-au tratat ceilal\u021bi copii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia a r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu pentru c\u0103 i-a fost fric\u0103 de mine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am cl\u0103tinat din cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu, iubita mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ochii Laurei s-au umplut de lacrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sofia, mami nu este sup\u0103rat\u0103 pe tine. Nu ai f\u0103cut nimic gre\u0219it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feti\u021ba a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar mi-au v\u0103zut ochii\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiu, iubita mea. \u0218i \u00eemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 te-au speriat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Au r\u00e2s de mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce au f\u0103cut ei a fost gre\u0219it. Nu este vina ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas l\u00e2ng\u0103 ele c\u00e2teva minute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi Sofia m-a \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ana mai vrea s\u0103 fie prietena mea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sofia, chiar \u00eenainte s\u0103 vin aici, Ana m-a rugat s\u0103-\u021bi spun c\u0103 abia a\u0219teapt\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103 juca\u021bi din nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feti\u021ba m-a privit surprins\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Serios?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Foarte serios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Chiar dac\u0103 m-a v\u0103zut f\u0103r\u0103 ochelari?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Chiar \u0219i atunci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pe fa\u021ba ei a ap\u0103rut un z\u00e2mbet mic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pot s\u0103 vorbesc cu ea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am scos telefonul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Bine\u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sunat-o pe Ana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A r\u0103spuns imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mami?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sunt la Sofia. Vrea s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 pu\u021bin cu tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I-am \u00eentins telefonul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feti\u021ba l-a luat cu ambele m\u00e2ini.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ana?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am auzit vocea fiicei mele, at\u00e2t de tare \u00eenc\u00e2t r\u0103zb\u0103tea prin difuzor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sofia! E\u0219ti bine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Da\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 nu am reu\u0219it s\u0103-l opresc pe b\u0103iatul acela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu e vina ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiu. Dar m-am speriat pentru tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia a t\u0103cut c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi a \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mai vrei s\u0103 fim cele mai bune prietene?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>R\u0103spunsul Anei a venit imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Normal! De ce n-a\u0219 vrea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103 din nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar de data aceasta era un pl\u00e2ns diferit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 mi-ai v\u0103zut ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fiica mea a r\u0103mas t\u0103cut\u0103 o clip\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi a spus ceva ce nu voi uita niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sofia, eu sunt prietena ta pentru c\u0103 e\u0219ti bun\u0103 cu mine \u0219i pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 faci s\u0103 r\u00e2d. Nu pentru cum arat\u0103 ochii t\u0103i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura \u0219i-a dus m\u00e2na la gur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se umplu ochii de lacrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i m\u00e2ine putem s\u0103 ne juc\u0103m? a \u00eentrebat Ana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Atunci gata! Am g\u0103sit un joc nou \u0219i vreau s\u0103-l \u00eencerc\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feti\u021ba a r\u00e2s printre lacrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dup\u0103 ce au \u00eenchis, Laura m-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mul\u021bumesc, Cristina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu trebuie s\u0103-mi mul\u021bume\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ba da. Nu \u0219tii c\u00e2t de mult \u00eenseamn\u0103 pentru Sofia s\u0103 aib\u0103 o prieten\u0103 care o accept\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen seara aceea, c\u00e2nd m-am \u00eentors acas\u0103, Ana m\u0103 a\u0219tepta \u00een sufragerie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mami, cum este Sofia?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-am a\u0219ezat l\u00e2ng\u0103 ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Este mai lini\u0219tit\u0103. \u0218i s-a bucurat foarte mult c\u0103 ai vorbit cu ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ana a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 M\u00e2ine mergem la ea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dac\u0103 se simte preg\u0103tit\u0103, da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fiica mea a r\u0103mas pu\u021bin pe g\u00e2nduri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mami, pot s\u0103 te \u00eentreb ceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sigur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 De ce sunt unii copii r\u0103i cu cei care arat\u0103 diferit?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am respirat ad\u00e2nc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Uneori, copiii nu \u00een\u021beleg lucrurile pe care nu le-au mai v\u0103zut. Alteori repet\u0103 ce aud de la al\u021bii. Dar asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 au dreptul s\u0103 r\u0103neasc\u0103 pe cineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sofia nu a f\u0103cut nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Doar purta ochelari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Exact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ana \u0219i-a sprijinit capul pe um\u0103rul meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Eu nu vreau s\u0103 mai r\u00e2d\u0103 nimeni de ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nici eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A doua zi am discutat cu \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura fusese deja la \u0219coal\u0103 \u0219i ceruse s\u0103 fie luate m\u0103suri pentru ca Sofia s\u0103 se simt\u0103 \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Conducerea \u0219colii a vorbit cu p\u0103rin\u021bii copiilor implica\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea a organizat \u0219i o activitate despre respect, limite personale \u0219i diferen\u021bele dintre oameni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu a transformat-o pe Sofia \u00eentr-un exemplu \u00een fa\u021ba clasei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu i-a cerut s\u0103-\u0219i scoat\u0103 ochelarii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i nu a obligat-o s\u0103 explice nim\u0103nui afec\u021biunea ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen schimb, le-a spus tuturor copiilor un lucru simplu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nimeni nu are dreptul s\u0103 ating\u0103 lucrurile sau corpul altcuiva f\u0103r\u0103 permisiune. \u0218i nimeni nu trebuie s\u0103-\u0219i explice \u00eenf\u0103\u021bi\u0219area ca s\u0103 fie tratat cu respect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ana mi-a povestit mai t\u00e2rziu c\u0103 \u00een clas\u0103 fusese foarte lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u0103iatul care \u00eei smulsese ochelarii Sofiei \u0219i-a cerut scuze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feti\u021ba nu a vrut s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 imediat cu el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i nimeni nu a obligat-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nile urm\u0103toare, Sofia a \u00eenceput s\u0103 revin\u0103 la obiceiurile ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Venea la noi dup\u0103 \u0219coal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se juca \u00eempreun\u0103 cu Ana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00e2nca la masa din buc\u0103t\u0103rie \u0219i m\u0103 ajuta s\u0103 str\u00e2ng farfuriile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cenc\u0103 purta ochelarii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar nu mai p\u0103rea at\u00e2t de speriat\u0103 c\u00e2nd cineva \u00eei privea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, fetele desenau la masa din sufragerie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu preg\u0103team pr\u0103jituri \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La un moment dat, am auzit-o pe Sofia spun\u00e2nd:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ana, vreau s\u0103-\u021bi ar\u0103t ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar promite-mi c\u0103 nu r\u00e2zi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103, cu tava \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Promit, a r\u0103spuns fiica mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A urmat o pauz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi am auzit-o pe Ana:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sofia, nu trebuie s\u0103-mi ar\u0103\u021bi nimic dac\u0103 nu vrei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi s-a str\u00e2ns inima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiu, a r\u0103spuns Sofia. Dar vreau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am privit discret din pragul buc\u0103t\u0103riei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia \u00ee\u0219i scosese ochelarii \u0219i \u00eei a\u0219ezase pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru prima dat\u0103, i-am v\u0103zut ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura \u00eemi explicase afec\u021biunea, dar nu \u00eei v\u0103zusem niciodat\u0103 at\u00e2t de clar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Irisurile aveau forme neobi\u0219nuite, cu deschideri care le schimbau conturul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu era nimic \u00eenfrico\u0219\u0103tor \u00een chipul ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Era aceea\u0219i feti\u021b\u0103 bl\u00e2nd\u0103 care venise \u00een casa noastr\u0103 toat\u0103 vara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ana a privit-o c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pot s\u0103 te \u00eentreb ceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia a \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Te dor ochii?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Uneori m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103 lumina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Atunci pune-\u021bi ochelarii dac\u0103 vrei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Acum e bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ana s-a \u00eentors la desen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Bine. Atunci ce culoare facem acoperi\u0219ul?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se umplu ochii de lacrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu pentru c\u0103 Ana spusese ceva extraordinar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ci pentru c\u0103 se comportase firesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu f\u0103cuse din \u00eenf\u0103\u021bi\u0219area prietenei ei un spectacol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu o privise cu mil\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu \u00eei ceruse explica\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pur \u0219i simplu continuase s\u0103 se joace cu ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen seara aceea, c\u00e2nd Laura a venit s\u0103 o ia pe Sofia, feti\u021ba a alergat spre mama ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mami, ast\u0103zi mi-am scos ochelarii \u00een fa\u021ba Anei!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura a \u00eencremenit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Serios, iubita mea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Da!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i cum te-ai sim\u021bit?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia s-a g\u00e2ndit pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi a ad\u0103ugat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ana m-a \u00eentrebat doar dac\u0103 m\u0103 dor ochii. \u0218i dup\u0103 aceea ne-am jucat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Laura a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at fiica at\u00e2t de str\u00e2ns, \u00eenc\u00e2t Sofia a \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mami, m\u0103 str\u00e2ngi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Iart\u0103-m\u0103, iubita mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am privit scena cu un nod \u00een g\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen lunile urm\u0103toare, Sofia a continuat s\u0103 poarte ochelarii atunci c\u00e2nd avea nevoie de ei sau c\u00e2nd se sim\u021bea mai confortabil a\u0219a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu a renun\u021bat peste noapte la temerile ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Au existat \u0219i zile dificile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar avea sprijinul p\u0103rin\u021bilor, al speciali\u0219tilor \u0219i al unei prietene care o accepta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar asta conta enorm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o dup\u0103-amiaz\u0103 de prim\u0103var\u0103, aproape un an dup\u0103 ce Sofia se mutase l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi, am g\u0103sit fetele \u00een gr\u0103din\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>St\u0103teau pe o p\u0103tur\u0103 \u0219i desenau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ochelarii Sofiei erau l\u00e2ng\u0103 cutia cu creioane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feti\u021ba purta o \u0219apc\u0103 cu cozoroc \u0219i st\u0103tea la umbr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ana \u00eei ar\u0103ta ceva \u00eentr-un caiet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas c\u00e2teva clipe \u00een prag, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 le \u00eentrerup.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-am amintit de prima zi \u00een care o v\u0103zusem pe Sofia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O feti\u021b\u0103 mic\u0103, politicoas\u0103, cu ochelari negri prea mari pentru chipul ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i de toate lunile \u00een care m\u0103 \u00eentrebasem ce ascundea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acum \u00een\u021belegeam c\u0103 \u00eentrebarea mea fusese gre\u0219it\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu conta at\u00e2t de mult ce se afla sub ochelari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Conta de ce un copil ajunsese s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 se ascund\u0103 pentru a fi acceptat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i, mai ales, ce puteam face noi, adul\u021bii, ca niciun copil s\u0103 nu mai simt\u0103 asta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen acea sear\u0103, Ana m-a \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mami, \u0219tii ce mi-a spus Sofia azi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce anume?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 C\u0103 acum nu-i mai este at\u00e2t de fric\u0103 s\u0103 se uite oamenii la ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 M\u0103 bucur mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ana s-a apropiat \u0219i m-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Eu i-am spus c\u0103 ochii ei nu schimb\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am s\u0103rutat-o pe frunte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ai avut dreptate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fiica mea s-a g\u00e2ndit c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mami, oamenii ar trebui s\u0103 fie dr\u0103gu\u021bi unii cu al\u021bii chiar dac\u0103 arat\u0103 diferit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am 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