{"id":51882,"date":"2026-11-11T08:20:13","date_gmt":"2026-11-11T08:20:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=51882"},"modified":"2026-11-11T08:20:13","modified_gmt":"2026-11-11T08:20:13","slug":"eu-si-cea-mai-buna-prietena-a-mea-am-ales-acelasi-donator-pentru-a-avea-copii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=51882","title":{"rendered":"EU \u0218I CEA MAI BUN\u0102 PRIETEN\u0102 A MEA AM ALES ACELA\u0218I DONATOR PENTRU A AVEA COPII"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ro.matheusfeed.com\/author\/dan\/\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https%3A%2F%2Fro.matheusfeed.com%2Feu-si-cea-mai-buna-prietena-a-mea-am-ales-acelasi-donator-pentru-a-avea-copii%2F&amp;text=EU%20%C8%98I%20CEA%20MAI%20BUN%C4%82%20PRIETEN%C4%82%20A%20MEA%20AM%20ALES%20ACELA%C8%98I%20DONATOR%20PENTRU%20A%20AVEA%20COPII\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fro.matheusfeed.com%2Feu-si-cea-mai-buna-prietena-a-mea-am-ales-acelasi-donator-pentru-a-avea-copii%2F\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Rude de s\u00e2nge?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a repetat cuvintele doctorului de parc\u0103 nu le-ar fi \u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Domnule doctor, ne cunoa\u0219tem de la \u0219apte ani. P\u0103rin\u021bii no\u0219tri au fost vecini. Cum am putea fi rude f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tim?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doctorul Alexandru Marinescu \u0219i-a scos ochelarii \u0219i i-a a\u0219ezat pe birou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Tocmai asta \u00eencerc s\u0103 clarific.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu \u00eemi \u021bineam ambele m\u00e2ini pe burt\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sim\u021beam copilul mi\u0219c\u00e2ndu-se u\u0219or \u0219i, pentru prima dat\u0103, mi\u0219c\u0103rile acelea nu m-au lini\u0219tit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-au f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 tem \u0219i mai tare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 V\u0103 rog, i-am spus, explica\u021bi-ne ce a\u021bi descoperit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Medicul a \u00eentors monitorul spre noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u021belege\u021bi c\u0103 rezultatele pe care le avem acum nu reprezint\u0103 un test complet de stabilire a rudeniei. Ele au fost ob\u021binute \u00een cadrul unor investiga\u021bii genetice \u0219i au ridicat o suspiciune care trebuie verificat\u0103 separat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce suspiciune?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 C\u0103 leg\u0103tura dintre voi dou\u0103 ar putea fi mult mai apropiat\u0103 dec\u00e2t cea dintre dou\u0103 prietene.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se usuc\u0103 gura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 C\u00e2t de apropiat\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doctorul a ezitat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Exist\u0103 posibilitatea s\u0103 ave\u021bi un p\u0103rinte biologic comun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a izbucnit \u00eentr-un r\u00e2s nervos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Este imposibil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar eu n-am r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-am amintit ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O conversa\u021bie pe care o auzisem \u00een copil\u0103rie, c\u00e2nd aveam vreo doisprezece ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mama mea vorbea la telefon cu cineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pl\u00e2ngea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cemi amintesc c\u0103 spusese:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu vreau s\u0103 se afle niciodat\u0103. Copiii nu trebuie s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 pentru gre\u0219elile noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Atunci nu \u00een\u021belesesem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Crezusem c\u0103 vorbea despre o ceart\u0103 cu tata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar acum, dup\u0103 dou\u0103zeci de ani, cuvintele acelea \u00eemi r\u0103sunau din nou \u00een minte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Andreea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vocea Ioanei m-a readus \u00een cabinet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 E\u0219ti bine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eencuviin\u021bat, de\u0219i nu eram deloc bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Domnule doctor, ce trebuie s\u0103 facem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, s\u0103 confirm\u0103m sau s\u0103 infirm\u0103m aceast\u0103 suspiciune prin teste genetice adecvate, cu acordul vostru. \u00cen paralel, vom reevalua istoricul familial \u0219i rezultatele donatorului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar copiii? a \u00eentrebat Ioana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cen acest moment nu avem dovezi c\u0103 sunt bolnavi. Totu\u0219i, dac\u0103 exist\u0103 o leg\u0103tur\u0103 biologic\u0103 nea\u0219teptat\u0103, trebuie s\u0103 verific\u0103m dac\u0103 informa\u021biile medicale pe care ne-am bazat sunt complete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eencercat s\u0103 respir normal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i dac\u0103 suntem surori?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Medicul m-a privit cu bl\u00e2nde\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Faptul c\u0103 dou\u0103 femei sunt surori \u0219i au copii cu acela\u0219i donator nu \u00eenseamn\u0103, \u00een sine, c\u0103 acei copii vor fi bolnavi. \u00cens\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tim cu exactitate cine este donatorul \u0219i dac\u0103 exist\u0103 vreo leg\u0103tur\u0103 biologic\u0103 \u00eentre el \u0219i voi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ultima propozi\u021bie mi-a atras aten\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 De ce ar exista o leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu donatorul?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doctorul a privit spre dosarul de pe birou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 anumite informa\u021bii din documenta\u021bia lui Daniel necesit\u0103 verific\u0103ri suplimentare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana \u0219i-a dus m\u00e2na la gur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Adic\u0103 ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu vreau s\u0103 v\u0103 sperii cu presupuneri. Dar voi solicita imediat clinicii de fertilitate s\u0103 verifice identitatea \u0219i dosarul medical al donatorului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am ie\u0219it din cabinet aproape f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 simt podeaua sub picioare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen parcare, Ioana s-a oprit l\u00e2ng\u0103 ma\u0219in\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Andreea, spune-mi c\u0103 nu crezi toate astea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am privit-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O cuno\u0219team de dou\u0103zeci \u0219i cinci de ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tiam cum \u00ee\u0219i mu\u0219ca buza c\u00e2nd era speriat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tiam c\u0103 pl\u00e2ngea la filmele cu animale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tiam c\u0103 nu suporta m\u0103slinele \u0219i c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i punea \u00eentotdeauna dou\u0103 linguri\u021be de zah\u0103r \u00een cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar nu \u0219tiam dac\u0103 aveam acela\u0219i s\u00e2nge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 cred, i-am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dac\u0103 suntem surori, de ce nu ne-a spus nimeni?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 O s\u0103 afl\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen seara aceea, am mers la mama mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Locuia \u00eentr-un apartament din Ploie\u0219ti, la c\u00e2teva str\u0103zi de casa \u00een care copil\u0103risem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O chema Mariana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Avea \u0219aizeci \u0219i patru de ani \u0219i fusese \u00eentotdeauna o femeie foarte rezervat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd am intrat, preg\u0103tea ceai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Andreea, draga mea! Ce surpriz\u0103!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas \u00een pragul buc\u0103t\u0103riei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mam\u0103, trebuie s\u0103 te \u00eentreb ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Z\u00e2mbetul i-a disp\u0103rut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat? Este bine copilul?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Deocamdat\u0103, da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am tras un scaun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mam\u0103, exist\u0103 vreo posibilitate ca eu \u0219i Ioana s\u0103 fim surori?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cea\u0219ca i-a alunecat din m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S-a spart de gresie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mama a r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu a \u00eentrebat de ce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu a r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu a spus c\u0103 era imposibil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doar m-a privit cu ochii plini de lacrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i atunci am \u0219tiut c\u0103 medicul descoperise ceva real.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mam\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Femeia s-a a\u0219ezat \u00eencet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Cine \u021bi-a spus?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi s-a f\u0103cut frig.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Deci este adev\u0103rat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mama \u0219i-a acoperit fa\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Doamne\u2026 credeam c\u0103 nu o s\u0103 vin\u0103 niciodat\u0103 ziua asta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 nu mai pot respira.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Spune-mi adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Au trecut c\u00e2teva minute p\u00e2n\u0103 a \u00eenceput s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Tat\u0103l t\u0103u, Sorin, a avut o rela\u021bie cu mama Ioanei \u00eenainte s\u0103 v\u0103 na\u0219te\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eenlemnit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Cu tanti Daniela?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mama a \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Eram prietene. Locuiam pe aceea\u0219i strad\u0103. Eu eram c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 cu Sorin, iar Daniela trecea printr-o perioad\u0103 foarte grea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i tata\u2026?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 A f\u0103cut o gre\u0219eal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit cum m\u0103 cuprinde furia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 O gre\u0219eal\u0103? Mam\u0103, vorbe\u0219ti despre o rela\u021bie din care s-ar putea s\u0103 se fi n\u0103scut un copil!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mama a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Daniela a r\u0103mas \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103. Nu \u0219tia sigur cine era tat\u0103l. \u00cen perioada aceea se \u00eemp\u0103case pentru scurt timp cu b\u0103rbatul cu care avea o rela\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am privit-o ne\u00eencrez\u0103toare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i nimeni n-a f\u0103cut un test?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu. Daniela s-a c\u0103s\u0103torit cu acel b\u0103rbat, iar el a recunoscut copilul. Sorin a promis c\u0103 nu va mai vorbi niciodat\u0103 despre ce se \u00eent\u00e2mplase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Iar tu ai acceptat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mama a cobor\u00e2t capul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Eram \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103 cu tine. Mi-era team\u0103 s\u0103 nu pierd familia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas t\u0103cut\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dintr-odat\u0103, toate amintirile copil\u0103riei mele c\u0103p\u0103tau un alt sens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Felul \u00een care tata se purta cu Ioana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cadourile pe care i le aducea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Grija neobi\u0219nuit\u0103 pe care o avea pentru ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i certurile pe care p\u0103rin\u021bii mei le aveau uneori dup\u0103 ce familia Ioanei pleca de la noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Tata \u0219tia? am \u00eentrebat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 B\u0103nuia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i a murit f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi spun\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mama a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103 \u0219i mai tare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tat\u0103l meu murise cu trei ani \u00een urm\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cel iubisem enorm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar \u00een seara aceea am sim\u021bit c\u0103 o parte din omul pe care \u00eel cunoscusem \u00eemi fusese ascuns\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am plecat f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 mai spun nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen ma\u0219in\u0103, am sunat-o pe Ioana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Trebuie s\u0103 vorbim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ai aflat ceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eenchis ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit \u00eentr-o cafenea mic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I-am povestit totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana m-a ascultat f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrerup\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd am terminat, a r\u0103mas mult timp cu privirea \u00een cea\u0219c\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Deci tat\u0103l t\u0103u ar putea fi \u0219i tat\u0103l meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i mama mea a \u0219tiut?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Se pare c\u0103 da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Toat\u0103 via\u021ba am crezut c\u0103 suntem ca dou\u0103 surori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am prins-o de m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Poate chiar suntem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar de ce ne-au min\u021bit?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu aveam un r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen zilele urm\u0103toare, am f\u0103cut testele recomandate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am a\u0219teptat rezultatele cu o nelini\u0219te pe care nu o mai tr\u0103isem niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centre timp, clinica de fertilitate \u00eencepuse verificarea dosarului donatorului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o diminea\u021b\u0103, doctorul Marinescu ne-a sunat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Am primit primele confirm\u0103ri. V\u0103 rog s\u0103 veni\u021bi am\u00e2ndou\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am ajuns la clinic\u0103 \u00een mai pu\u021bin de o or\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Medicul ne-a invitat s\u0103 lu\u0103m loc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Testul de rudenie a confirmat c\u0103 ave\u021bi acela\u0219i tat\u0103 biologic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a izbucnit \u00een pl\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Suntem surori?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Da. Surori vitrege, din punct de vedere biologic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-am dus m\u00e2na la gur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dou\u0103zeci \u0219i cinci de ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dou\u0103zeci \u0219i cinci de ani \u00een care \u00eemp\u0103r\u021biser\u0103m aproape totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i niciuna nu \u0219tiuse c\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021beam \u0219i acela\u0219i tat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana m-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Andreea\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng \u0219i eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Suntem surori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar doctorul nu z\u00e2mbea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mai este ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne-am desprins \u00eencet una de cealalt\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce anume? am \u00eentrebat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Medicul a deschis un alt dosar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cen urma verific\u0103rilor, clinica a descoperit o problem\u0103 grav\u0103 \u00een documenta\u021bia donatorului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana s-a albit la fa\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce problem\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Identitatea biologic\u0103 \u0219i istoricul familial folosite la evaluarea lui Daniel nu fuseser\u0103 verificate corespunz\u0103tor. \u00cen plus, a ap\u0103rut o informa\u021bie care necesit\u0103 clarificare urgent\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit cum \u00eemi \u00eenghea\u021b\u0103 s\u00e2ngele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Domnule doctor, v\u0103 rog s\u0103 nu ne mai \u021bine\u021bi \u00een suspans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Medicul a privit spre mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Donatorul a declarat c\u0103 fusese adoptat c\u00e2nd era copil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cen dosarul s\u0103u ap\u0103rea o informa\u021bie incomplet\u0103 despre familia biologic\u0103. Clinica a solicitat documente suplimentare \u0219i a constatat c\u0103 exist\u0103 posibilitatea unei leg\u0103turi de rudenie cu familia voastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana \u0219i-a dus m\u00e2inile la burt\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce fel de leg\u0103tur\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cenc\u0103 nu \u0219tim. De aceea am cerut verific\u0103ri \u0219i teste suplimentare. Nu putem trage concluzii \u00eenainte de confirmare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 m\u0103 pr\u0103bu\u0219esc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar cum este posibil? Ni s-a spus c\u0103 donatorul fusese verificat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doctorul a oftat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Tocmai de aceea clinica trebuie s\u0103 investigheze ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat. Nu ar fi trebuit s\u0103 existe asemenea neclarit\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen urm\u0103toarele dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, via\u021ba noastr\u0103 s-a transformat \u00eentr-o a\u0219teptare continu\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am mers la consulta\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am discutat cu un medic genetician.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am primit explica\u021bii despre riscurile care pot ap\u0103rea atunci c\u00e2nd p\u0103rin\u021bii biologici sunt rude apropiate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar medicii ne-au repetat c\u0103 o suspiciune nu este acela\u0219i lucru cu un diagnostic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu aveam \u00eenc\u0103 dovada c\u0103 Daniel era \u00eenrudit cu noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i nici c\u0103 vreunul dintre copii avea o problem\u0103 medical\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Totu\u0219i, frica nu disp\u0103rea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o sear\u0103, Ioana a venit la mine acas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Era palid\u0103 \u0219i avea ochii ro\u0219ii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Andreea, nu mai pot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ceva cu copilul meu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am str\u00e2ns-o mai tare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu \u0219tim \u00eenc\u0103 dac\u0103 exist\u0103 vreun pericol suplimentar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar dac\u0103 exist\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Atunci o s\u0103 facem tot ce putem ca s\u0103-i ajut\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas \u00eempreun\u0103 pe canapea p\u00e2n\u0103 t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ca atunci c\u00e2nd eram mici \u0219i ne speriam de furtuni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Numai c\u0103 acum nu ne mai era fric\u0103 de tunete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne era fric\u0103 de un adev\u0103r pe care nu \u00eel puteam controla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen cele din urm\u0103, rezultatele suplimentare au sosit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doctorul Marinescu ne-a chemat din nou la clinic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De data aceasta, \u00een cabinet se afla \u0219i un consilier genetic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 mi se taie picioarele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 V\u0103 rog, am spus, spune\u021bi-ne direct.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Medicul a \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Am reu\u0219it s\u0103 clarific\u0103m identitatea biologic\u0103 a donatorului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana m-a prins de m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Testele nu au confirmat o leg\u0103tur\u0103 biologic\u0103 apropiat\u0103 \u00eentre Daniel \u0219i voi dou\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 aer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Adic\u0103 nu este rud\u0103 cu noi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu a fost identificat\u0103 o rudenie apropiat\u0103 relevant\u0103 pentru suspiciunea investigat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a izbucnit \u00een pl\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu am \u00eenchis ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 multe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, am sim\u021bit c\u0103 pot respira.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i copiii? am \u00eentrebat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Medicul a privit spre rapoarte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Evalu\u0103rile efectuate p\u00e2n\u0103 acum nu au identificat afec\u021biunile genetice pentru care existaser\u0103 \u00eengrijor\u0103ri specifice. Vom continua monitorizarea obi\u0219nuit\u0103 a sarcinilor \u0219i orice investiga\u021bii recomandate individual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-am pus m\u00e2na pe burt\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Deci sunt bine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Rezultatele actuale sunt \u00eencurajatoare. Dar, ca \u00een orice sarcin\u0103, nu putem promite absen\u021ba oric\u0103rei probleme medicale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Era suficient pentru moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar doctorul a continuat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Exist\u0103 totu\u0219i o alt\u0103 informa\u021bie pe care trebuie s\u0103 o cunoa\u0219te\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana l-a privit speriat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce mai este?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cen timpul verific\u0103rilor, clinica a descoperit c\u0103 dosarul donatorului con\u021binea o eroare administrativ\u0103 privind istoricul s\u0103u familial. Aceasta a dus la o evaluare incomplet\u0103 a unor informa\u021bii medicale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 asta pentru noi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 C\u0103 ave\u021bi dreptul s\u0103 primi\u021bi explica\u021bii complete, documentele relevante \u0219i consiliere privind orice investiga\u021bii suplimentare. Clinica trebuie s\u0103 stabileasc\u0103 exact cum s-a produs eroarea \u0219i s\u0103 ia m\u0103suri pentru a nu se repeta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit din nou furie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Am avut \u00eencredere \u00een ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cen\u021beleg, a spus medicul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ne-am pus viitorul copiilor \u00een m\u00e2inile lor!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103 din nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i acum ne spune\u021bi c\u0103 au gre\u0219it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Consilierul genetic a intervenit calm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ave\u021bi toate motivele s\u0103 cere\u021bi r\u0103spunsuri. Important este s\u0103 separ\u0103m eroarea administrativ\u0103 de ceea ce arat\u0103 efectiv rezultatele medicale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas mult timp \u00een cabinet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am pus \u00eentreb\u0103ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am cerut copii ale documentelor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am solicitat explica\u021bii scrise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i am hot\u0103r\u00e2t c\u0103 vom discuta cu un avocat specializat \u00een drepturile pacien\u021bilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar c\u00e2nd am ie\u0219it din clinic\u0103, un alt g\u00e2nd nu-mi d\u0103dea pace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mama mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i mama Ioanei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dou\u0103 femei care ne ascunseser\u0103 adev\u0103rul timp de peste treizeci de ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen weekend, le-am invitat pe am\u00e2ndou\u0103 la mine acas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mariana a venit prima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Daniela a sosit zece minute mai t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd s-au v\u0103zut, au r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu se mai \u00eent\u00e2lniser\u0103 de c\u00e2teva luni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar acum, pentru prima dat\u0103, nu mai puteau evita trecutul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a fost cea care a \u00eenceput discu\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Daniela a \u00eencremenit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce \u0219ti\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 C\u0103 avem acela\u0219i tat\u0103 biologic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mama Ioanei \u0219i-a dus m\u00e2na la gur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mariana a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cemi pare r\u0103u, fetelor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana s-a ridicat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 De ce nu ne-a\u021bi spus?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Daniela a cobor\u00e2t capul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 mi-a fost ru\u0219ine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ru\u0219ine de ce? C\u0103 exist eu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu, iubita mea! Niciodat\u0103!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Daniela a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mi-a fost team\u0103 c\u0103 o s\u0103-mi pierd familia. C\u0103 tat\u0103l care te-a crescut o s\u0103 plece. C\u0103 oamenii o s\u0103 te judece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a cl\u0103tinat din cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar ne-a\u021bi l\u0103sat s\u0103 cre\u0219tem una l\u00e2ng\u0103 alta f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tim cine suntem cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mariana a \u0219optit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Credeam c\u0103 v\u0103 protej\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am privit-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mam\u0103, uneori adev\u0103rul doare. Dar minciuna care dureaz\u0103 o via\u021b\u0103 doare \u0219i mai tare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen sufragerie s-a f\u0103cut lini\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Daniela a \u00eenceput s\u0103 povesteasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Despre tinere\u021bea ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Despre rela\u021bia cu Sorin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Despre frica de a r\u0103m\u00e2ne singur\u0103 cu un copil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Despre decizia de a ascunde totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i despre felul \u00een care, dup\u0103 na\u0219terea Ioanei, \u00eencepuse s\u0103 observe c\u00e2t de mult sem\u0103nau cele dou\u0103 feti\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 C\u00e2nd v\u0103 vedeam juc\u00e2ndu-v\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103, a spus ea, uneori aveam impresia c\u0103 Dumnezeu ne arat\u0103 adev\u0103rul \u00een fiecare zi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana pl\u00e2ngea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i totu\u0219i nu ne-ai spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Daniela \u0219i-a \u0219ters lacrimile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Am fost la\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu a \u00eencercat s\u0103 se scuze mai mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i, pentru prima dat\u0103, am apreciat sinceritatea ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am discutat ore \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu am rezolvat totul \u00eentr-o singur\u0103 sear\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unele r\u0103ni aveau nevoie de timp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar am f\u0103cut primul pas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen lunile urm\u0103toare, eu \u0219i Ioana ne-am concentrat asupra sarcinilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am continuat controalele medicale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am discutat cu speciali\u0219tii despre rezultatele investiga\u021biilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 preg\u0103tim camerele copiilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i, \u00eencetul cu \u00eencetul, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m din nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o dup\u0103-amiaz\u0103, Ioana a venit la mine cu dou\u0103 perechi de boto\u0219ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Una roz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Una galben\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Am ceva pentru tine, mi-a spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Iar ai cump\u0103rat lucruri pentru bebelu\u0219i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu m-am putut ab\u021bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-a \u00eentins perechea galben\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pentru nepoata mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nepoata ta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 P\u0103i, dac\u0103 suntem surori, copilul t\u0103u este \u0219i nepoata mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ai dreptate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne-am \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i copilul t\u0103u este nepotul meu, i-am spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a r\u00e2s printre lacrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce familie complicat\u0103 avem!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar este familia noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen acea zi am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 adev\u0103rul nu schimbase doar trecutul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Schimbase \u0219i felul \u00een care priveam viitorul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu mai eram doar dou\u0103 prietene care hot\u0103r\u00e2ser\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103 copii cu acela\u0219i donator.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eram dou\u0103 surori care se reg\u0103siser\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 se pierduser\u0103 vreodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2teva luni mai t\u00e2rziu, am n\u0103scut o feti\u021b\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103, pe care am numit-o Sofia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a n\u0103scut un b\u0103ie\u021bel, Matei, trei s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni mai t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am\u00e2ndoi au fost evalua\u021bi de medici \u0219i au primit \u00eengrijirile recomandate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen primele zile dup\u0103 na\u0219tere, nu-mi venea s\u0103 cred c\u0103 \u00eemi \u021bineam copilul \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia avea dege\u021bele mici, obraji rotunzi \u0219i o privire care m\u0103 f\u0103cea s\u0103 uit de toate nop\u021bile \u00een care pl\u00e2nsesem de team\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd Ioana a venit s\u0103 ne viziteze cu Matei, am a\u0219ezat copiii unul l\u00e2ng\u0103 altul, pe o p\u0103tur\u0103 moale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas c\u00e2teva minute privindu-i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00ce\u021bi dai seama? a \u0219optit Ioana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce anume?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Noi am vrut doar ca ei s\u0103 fie apropia\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i am descoperit c\u0103 noi eram deja mai apropiate dec\u00e2t credeam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mama spunea mereu c\u0103 ne purt\u0103m ca dou\u0103 surori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Se pare c\u0103 \u0219tia mai multe dec\u00e2t l\u0103sa s\u0103 se vad\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u00e2s am\u00e2ndou\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar, dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva clipe, Ioana a devenit serioas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Andreea, tu ce o s\u0103-i spui Sofiei c\u00e2nd va cre\u0219te?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am privit-o pe feti\u021ba mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Tot?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Tot ce va avea nevoie s\u0103 \u0219tie, \u00eentr-un fel potrivit v\u00e2rstei ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i eu la fel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas t\u0103cute o vreme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi am spus:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu vreau s\u0103 repet\u0103m gre\u0219elile p\u0103rin\u021bilor no\u0219tri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana mi-a str\u00e2ns m\u00e2na.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nici eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 p\u0103str\u0103m documentele medicale \u0219i informa\u021biile disponibile despre donator, pentru ca Sofia \u0219i Matei s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i poat\u0103 cunoa\u0219te istoricul biologic atunci c\u00e2nd vor fi suficient de mari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am vrut ca ei s\u0103 creasc\u0103 \u00eentr-o familie \u00een care \u00eentreb\u0103rile s\u0103 nu fie interzise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen care adev\u0103rul s\u0103 nu fie ascuns de ru\u0219ine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i \u00een care dragostea s\u0103 nu depind\u0103 de secrete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acum, c\u00e2nd m\u0103 uit \u00een urm\u0103, \u00eemi dau seama c\u00e2t de aproape am fost s\u0103 pierdem ceea ce conta cel mai mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu doar lini\u0219tea noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ci \u0219i \u00eencrederea una \u00een cealalt\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am trecut prin fric\u0103, furie, \u00eendoial\u0103 \u0219i dezam\u0103gire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am descoperit c\u0103 oamenii pe care \u00eei iubisem toat\u0103 via\u021ba ne ascunseser\u0103 un adev\u0103r uria\u0219.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 uneori familia este mult mai complicat\u0103 dec\u00e2t ne imagin\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar am mai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>O leg\u0103tur\u0103 de s\u00e2nge nu poate \u00eenlocui dragostea, iar dragostea adev\u0103rat\u0103 nu are nevoie de o leg\u0103tur\u0103 de s\u00e2nge ca s\u0103 existe.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu \u0219i Ioana am fost surori cu mult \u00eenainte s\u0103 afl\u0103m adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am fost surori c\u00e2nd \u00eemp\u0103r\u021beam sandvi\u0219urile \u00een pauza mare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd pl\u00e2ngeam dup\u0103 primele iubiri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd ne sprijineam \u00een cele mai grele momente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i c\u00e2nd am hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 devenim mame \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Testul genetic nu a creat leg\u0103tura dintre noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doar ne-a ar\u0103tat c\u0103 povestea noastr\u0103 \u00eencepuse cu mult \u00eenainte s\u0103 ne cunoa\u0219tem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o duminic\u0103, am mers cu copiii la p\u0103rin\u021bii no\u0219tri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mariana \u0219i Daniela st\u0103teau pe teras\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fiecare \u021binea c\u00e2te un bebelu\u0219 \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana s-a apropiat de mine \u0219i mi-a \u0219optit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Crezi c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi o s\u0103 putem vorbi despre toate astea f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne doar\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am privit-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Cred c\u0103 da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i crezi c\u0103 o s\u0103 le putem ierta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit trist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Poate. Dar iertarea nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 uit\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana a \u00eencuviin\u021bat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen acel moment, Sofia a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matei a urmat-o imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am izbucnit am\u00e2ndou\u0103 \u00een r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Uite, i-am spus Ioanei, nici m\u0103car nu au \u00eemplinit un an \u0219i deja fac totul \u00eempreun\u0103!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Exact ca noi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am luat-o pe Sofia \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ioana l-a ridicat pe Matei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i, pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 mult\u0103 vreme, viitorul nu mi s-a mai p\u0103rut \u00eenfrico\u0219\u0103tor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi s-a p\u0103rut plin de posibilit\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ne-am dorit s\u0103 aducem pe lume doi copii care s\u0103 fie lega\u021bi prin s\u00e2nge. Dar, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tim, via\u021ba ne preg\u0103tise o descoperire mult mai mare: noi dou\u0103 fuseser\u0103m surori \u00eenc\u0103 de la \u00eenceput.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i poate c\u0103 aceasta a fost cea mai important\u0103 lec\u021bie a pove\u0219tii noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Adev\u0103rul poate s\u0103 doar\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd iese la lumin\u0103. Dar, atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eel \u00eenfrun\u021bi cu curaj, poate deveni \u00eenceputul unei vie\u021bi \u00een care nu mai trebuie s\u0103 te temi de ceea ce nu \u0219tii.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2014 Rude de s\u00e2nge? Ioana a repetat cuvintele doctorului de parc\u0103 nu le-ar fi \u00een\u021beles. \u2014 Domnule doctor, ne cunoa\u0219tem de la \u0219apte ani. 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