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Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii <\/em> Am privit spre u\u0219a dormitorului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Suna\u021bi-l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i am \u00eenchis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mihai a intrat \u00een dormitor dup\u0103 nici cinci minute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Telefonul era \u00eenc\u0103 \u00een m\u00e2na lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Deblocheaz\u0103 cardul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Mama \u0219i Cristina sunt la recep\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 \u0218tiu. Tocmai m-a sunat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 \u0218i le-ai l\u0103sat acolo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n M-am ridicat din pat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Mihai, ai bani \u00een cont?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Ce leg\u0103tur\u0103 are?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Ai sau nu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Am.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Atunci pl\u0103te\u0219te-le tu hotelul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 \u021ai-am spus c\u0103 nu vreau s\u0103 umblu la economii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Nici eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n S-a uitat la mine c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Sunt mama \u0219i sora mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Exact. Ale tale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 E\u0219ti so\u021bia mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 \u0218i asta \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 dreptul s\u0103-mi iei cardul din geant\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Nu eu l-am luat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Dar tu i-ai dat mamei tale voie \u0219i PIN-ul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Trimite-le 4.860 de lei, am spus. Problema s-a rezolvat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Nu dau aproape cinci mii de lei pentru trei zile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Am r\u0103mas nemi\u0219cat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Dar eu trebuia s\u0103-i dau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i-a ferit privirea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Acolo s-a terminat orice discu\u021bie despre \u201efamilie\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu era vorba c\u0103 mama lui avea nevoie de tratament.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mihai considera pur \u0219i simplu c\u0103 banii mei erau mai u\u0219or de cheltuit dec\u00e2t ai lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Doina \u0219i Cristina n-au r\u0103mas pe strad\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cristina avea un card propriu, doar c\u0103 nu avea suficien\u021bi bani pentru pachetul rezervat. Mihai le-a transferat \u00een cele din urm\u0103 o sum\u0103 pentru o singur\u0103 noapte, iar a doua zi au renun\u021bat la o parte dintre proceduri \u0219i s-au \u00eentors mai devreme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Doina m-a sunat de trei ori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N-am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cardul meu a r\u0103mas blocat \u0219i am cerut unul nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen zilele urm\u0103toare am verificat conturile \u0219i cheltuielile noastre mai atent dec\u00e2t o f\u0103cusem vreodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Atunci am g\u0103sit problema mai mare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu o avere secret\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu zeci de mii de euro disp\u0103ru\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Transferuri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e2te 500 de lei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 1.200.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Uneori 2.000.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Toate c\u0103tre Doina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00centr-un an \u0219i jum\u0103tate, Mihai \u00eei trimisese mamei lui peste 18.000 de lei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu m\u0103 deranja c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i ajuta mama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u0103 deranja c\u0103 nu-mi spusese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mai ales pentru c\u0103, \u00een aceea\u0219i perioad\u0103, de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd propuneam o cheltuial\u0103 pentru noi, r\u0103spunsul lui era acela\u0219i:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Trebuie s\u0103 fim aten\u021bi cu banii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Am tip\u0103rit istoricul transferurilor \u0219i l-am pus pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mihai a venit de la serviciu \u0219i l-a v\u0103zut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Ce-i asta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Banii pe care i-ai trimis mamei tale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n S-a a\u0219ezat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Ai \u00eenceput s\u0103-mi verifici conturile?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Am verificat banii care au ie\u0219it din bugetul nostru comun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Mama a avut nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Pentru ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n A \u00eenceput s\u0103 enumere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n O repara\u021bie la baie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n O datorie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n O investiga\u021bie medical\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n O ma\u0219in\u0103 de sp\u0103lat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ni\u0219te bani pentru Cristina dup\u0103 desp\u0103r\u021bire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Unele motive erau perfect normale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Problema era alta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 De ce n-ai spus?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Pentru c\u0103 \u0219tiam c\u0103 o s\u0103 comentezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Iar tu ai decis c\u0103 e mai simplu s\u0103 ascunzi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Sunt banii pe care \u00eei c\u00e2\u0219tig \u0219i eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Atunci de ce pentru hotel ai preferat cardul meu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n N-a avut r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen seara aceea nu i-am cerut divor\u021bul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar i-am spus clar:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 De azi \u00eenainte, mama ta nu mai prime\u0219te niciun ban de la mine. Nu mai are acces la carduri, PIN-uri sau conturi. \u0218i tu nu mai hot\u0103r\u0103\u0219ti \u00een numele meu ce \u00eemi permit s\u0103 pl\u0103tesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 O transformi pe mama \u00eentr-un du\u0219man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Nu. Tu ai transformat-o \u00eentr-o persoan\u0103 care a crezut c\u0103 poate s\u0103-mi deschid\u0103 geanta \u0219i s\u0103 plece cu cardul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Urm\u0103toarea s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 a fost mai rea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Doina \u00eel suna zilnic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mihai devenea din ce \u00een ce mai nervos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00centr-o sear\u0103 mi-a spus:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Mama zice c\u0103 nu mai vine la noi c\u00e2t timp e\u0219ti tu a\u0219a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 E alegerea ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Vezi? Exact despre asta vorbesc. Nu-\u021bi pas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Ba \u00eemi pas\u0103. Dar nu suficient c\u00e2t s\u0103-i dau PIN-ul noului card.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A plecat din buc\u0103t\u0103rie tr\u00e2ntind u\u0219a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dou\u0103 zile mai t\u00e2rziu, discu\u021bia decisiv\u0103 a pornit de la Rare\u0219.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trebuia s\u0103 pl\u0103tim urm\u0103toarele \u0219edin\u021be de logopedie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I-am trimis lui Mihai suma care \u00eei revenea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n M-a sunat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Luna asta nu pot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 De ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Am avut ni\u0219te cheltuieli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Ce cheltuieli?<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u0103cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Am \u00een\u021beles \u00eenainte s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 I-ai dat iar bani mamei tale?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 A avut nevoie s\u0103 achite ni\u0219te analize.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Dup\u0103 tot ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Ce voiai s\u0103 fac? S\u0103-i spun nu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Da, Mihai. Dac\u0103 banii aceia erau partea ta pentru copilul nostru, da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A venit acas\u0103 dup\u0103 o or\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Rare\u0219 era la mama mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Am discutat aproape dou\u0103 ore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n La final l-am \u00eentrebat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Dac\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 alegi \u00eentre obliga\u021biile noastre \u0219i orice problem\u0103 financiar\u0103 pe care mama ta \u021bi-o pune \u00een bra\u021be, cine vine primul?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Nu m\u0103 pune s\u0103 aleg \u00eentre tine \u0219i mama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Nu te-am \u00eentrebat \u00eentre mine \u0219i mama ta. Te-am \u00eentrebat \u00eentre responsabilit\u0103\u021bile tale fa\u021b\u0103 de familia pe care ai construit-o \u0219i dorin\u021ba de a rezolva fiecare problem\u0103 a familiei \u00een care ai crescut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Pentru mine sunt aceea\u0219i familie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Atunci avem o problem\u0103 pe care eu nu mai vreau s-o finan\u021bez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mihai a plecat \u00een sufragerie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Diminea\u021ba, decizia mea era luat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu pentru c\u0103 Doina \u00eencercase s\u0103 plece trei zile la B\u0103ile Felix pe banii mei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 Mihai ar fi fost \u0219ocat de ce f\u0103cuse mama lui \u0219i mi-ar fi \u021binut partea, povestea s-ar fi putut termina altfel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar el \u00eei d\u0103duse voie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cei d\u0103duse PIN-ul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Apoi \u00eemi ceruse mie s\u0103 repar situa\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Iar dup\u0103 aceea continuase s\u0103 pun\u0103 nevoile ei \u00eenaintea obliga\u021biilor noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I-am spus c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 ne separ\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n De data aceasta nu a \u021bipat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Vorbe\u0219ti serios?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Pentru un card?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Pentru faptul c\u0103 nu pot avea \u00eencredere \u00een tine c\u00e2nd vine vorba despre bani \u0219i despre mama ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Am stabilit c\u0103 Rare\u0219 r\u0103m\u00e2ne temporar cu mine, iar programul lui cu tat\u0103l s\u0103u urma s\u0103 fie stabilit f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-l folosim \u00een conflictul nostru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu \u0219i Rare\u0219 ne-am mutat pentru o perioad\u0103 la mama mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen lunile urm\u0103toare am \u00eenceput procedura de divor\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu a existat nicio pr\u0103bu\u0219ire spectaculoas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mihai nu \u0219i-a pierdut serviciul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Doina nu a ajuns brusc s\u0103rac\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cristina \u0219i-a continuat via\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Doina a fost furioas\u0103 pe mine mult timp \u0219i a sus\u021binut c\u0103 destr\u0103masem familia \u201epentru ni\u0219te bani\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu \u0219tiam c\u0103 nu suma fusese problema.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Divor\u021bul a devenit definitiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Rare\u0219 a r\u0103mas \u00een principal cu mine \u0219i \u0219i-a v\u0103zut \u00een continuare tat\u0103l conform programului stabilit \u00eentre noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mihai \u0219i-a p\u0103strat rela\u021bia cu mama lui \u0219i a putut s-o ajute financiar c\u00e2t a dorit, din banii lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu nu am mai contribuit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n La c\u00e2teva luni dup\u0103 divor\u021b, Doina m-a sunat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Ana, vreau doar s\u0103 te \u00eentreb ceva. Chiar pentru 4.860 de lei ai f\u0103cut toate astea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Am r\u0103spuns:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Nu. Pentru c\u0103 a\u021bi luat cardul din geanta mea, iar fiul dumneavoastr\u0103 a considerat c\u0103 ave\u021bi dreptul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N-a spus nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Dac\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi \u00eenainte, poate v\u0103 ajutam. Dar dumneavoastr\u0103 n-a\u021bi cerut ajutor. A\u021bi luat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Mihai mi-a spus c\u0103 pot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Exact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Asta fusese problema de la \u00eenceput.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Am \u00eencheiat conversa\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Noul meu card era \u00een portofel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n PIN-ul \u00eel \u0219tiam doar eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mihai putea s\u0103-i pl\u0103teasc\u0103 mamei lui orice hotel, tratament sau vacan\u021b\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i permitea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar divor\u021bul nostru era definitiv, iar banii mei nu mai f\u0103ceau parte din acea \u00een\u021belegere.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Partea a 2-a \u2013 Continuarea pove\u0219tii Am privit spre u\u0219a dormitorului. \u2014 Suna\u021bi-l. \u0218i am \u00eenchis. Mihai a intrat \u00een dormitor dup\u0103 nici cinci minute. 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