{"id":50088,"date":"2026-09-01T06:16:35","date_gmt":"2026-09-01T06:16:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=50088"},"modified":"2026-09-01T06:16:35","modified_gmt":"2026-09-01T06:16:35","slug":"sotia-mea-m-a-invinovatit-ani-intregi-ca-i-am-facut-cinci-baieti-si-nicio-fata-cand-si-a-tinut-in-sfarsit-fiica-in-brate-a-spus-ceva-ce-m-a-lasat-fara-cuvinte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=50088","title":{"rendered":"So\u021bia Mea M-a \u00eenvinov\u0103\u021bit Ani \u00eentregi C\u0103 I-am F\u0103cut Cinci B\u0103ie\u021bi \u0219i Nicio Fat\u0103. C\u00e2nd \u0219i-a \u021binut, \u00een Sf\u00e2r\u0219it, Fiica \u00een Bra\u021be, A Spus Ceva Ce M-a L\u0103sat F\u0103r\u0103 Cuvinte"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So\u021bia mea, Andreea, visase la o fiic\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 dinainte s\u0103 ne c\u0103s\u0103torim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cemi amintesc \u0219i acum una dintre primele noastre discu\u021bii serioase despre familie. Eram \u00eempreun\u0103 de nici doi ani, st\u0103team la o teras\u0103 din Suceava, iar ea mi-a spus, aproape din senin:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dac\u0103 o s\u0103 am vreodat\u0103 o fat\u0103, vreau s\u0103 o cheme Sofia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i dac\u0103 avem b\u0103iat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i dac\u0103 avem doi b\u0103ie\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea s-a uitat la mine de parc\u0103 tocmai spusesem cea mai absurd\u0103 propozi\u021bie posibil\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu vom avea doi b\u0103ie\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Via\u021ba avea \u00eens\u0103 un sim\u021b al umorului aparte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2\u021biva ani mai t\u00e2rziu, aveam cinci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Primul copil trebuia s\u0103 fie Sofia<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Casa noastr\u0103 era plin\u0103 de b\u0103ie\u021bi<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am hot\u0103r\u00e2t c\u0103 cinci copii sunt suficien\u021bi<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Urm\u0103toarele luni au fost complet diferite<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ziua na\u0219terii a sosit mai repede dec\u00e2t ne a\u0219teptam<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u0103ie\u021bii au venit s\u0103-\u0219i cunoasc\u0103 sora<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Via\u021ba cu \u0219ase copii n-a fost deloc lini\u0219tit\u0103<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o zi, Sofia a g\u0103sit boto\u0219eii albi<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ast\u0103zi, Andreea nu mai spune c\u0103 i-am f\u0103cut cinci b\u0103ie\u021bi<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd Andreea a r\u0103mas \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103 pentru prima dat\u0103, era convins\u0103 c\u0103 va avea o fat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cencepuse deja s\u0103 se uite dup\u0103 h\u0103inu\u021be \u0219i \u00eemi vorbea despre toate lucrurile pe care avea s\u0103 le fac\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103 cu fiica noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 O s\u0103-i fac codi\u021be \u00eenainte s\u0103 plece la gr\u0103dini\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Poate nu o s\u0103-i plac\u0103 s\u0103 poarte codi\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Poate o s\u0103-i plac\u0103 fotbalul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Atunci merg cu ea la fotbal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea nu \u00ee\u0219i dorea o p\u0103pu\u0219\u0103 pe care s\u0103 o \u00eembrace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00ce\u0219i dorea acea rela\u021bie dintre mam\u0103 \u0219i fiic\u0103 pe care ea nu o avusese niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mama ei murise c\u00e2nd Andreea era foarte t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103, iar dorul acela r\u0103m\u0103sese undeva \u00een ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La ecografie am aflat \u00eens\u0103 c\u0103 urma s\u0103 avem un b\u0103iat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S-a uitat la mine \u0219i a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Bine. Sofia mai a\u0219teapt\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd asistenta i l-a pus pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een bra\u021be, Andreea a pl\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 E perfect, mi-a spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doi ani mai t\u00e2rziu, am decis s\u0103 mai avem un copil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De data aceasta, Andreea era \u0219i mai sigur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi, la c\u00e2\u021biva ani distan\u021b\u0103, David.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd medicul ne-a spus c\u0103 \u0219i al treilea copil este b\u0103iat, Andreea a \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Tu faci asta inten\u021bionat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Da. Este clar vina ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La al patrulea b\u0103iat, Radu, gluma devenise deja tradi\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu mai am nicio speran\u021b\u0103 cu tine, \u00eemi spunea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar c\u00e2nd am aflat c\u0103 al cincilea copil era tot b\u0103iat, Andreea s-a uitat la mine \u00een cabinetul medicului \u0219i a spus:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dac\u0103 \u0219i \u0103sta e b\u0103iat, \u00eei aleg eu numele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a a ap\u0103rut \u0218tefan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd s-a n\u0103scut \u0218tefan, casa noastr\u0103 din Suceava devenise un mic haos organizat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cinci personalit\u0103\u021bi complet diferite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vlad era responsabil \u0219i serios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matei era glume\u021bul familiei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>David putea s\u0103 demonteze aproape orice obiect din cas\u0103, de\u0219i nu reu\u0219ea \u00eentotdeauna s\u0103-l monteze la loc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Radu era sensibil \u0219i lini\u0219tit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar \u0218tefan era mezinu\u021bul care \u00eei conducea pe to\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dimine\u021bile noastre \u00eencepeau cu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Unde-mi sunt \u0219osetele?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Cine mi-a luat \u00eenc\u0103rc\u0103torul?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mam\u0103, el m\u0103 enerveaz\u0103!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Tat\u0103, spune-i s\u0103-mi dea mingea!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea st\u0103tea uneori \u00een mijlocul buc\u0103t\u0103riei \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i punea m\u00e2inile \u00een \u0219old.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218ase b\u0103rba\u021bi. \u0218ase! Eu sunt singur\u0103 \u00eempotriva tuturor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Noi suntem cu tine, mam\u0103!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 P\u00e2n\u0103 v\u0103 cere tata s\u0103 scoate\u021bi gunoiul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Atunci disp\u0103reau to\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Era o cas\u0103 g\u0103l\u0103gioas\u0103, dar fericit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tiam c\u0103 Andreea \u00eei iubea pe fiecare dintre b\u0103ie\u021bi f\u0103r\u0103 nicio rezerv\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Totu\u0219i, din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, vedeam \u00een privirea ei acel dor vechi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mai ales c\u00e2nd prietenele noastre aveau feti\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea cump\u0103ra cele mai frumoase cadouri pentru ele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u021ainea bebelu\u0219ele \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le admira rochi\u021bele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi, c\u00e2nd ajungeam acas\u0103, glumea:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Cinci b\u0103ie\u021bi. Trebuie s\u0103 fie vina ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dup\u0103 c\u00e2\u021biva ani \u00eens\u0103, gluma a \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 deranjeze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Andreea, \u0219tii c\u0103 nu aleg eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Atunci de ce tot spui asta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 e mai u\u0219or s\u0103 fac o glum\u0103 dec\u00e2t s\u0103 recunosc c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eemi doresc o fat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A fost prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd mi-a spus-o at\u00e2t de direct.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Avem cinci copii extraordinari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i nu le lipse\u0219te nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar unele dorin\u021be nu dispar doar pentru c\u0103 via\u021ba este deja frumoas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu mai eram la 25 de ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ma\u0219ina noastr\u0103 p\u0103rea permanent prea mic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vacan\u021bele necesitau aproape o opera\u021biune militar\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103 am decis \u00eempreun\u0103 c\u0103 nu vom mai avea copii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea a str\u00e2ns ultimele haine de bebelu\u0219 ale lui \u0218tefan \u0219i le-a pus \u00een cutii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A p\u0103strat doar c\u00e2teva lucruri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Printre ele era o pereche de boto\u0219ei albi pe care \u00eei cump\u0103rase cu mul\u021bi ani \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu \u00eei folosise niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 De ce \u00eei p\u0103strezi? am \u00eentrebat-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A ridicat din umeri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi, \u00eentr-o diminea\u021b\u0103 de februarie, Andreea a intrat \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie \u021bin\u00e2nd ceva \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu preg\u0103team cafeaua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Avem o problem\u0103, mi-a spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-a \u00eentins testul de sarcin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi din nou la test.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas sprijinit de blatul buc\u0103t\u0103riei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva secunde am \u00eenceput am\u00e2ndoi s\u0103 r\u00e2dem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu pentru c\u0103 era amuzant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Probabil pentru c\u0103 nu \u0219tiam ce altceva s\u0103 facem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218ase copii, am spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu spune asta \u00eenc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Poate de data asta\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N-a terminat propozi\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La ecografia la care puteam afla sexul copilului, Andreea era at\u00e2t de emo\u021bionat\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t aproape nu vorbea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu \u00eencercam s\u0103-mi p\u0103strez a\u0219tept\u0103rile sub control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Medicul s-a uitat atent la monitor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ave\u021bi cinci b\u0103ie\u021bi, nu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Atunci cred c\u0103 de data aceasta mama va avea ajutor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea a \u00eencremenit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Medicul a \u00eentors u\u0219or monitorul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So\u021bia mea \u0219i-a dus ambele m\u00e2ini la gur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi a \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 At\u00e2t c\u00e2t putem spune la o ecografie, da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea m-a prins de m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nici m\u0103car nu mai trebuia s\u0103 discut\u0103m numele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Era ales de aproape 20 de ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea a scos din cutie boto\u0219eii albi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I-a pus l\u00e2ng\u0103 p\u0103tu\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A cump\u0103rat c\u00e2teva rochi\u021be, apoi \u00eenc\u0103 dou\u0103, apoi \u00eenc\u0103 cinci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Copilul nu apuc\u0103 s\u0103 poarte toate astea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu-mi strica bucuria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u0103ie\u021bii erau \u0219i ei \u00eenc\u00e2nta\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vlad spunea c\u0103 el o va duce la \u0219coal\u0103 c\u00e2nd va cre\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matei spunea c\u0103 nimeni nu va avea voie s\u0103 se apropie de ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>David voia s\u0103-i construiasc\u0103 un p\u0103tu\u021b pentru p\u0103pu\u0219i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Radu \u00eei citea pove\u0219ti \u00eenc\u0103 din burt\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar \u0218tefan era singurul \u00eengrijorat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar eu mai sunt cel mic?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Vei fi fratele ei mai mare, i-a spus Andreea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tefan s-a g\u00e2ndit pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen fiecare sear\u0103, Andreea intra \u00een camera Sofiei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uneori o g\u0103seam acolo privind p\u0103tu\u021bul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu-mi vine s\u0103 cred, spunea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 C\u0103 dup\u0103 at\u00e2\u021bia ani chiar vine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am ajuns la spital \u00een Suceava diminea\u021ba devreme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva ore, am auzit pl\u00e2nsul copilului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu pot explica sentimentul acela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Chiar \u0219i dup\u0103 cinci na\u0219teri, nu devenise ceva obi\u0219nuit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Asistenta ne-a ar\u0103tat feti\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Era mic\u0103, ro\u0219ie la fa\u021b\u0103 \u0219i avea mult p\u0103r negru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Felicit\u0103ri, t\u0103ticule.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-au dat lacrimile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi au a\u0219ezat-o \u00een bra\u021bele Andreei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-am uitat imediat la so\u021bia mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219teptam reac\u021bia pe care mi-o imaginasem luni \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Credeam c\u0103 va izbucni \u00een lacrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Credeam c\u0103 va spune:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La \u00eenceput, Andreea a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi s-a uitat atent la copil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Z\u00e2mbetul i-a disp\u0103rut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit imediat c\u0103 ceva nu este \u00een regul\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi \u0219i-a ridicat privirea spre mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Avea lacrimi \u00een ochi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea a \u00eenghi\u021bit \u00een sec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i atunci a spus ceva ce nu m\u0103 a\u0219teptasem s\u0103 aud niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A \u00eenceput s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pentru to\u021bi anii \u00een care am spus c\u0103 \u00eemi lipse\u0219te ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i-a apropiat Sofia de piept.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 M-am uitat la ea \u0219i primul lucru la care m-am g\u00e2ndit a fost la b\u0103ie\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 To\u021bi anii \u0103\u0219tia am spus c\u0103 vreau o fat\u0103. Am glumit c\u0103 e vina ta. M-am \u00eentristat c\u00e2nd vedeam feti\u021bele altora. \u0218i acum o \u021bin pe Sofia \u00een bra\u021be \u0219i \u00eemi dau seama c\u0103 n-a lipsit niciodat\u0103 nimic din familia noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lacrimile \u00eei curgeau pe obraji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Sofia nu a venit s\u0103 completeze familia noastr\u0103. Familia noastr\u0103 era deja complet\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu era dezam\u0103git\u0103 de feti\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Era cople\u0219it\u0103 de ceea ce sim\u021bea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 I-am iubit \u00eentotdeauna pe b\u0103ie\u021bi, a continuat. Dar acum mi-e team\u0103 c\u0103, prin toate glumele mele, poate i-am f\u0103cut vreodat\u0103 s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 nu erau suficien\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Eu trebuie s\u0103 fiu sigur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A s\u0103rutat-o pe Sofia pe frunte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i trebuie s\u0103 le spun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A doua zi, cei cinci au venit la spital \u00eempreun\u0103 cu bunica lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu cred c\u0103 am v\u0103zut vreodat\u0103 cinci copii at\u00e2t de t\u0103cu\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Au intrat aproape pe v\u00e2rfuri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tefan a fost primul care s-a apropiat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i tu ai fost la fel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 B\u0103ie\u021bi, vreau s\u0103 v\u0103 spun ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To\u021bi s-au uitat spre ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218ti\u021bi c\u0103 am glumit mereu c\u0103 vreau \u0219i eu o fat\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Da. Dar vreau s\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi ceva. Niciodat\u0103, absolut niciodat\u0103, nu mi-am dorit ca vreunul dintre voi s\u0103 fi fost altcineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dac\u0103 v-am f\u0103cut vreodat\u0103 s\u0103 crede\u021bi c\u0103 a\u0219 fi preferat s\u0103 fi\u021bi fete, \u00eemi pare r\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vlad, cel mai mare, a ridicat din spr\u00e2ncene.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vlad s-a apropiat \u0219i a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tim c\u0103 ne iube\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matei a intervenit imediat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Plus c\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 noi cine ar mai c\u0103ra cump\u0103r\u0103turile?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toat\u0103 lumea a \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea pl\u00e2ngea \u0219i r\u00e2dea \u00een acela\u0219i timp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi \u0218tefan s-a apropiat de pat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L-am ajutat s\u0103 se a\u0219eze pe scaun, iar Andreea i-a pus-o pe Sofia \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tefan a privit-o c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Acum suntem \u0219apte?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A \u00eenceput s\u0103 numere pe degete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am izbucnit cu to\u021bii \u00een r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 Andreea crezuse vreodat\u0103 c\u0103 o feti\u021b\u0103 va aduce delicate\u021be \u0219i lini\u0219te \u00een cas\u0103, Sofia i-a demonstrat repede contrariul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A crescut printre cinci fra\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La trei ani prefera mingea lui Matei \u00een locul p\u0103pu\u0219ilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La patru ani voia s\u0103 urce \u00een copaci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La cinci ani a venit acas\u0103 cu pantalonii rup\u021bi \u00een genunchi \u0219i a anun\u021bat m\u00e2ndr\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Am c\u00e2\u0219tigat cursa!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o sear\u0103 am g\u0103sit-o pe Andreea \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103-i fac\u0103 dou\u0103 codi\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu-mi plac codi\u021bele!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-am sprijinit de u\u0219\u0103 \u0219i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea s-a uitat ur\u00e2t la mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen cele din urm\u0103, Andreea i-a desf\u0103cut p\u0103rul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia a fugit imediat afar\u0103 dup\u0103 fra\u021bii ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So\u021bia mea a r\u0103mas cu dou\u0103 elastice \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dou\u0103zeci de ani am visat s\u0103-i fac codi\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea a \u00eenceput s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i ea vrea s\u0103 joace fotbal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-a lovit u\u0219or cu prosopul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Avea \u0219apte ani c\u00e2nd a descoperit cutia \u00een care Andreea p\u0103stra lucrurile copiilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A scos perechea aceea minuscul\u0103 de boto\u0219ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea i-a luat \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar sunt foarte vechi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 i-am cump\u0103rat cu mult \u00eenainte s\u0103 te na\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia a r\u0103mas curioas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea s-a uitat la mine \u0219i a z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cenainte s\u0103 se nasc\u0103 Vlad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pentru c\u0103 speram s\u0103 am c\u00e2ndva o feti\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia s-a g\u00e2ndit c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i ai avut cinci b\u0103ie\u021bi \u00eenaintea mea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia a pus boto\u0219eii \u00eenapoi \u00een cutie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar dac\u0103 nu veneam eu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am privit-o pe Andreea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>R\u0103spunsul ei a venit imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Atunci tot a\u0219 fi avut o via\u021b\u0103 minunat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Cu b\u0103ie\u021bii \u0219i cu tata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar e mai bine c\u0103 am venit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea a luat-o \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Este minunat c\u0103 ai venit. Dar tu nu ai venit ca s\u0103 repari ceva. Ai venit ca s\u0103 adaugi \u00eenc\u0103 o poveste frumoas\u0103 la ceea ce aveam deja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia probabil nu a \u00een\u021beles atunci \u00eentreaga semnifica\u021bie a cuvintelor ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Au trecut ani de atunci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Casa este \u00een continuare g\u0103l\u0103gioas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doar problemele s-au schimbat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu mai c\u0103ut\u0103m juc\u0103rii pierdute, ci chei de ma\u0219in\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu mai preg\u0103tim ghiozdane pentru to\u021bi, ci discut\u0103m despre facultate, examene, locuri de munc\u0103 \u0219i planuri de viitor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este exact opusul feti\u021bei pe care Andreea \u0219i-o imaginase cu ani \u00een urm\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu i-au pl\u0103cut niciodat\u0103 prea mult rochiile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ur\u0103\u0219te cump\u0103r\u0103turile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu are r\u0103bdare s\u0103 stea cu orele s\u0103-\u0219i aranjeze p\u0103rul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar ea \u0219i mama ei au acea leg\u0103tur\u0103 la care Andreea visase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doar c\u0103 arat\u0103 diferit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stau seara \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie \u0219i vorbesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00ce\u0219i spun lucruri pe care mie nu mi le spun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uneori \u00eei surprind \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219\u00e2ndu-se f\u0103r\u0103 niciun motiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar cei cinci fra\u021bi ai Sofiei o protejeaz\u0103 \u00een continuare, de\u0219i acum ea insist\u0103 c\u0103 nu are nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu ceva timp \u00een urm\u0103, am avut o mas\u0103 mare \u00een familie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La un moment dat, Matei a \u00eenceput s\u0103 povesteasc\u0103 despre copil\u0103ria noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 V\u0103 aminti\u021bi c\u00e2nd mama \u00eei spunea tatei c\u0103 e vina lui c\u0103 suntem to\u021bi b\u0103ie\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toat\u0103 masa a izbucnit \u00een r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea \u0219i-a acoperit fa\u021ba cu m\u00e2inile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 V\u0103 rog, putem s\u0103 uit\u0103m perioada aceea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Deci tata era de vin\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Se pare c\u0103 da, am spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea m-a lovit u\u0219or peste bra\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Eram t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 \u0219i proast\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Noi \u0219tiam c\u0103 glume\u0219ti, mam\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea s-a uitat la cei cinci b\u0103ie\u021bi ai no\u0219tri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Totu\u0219i, dac\u0103 a\u0219 putea s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentorc \u00een timp, a\u0219 schimba ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 A\u0219 \u00eenceta s\u0103 mai a\u0219tept ceea ce nu aveam \u0219i m-a\u0219 bucura mai mult de ceea ce aveam deja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u00e2teva secunde, nimeni nu a mai glumit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi Sofia s-a ridicat \u0219i \u0219i-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at mama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Bine c\u0103 m-ai a\u0219teptat totu\u0219i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreea a s\u0103rutat-o pe frunte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Te-a\u0219 a\u0219tepta din nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tefan a intervenit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dar f\u0103r\u0103 noi cinci nu ajungeai la ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Exact, a spus Matei. Noi am deschis drumul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>R\u00e2setele au umplut din nou camera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-am uitat \u00een jurul mesei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La cei cinci b\u0103ie\u021bi pe care via\u021ba ni-i d\u0103duse atunci c\u00e2nd Andreea sperase la o fat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La Sofia, copilul venit pe nea\u0219teptate dup\u0103 ce crezuser\u0103m c\u0103 familia noastr\u0103 nu se va mai m\u0103ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i la femeia cu care construisem tot acest haos frumos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ani \u00eentregi, Andreea crezuse c\u0103 povestea noastr\u0103 avea nevoie de o fiic\u0103 pentru a fi complet\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen ziua \u00een care a \u021binut-o pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een bra\u021be, a \u00een\u021beles exact contrariul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia nu venise s\u0103 umple un gol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu exista niciun gol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Venise pur \u0219i simplu s\u0103 ocupe un loc nou, numai al ei, \u00eentr-o familie care fusese deja plin\u0103 de iubire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar dintre toate lucrurile pe care so\u021bia mea visase s\u0103 le fac\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi al\u0103turi de fiica ei, acesta a fost poate cel mai frumos lucru pe care a reu\u0219it s\u0103 i-l ofere:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sofia nu a crescut niciodat\u0103 cu povara de a fi \u201efeti\u021ba pe care mama a a\u0219teptat-o o via\u021b\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A crescut \u0219tiind doar c\u0103 este al \u0219aselea copil al nostru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sora mai mic\u0103 a cinci b\u0103ie\u021bi care ar face orice pentru ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fiica unui tat\u0103 care \u00eenc\u0103 nu are nicio \u0219ans\u0103 s\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tige o ceart\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i copilul unei mame care a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, c\u0103 uneori via\u021ba nu \u00ee\u021bi ofer\u0103 familia pe care \u021bi-ai imaginat-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00ce\u021bi ofer\u0103 una pe care ajungi s\u0103 n-o mai po\u021bi imagina altfel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aceast\u0103 lucrare este inspirat\u0103 din evenimente \u0219i persoane reale, \u00eens\u0103 a fost fic\u021bionalizat\u0103 \u00een scopuri creative. Numele, personajele \u0219i detaliile au fost schimbate pentru a proteja intimitatea \u0219i pentru a \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi nara\u021biunea. Orice asem\u0103nare cu persoane reale, \u00een via\u021b\u0103 sau decedate, sau cu evenimente reale este pur \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103toare \u0219i nu este inten\u021bionat\u0103 de c\u0103tre autor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Autorul \u0219i editorul nu \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 responsabilitatea pentru exactitatea evenimentelor sau pentru modul \u00een care sunt portretizate personajele \u0219i nu sunt r\u0103spunz\u0103tori pentru eventuale interpret\u0103ri gre\u0219ite. 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