{"id":49393,"date":"2026-08-04T05:43:51","date_gmt":"2026-08-04T05:43:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=49393"},"modified":"2026-08-04T05:43:51","modified_gmt":"2026-08-04T05:43:51","slug":"m-am-casatorit-cu-cel-mai-bun-prieten-din-copilarie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=49393","title":{"rendered":"M-am c\u0103s\u0103torit cu cel mai bun prieten din copil\u0103rie"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Am urcat \u00een ma\u0219in\u0103 \u0219i am pornit motorul cu m\u00e2inile tremur\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu puteam pleca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu puteam nici s\u0103 intru \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva minute, telefonul meu a vibrat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Era un mesaj de la Matei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201eCum merge ziua la birou?\u00a0\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L-am privit c\u00e2teva secunde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Min\u021bea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tia c\u0103 este acas\u0103 \u0219i \u00eemi scria ca \u0219i cum nimic nu s-ar fi \u00eent\u00e2mplat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu i-am r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am plecat \u0219i m-am oprit \u00eentr-o parcare aflat\u0103 la c\u00e2teva str\u0103zi distan\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cencercam s\u0103-mi aduc aminte exact ce spusese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eA c\u0103zut \u00een capcana mea.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201ePlanul meu este pe cale s\u0103 reu\u0219easc\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cuvintele \u00eemi r\u0103sunau \u00een minte f\u0103r\u0103 oprire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen aceea\u0219i sear\u0103, m-am comportat de parc\u0103 nu se \u00eent\u00e2mplase nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I-am oferit ceasul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matei a z\u00e2mbit larg \u0219i m-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Este cel mai frumos cadou pe care l-am primit vreodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-am uitat \u00een ochii lui \u0219i nu mai \u0219tiam dac\u0103 v\u0103d omul pe care \u00eel iubisem sau un str\u0103in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dou\u0103 zile mai t\u00e2rziu, am decis s\u0103 aflu adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen timp ce Matei era la du\u0219, telefonul lui a vibrat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pe ecran ap\u0103rea numele celui mai bun prieten al lui, Vlad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mesajul spunea:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201eMai sunt doar trei zile. Ai preg\u0103tit totul?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Inima mi-a s\u0103rit din piept.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am deschis conversa\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Primul mesaj pe care l-am v\u0103zut era chiar cel despre care \u00eel auzisem vorbind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201eNu-\u021bi face griji. A c\u0103zut \u00een capcana mea \u00eenc\u0103 din liceu.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am continuat s\u0103 citesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar c\u00e2teva secunde mai t\u00e2rziu am izbucnit \u00een pl\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mesajele nu vorbeau despre o r\u0103zbunare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nici despre bani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nici despre o alt\u0103 femeie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen urm\u0103 cu cincisprezece ani, \u00een liceu, Vlad \u00eel provocase pe Matei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cei spusese c\u0103 o fat\u0103 ca mine nu s-ar \u00eendr\u0103gosti niciodat\u0103 de un b\u0103iat timid ca el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matei \u00eei r\u0103spunsese r\u00e2z\u00e2nd:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201eAtunci fac un pariu. O s\u0103 o fac s\u0103 se \u00eendr\u0103gosteasc\u0103 de mine \u0219i, \u00eentr-o zi, o s\u0103 fie so\u021bia mea.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vlad \u00eei scrisese:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201eAsta e o capcan\u0103.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar Matei r\u0103spunsese:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201eExact. O capcan\u0103 din care sper s\u0103 nu mai scape niciodat\u0103.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am continuat s\u0103 citesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ultimele mesaje spuneau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201ePlanul meu este pe cale s\u0103 reu\u0219easc\u0103. La aniversarea de cinci ani \u00eei voi spune adev\u0103rul despre pariul din liceu \u0219i \u00eei voi re\u00eennoi jur\u0103mintele. Am p\u0103strat toate scrisorile, toate fotografiile \u0219i chiar primul bilet pe care mi l-a dat. Sper doar s\u0103 nu se supere c\u00e2nd va afla c\u0103 totul a \u00eenceput dintr-un pariu prostesc.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am izbucnit \u00een r\u00e2s printre lacrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen acel moment, Matei a ie\u0219it din baie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-a v\u0103zut cu telefonul \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i a \u00een\u021beles imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fa\u021ba i s-a albit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ai citit?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am dat din cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S-a apropiat \u00eencet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu a fost niciodat\u0103 o capcan\u0103 ca s\u0103 te r\u0103nesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A fost doar un pariu copil\u0103resc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar \u00een ziua \u00een care ai acceptat s\u0103 ie\u0219i cu mine, pariul n-a mai \u00eensemnat nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Te-am iubit cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i n-am \u00eencetat niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas t\u0103cut\u0103 c\u00e2teva clipe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi l-am lovit u\u0219or peste um\u0103r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Aproape c\u0103 m-ai f\u0103cut s\u0103 cred c\u0103 \u00eentreaga mea via\u021b\u0103 a fost o minciun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matei a z\u00e2mbit vinovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i merit asta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen seara anivers\u0103rii noastre, m-a dus \u00een curtea vechii \u0219coli unde ne cunoscuser\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acolo erau p\u0103rin\u021bii no\u0219tri, prietenii din copil\u0103rie \u0219i profesorii care glumiser\u0103 ani \u00eentregi c\u0103 vom ajunge \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matei a \u00eengenuncheat din nou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Acum cinci ani ai spus \u201eda\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ast\u0103zi vreau s\u0103 te \u00eentreb \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ai accepta s\u0103 mai r\u0103m\u00e2i \u00eenc\u0103 o via\u021b\u0103 \u00een\u2026 capcana mea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L-am privit z\u00e2mbind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Doar dac\u0103 promi\u021bi c\u0103 nu mai vorbe\u0219ti niciodat\u0103 la telefon at\u00e2t de tare c\u00e2nd preg\u0103te\u0219ti surprize.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toat\u0103 lumea a izbucnit \u00een r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar eu am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103, uneori, c\u00e2teva cuvinte auzite pe jum\u0103tate pot transforma o poveste de iubire \u00eentr-un co\u0219mar\u2026 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd adev\u0103rul le pune din nou \u00een lumin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fbumzi.ro%2F%3Fp%3D27476&amp;description=M-am+c%C4%83s%C4%83torit+cu+cel+mai+bun+prieten+din+copil%C4%83rie\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fbumzi.ro%2F%3Fp%3D27476\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https%3A%2F%2Fbumzi.ro%2F%3Fp%3D27476&amp;text=M-am+c%C4%83s%C4%83torit+cu+cel+mai+bun+prieten+din+copil%C4%83rie\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Aceast\u0103 lucrare este inspirat\u0103 din evenimente \u0219i persoane reale, \u00eens\u0103 a fost fic\u021bionalizat\u0103 \u00een scopuri creative. Numele, personajele \u0219i detaliile au fost schimbate pentru a proteja intimitatea \u0219i pentru a \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi nara\u021biunea. Orice asem\u0103nare cu persoane reale, \u00een via\u021b\u0103 sau decedate, sau cu evenimente reale este pur \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103toare \u0219i nu este inten\u021bionat\u0103 de c\u0103tre autor.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Autorul \u0219i editorul nu \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 responsabilitatea pentru exactitatea evenimentelor sau pentru modul \u00een care sunt portretizate personajele \u0219i nu sunt r\u0103spunz\u0103tori pentru eventuale interpret\u0103ri gre\u0219ite. Aceast\u0103 poveste este oferit\u0103 \u201eca atare\u201d, iar orice opinii exprimate apar\u021bin personajelor \u0219i nu reflect\u0103 punctele de vedere ale autorului sau ale editorului.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am urcat \u00een ma\u0219in\u0103 \u0219i am pornit motorul cu m\u00e2inile tremur\u00e2nd. Nu puteam pleca. Nu puteam nici s\u0103 intru \u00eenapoi. Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva minute, telefonul meu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":48623,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49393"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=49393"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49393\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":49394,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49393\/revisions\/49394"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/48623"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=49393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=49393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=49393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}