{"id":48880,"date":"2026-07-12T07:47:26","date_gmt":"2026-07-12T07:47:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=48880"},"modified":"2026-07-12T07:47:26","modified_gmt":"2026-07-12T07:47:26","slug":"am-muncit-in-doua-locuri-ca-sa-mi-vad-sotul-medic-in-ziua-in-care-si-a-primit-diploma-mi-a-intins-actele-de-divort-in-fata-tuturor-credea-ca-ma-lasa-fara-nimic-dar-nu-stia-ca-un-singur-om","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=48880","title":{"rendered":"Am muncit \u00een dou\u0103 locuri ca s\u0103-mi v\u0103d so\u021bul medic. \u00cen ziua \u00een care \u0219i-a primit diploma, mi-a \u00eentins actele de divor\u021b \u00een fa\u021ba tuturor. Credea c\u0103 m\u0103 las\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 nimic\u2026 dar nu \u0219tia c\u0103 un singur om din sal\u0103 \u00eei v\u0103zuse adev\u0103rata fa\u021b\u0103."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u0103rbatul care se apropiase de noi purta \u00eenc\u0103 roba de absolvire pe bra\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L-am v\u0103zut \u00eentinz\u00e2nd m\u00e2na spre Radu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Felicit\u0103ri, doctore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Radu a z\u00e2mbit mul\u021bumit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mul\u021bumesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi colegul lui s-a uitat direct la mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dumneavoastr\u0103 sunte\u021bi so\u021bia despre care vorbea\u021bi \u00een primii ani de facultate?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am dat \u00eencet din cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Da\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Omul a r\u0103mas c\u00e2teva secunde t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi s-a \u00eentors spre Radu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ea este femeia care a muncit \u00een dou\u0103 locuri ca s\u0103 nu renun\u021bi la facultate?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Radu \u0219i-a mutat privirea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu e treaba ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ba cred c\u0103 este.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen jurul nostru \u00eencepuser\u0103 deja s\u0103 se opreasc\u0103 oameni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u0103rin\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Absolven\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Profesori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To\u021bi sim\u021beau c\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Colegul lui a continuat calm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tii ce ne spuneai \u00een anul \u00eent\u00e2i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Radu n-a r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 C\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 ea n-ai fi avut nici bani de chirie, nici bani de c\u0103r\u021bi \u0219i nici bani de taxe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lini\u0219tea devenea tot mai ap\u0103s\u0103toare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ne spuneai c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi o s\u0103-i oferi lumea \u00eentreag\u0103 pentru tot ce face pentru tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Radu \u0219i-a \u00eencle\u0219tat maxilarul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Destul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar colegul lui nu se oprise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i chiar \u00een ziua \u00een care prime\u0219ti diploma \u00eei dai actele de divor\u021b?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mai mul\u021bi oameni \u00eentorceau deja capul spre noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 simt st\u00e2njenit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu-mi doream spectacol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am vrut doar s\u0103 plec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-am str\u00e2ns florile \u0219i am f\u0103cut un pas \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Atunci colegul lui m-a oprit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Doamn\u0103\u2026 s\u0103 nu pleca\u021bi ru\u0219inat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cel care ar trebui s\u0103 plece este el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Radu a izbucnit nervos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu \u0219ti\u021bi nimic despre via\u021ba mea!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un profesor \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103, care tocmai cobora de pe scen\u0103, auzise ultimele cuvinte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S-a apropiat \u00eencet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ba cred c\u0103 \u0219tim destule.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L-a privit lung pe Radu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00ce\u021bi aminte\u0219ti cine venea \u00een fiecare lun\u0103 la secretariat s\u0103 \u00eentrebe dac\u0103 \u021bi-ai achitat taxele?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Radu a t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 So\u021bia ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00ce\u021bi aminte\u0219ti cine venea s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 cu mine c\u00e2nd voiai s\u0103 abandonezi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tot ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Profesorul s-a uitat spre mine \u0219i a z\u00e2mbit cu respect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dumneavoastr\u0103 nu a\u021bi absolvit medicina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar, \u00eentr-un fel, diploma aceasta v\u0103 apar\u021bine la fel de mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am sim\u021bit c\u0103-mi dau lacrimile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu mai puteam spune nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Radu \u0219i-a luat servieta \u0219i a \u00eencercat s\u0103 plece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar nimeni dintre fo\u0219tii lui colegi nu l-a urmat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>R\u0103m\u0103sese singur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Au trecut aproape opt luni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Divor\u021bul s-a \u00eencheiat f\u0103r\u0103 scandal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N-am cerut r\u0103zbunare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N-am vrut s\u0103-i distrug cariera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am vrut doar s\u0103-mi reconstruiesc via\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o diminea\u021b\u0103 am primit un telefon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Era profesorul care vorbise \u00een ziua absolvirii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Mai ave\u021bi acela\u0219i vis?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Care?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Facultatea de Farmacie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 cuvinte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu este prea t\u00e2rziu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Pentru oamenii care nu renun\u021b\u0103 niciodat\u0103 la munc\u0103, nu este niciodat\u0103 prea t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu ajutorul lui \u0219i al unei funda\u021bii care sprijinea studen\u021bii adul\u021bi, am reu\u0219it s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eenscriu din nou la facultate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aveam treizeci \u0219i doi de ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eram mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 dec\u00e2t aproape to\u021bi colegii mei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar de data aceasta \u00eenv\u0103\u021bam pentru mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu pentru altcineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Patru ani mai t\u00e2rziu, am \u00eembr\u0103cat halatul alb la ceremonia de absolvire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd nu m\u0103 a\u0219tepta niciun so\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu aveam buchete uria\u0219e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu aveam fotografi profesioni\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aveam doar c\u00e2\u021biva oameni care crezuser\u0103 \u00een mine atunci c\u00e2nd nici eu nu mai aveam curaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Profesorul a venit \u0219i mi-a \u00eentins diploma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u021ai-am spus c\u0103 nu este prea t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit printre lacrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen clipa aceea am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 cel mai mare e\u0219ec din via\u021ba mea nu fusese divor\u021bul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fusese faptul c\u0103, ani la r\u00e2nd, \u00eemi abandonasem propriile vise ca s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc visul altcuiva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd am ie\u0219it din universitate, am privit cerul \u0219i am inspirat ad\u00e2nc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De data aceasta, drumul din fa\u021ba mea \u00eemi apar\u021binea \u00een \u00eentregime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i pentru prima dat\u0103 dup\u0103 mul\u021bi ani, nu mai mergeam \u00een urma nim\u0103nui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mergeam spre propria mea via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aceast\u0103 lucrare este inspirat\u0103 din evenimente \u0219i persoane reale, \u00eens\u0103 a fost fic\u021bionalizat\u0103 \u00een scopuri creative. Numele, personajele \u0219i detaliile au fost schimbate pentru a proteja intimitatea \u0219i pentru a \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi nara\u021biunea. Orice asem\u0103nare cu persoane reale, \u00een via\u021b\u0103 sau decedate, sau cu evenimente reale este pur \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103toare \u0219i nu este inten\u021bionat\u0103 de c\u0103tre autor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Autorul \u0219i editorul nu \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 responsabilitatea pentru exactitatea evenimentelor sau pentru modul \u00een care sunt portretizate personajele \u0219i nu sunt r\u0103spunz\u0103tori pentru eventuale interpret\u0103ri gre\u0219ite. Aceast\u0103 poveste este oferit\u0103 \u201eca atare\u201d, iar orice opinii exprimate apar\u021bin personajelor \u0219i nu reflect\u0103 punctele de vedere ale autorului sau ale editorului.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>B\u0103rbatul care se apropiase de noi purta \u00eenc\u0103 roba de absolvire pe bra\u021b. L-am v\u0103zut \u00eentinz\u00e2nd m\u00e2na spre Radu. \u2014 Felicit\u0103ri, doctore. 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