{"id":46521,"date":"2026-03-09T07:48:17","date_gmt":"2026-03-09T07:48:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=46521"},"modified":"2026-03-09T07:48:18","modified_gmt":"2026-03-09T07:48:18","slug":"cinci-ani-de-casnicie-am-gatit-in-fiecare-zi-cate-trei-feluri-la-cina-iar-sotul-tot-gasea-motiv-sa-se-planga","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=46521","title":{"rendered":"\u201dCinci ani de c\u0103snicie am g\u0103tit \u00een fiecare zi c\u00e2te trei feluri la cin\u0103, iar so\u021bul tot g\u0103sea motiv s\u0103 se pl\u00e2ng\u0103\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Nu i-am mai g\u0103tit a doua zi. \u0218i nici a treia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Diminea\u021ba mi-am f\u0103cut doar mie un ou fiert \u0219i o cafea. At\u00e2t. La pr\u00e2nz mi-am luat o salat\u0103 de la col\u021b, iar seara am venit acas\u0103 \u0219i m-am a\u0219ezat pe canapea cu o carte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andrei a intrat fl\u0103m\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Ce m\u00e2nc\u0103m?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu \u0219tiu. Ce se m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 la cantin\u0103 azi? am \u00eentrebat calm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A r\u00e2s. A crezut c\u0103 fac pe interesanta. A deschis frigiderul. Gol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Serios acum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Foarte serios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S-a \u00eencruntat, dar a comandat ceva de pe aplica\u021bie. A m\u00e2ncat \u00een t\u0103cere. Eu mi-am f\u0103cut dou\u0103 felii de p\u00e2ine pr\u0103jit\u0103 cu br\u00e2nz\u0103 \u0219i ro\u0219ii. Simplu. F\u0103r\u0103 stres. F\u0103r\u0103 trei feluri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A doua zi a plecat la munc\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 pachet. A treia zi m-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 sunt bolnav\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu. Sunt bine. Doar c\u0103 nu mai sunt buc\u0103t\u0103reasa casei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A \u00eenceput s\u0103 bomb\u0103ne. C\u0103 exagerez. C\u0103 \u201edoar a spus \u0219i el o p\u0103rere\u201d. C\u0103 orice b\u0103rbat mai comenteaz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar eu nu mai aveam lacrimi. Nici nervi. Eram lini\u0219tit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen weekend nu am f\u0103cut \u201erestaurant\u201d. Mi-am programat o ie\u0219ire cu prietena mea, Ioana. Am b\u0103ut o cafea \u00een ora\u0219 \u0219i mi-am cump\u0103rat o bluz\u0103 din banii pe care \u00eenainte \u00eei d\u0103deam pe carne, sm\u00e2nt\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i tot felul de ingrediente \u201especiale\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd m-am \u00eentors, Andrei era \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Arsese ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Am \u00eencercat s\u0103 fac cartofi la cuptor, a morm\u0103it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am dat din umeri \u0219i am trecut pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seara a venit la mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Chiar nu mai g\u0103te\u0219ti deloc?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 G\u0103tesc. Dar nu ca s\u0103 demonstrez ceva. \u0218i nu pentru cineva care compar\u0103 tot timpul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een cinci ani, a t\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zilele au trecut. A \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce mai des la cantin\u0103. Dup\u0103 o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, a venit cu o pung\u0103 de la supermarket.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Am luat ni\u0219te carne. Poate facem \u00eempreun\u0103 ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201e\u00cempreun\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cuv\u00e2ntul \u0103sta nu exista \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am f\u0103cut o toc\u0103ni\u021b\u0103 simpl\u0103. El a t\u0103iat ceapa. A str\u00e2mbat din nas c\u00e2nd i-au dat lacrimile. Eu am z\u00e2mbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A gustat din m\u00e2ncare \u0219i s-a oprit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 E bun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu era perfect\u0103. Nu era de restaurant. Era o m\u00e2ncare normal\u0103, de cas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tii\u2026 la cantin\u0103 nu e chiar a\u0219a grozav, a spus \u00eencet. Doar c\u0103 acolo nu spal\u0103 nimeni vasele dup\u0103 mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A fost prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd a recunoscut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu am \u021bipat. Nu i-am scos ochii. I-am spus doar at\u00e2t:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu vreau s\u0103 fiu apreciat\u0103 doar pentru ce pun \u00een farfurie. Sunt mai mult de at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-a privit lung.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen seara aceea a sp\u0103lat el vasele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu pentru c\u0103 i-am cerut. Ci pentru c\u0103 a \u00een\u021beles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De atunci nu mai g\u0103tesc trei feluri pe zi. Uneori facem ceva rapid. Alteori comand\u0103m. Alteori g\u0103te\u0219te el \u0219i iese prea s\u0103rat. Dar nimeni nu mai compar\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103 iubirea nu se m\u0103soar\u0103 \u00een ciorbe \u0219i chiftele. \u0218i c\u0103 dac\u0103 tu nu te respec\u021bi, nimeni nu o va face \u00een locul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Planul meu nu a fost s\u0103-l umilesc. A fost s\u0103 m\u0103 aleg pe mine. \u0218i asta a schimbat tot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Aceast\u0103 lucrare este inspirat\u0103 din evenimente \u0219i persoane reale, \u00eens\u0103 a fost fic\u021bionalizat\u0103 \u00een scopuri creative. Numele, personajele \u0219i detaliile au fost schimbate pentru a proteja intimitatea \u0219i pentru a \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi nara\u021biunea. Orice asem\u0103nare cu persoane reale, \u00een via\u021b\u0103 sau decedate, sau cu evenimente reale este pur \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103toare \u0219i nu este inten\u021bionat\u0103 de c\u0103tre autor.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Autorul \u0219i editorul nu \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 responsabilitatea pentru exactitatea evenimentelor sau pentru modul \u00een care sunt portretizate personajele \u0219i nu sunt r\u0103spunz\u0103tori pentru eventuale interpret\u0103ri gre\u0219ite. Aceast\u0103 poveste este oferit\u0103 \u201eca atare\u201d, iar orice opinii exprimate apar\u021bin personajelor \u0219i nu reflect\u0103 punctele de vedere ale autorului sau ale editorului.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1><\/h1>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nu i-am mai g\u0103tit a doua zi. \u0218i nici a treia. Diminea\u021ba mi-am f\u0103cut doar mie un ou fiert \u0219i o cafea. At\u00e2t. 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