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Un b\u0103rbat m-a invitat la el acas\u0103 la cin\u0103, dar \u00een loc de cin\u0103, \u00een chiuvet\u0103 m-a a\u0219teptat un munte de vase murdare, iar pe mas\u0103 erau alimente. El a spus calm: \u201eVreau s\u0103 v\u0103d ce fel de gospodin\u0103 e\u0219ti, dac\u0103 \u0219tii s\u0103 g\u0103te\u0219ti\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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M\u0103 preg\u0103team pentru o \u00eent\u00e2lnire. Nu pentru o cafea rapid\u0103 \u0219i nici pentru o plimbare f\u0103r\u0103 obliga\u021bii. Era o \u00eent\u00e2lnire cu inten\u021bii serioase. Se numea David \u0219i avea \u0219aizeci de ani. Vorbea calm, sigur pe el, f\u0103r\u0103 promisiuni goale. Tocmai el m-a invitat la el acas\u0103 la cin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u2014\u00a0Linda, vreau s\u0103 g\u0103tesc ceva special pentru tine<\/em>, a spus el la telefon. \u2014\u00a0La restaurante e g\u0103l\u0103gie, iar acas\u0103 putem vorbi lini\u0219ti\u021bi.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Mi-a pl\u0103cut asta. Un b\u0103rbat care se ofer\u0103 s\u0103 g\u0103teasc\u0103 singur pare rar. Am cump\u0103rat o cutie cu bomboanele lui preferate \u0219i am plecat spre el cu dispozi\u021bie bun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ne cuno\u0219team de aproximativ dou\u0103 luni, dar era prima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd mergeam la el acas\u0103. P\u0103rea un pas \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n David m-a \u00eent\u00e2mpinat la u\u0219\u0103. Ar\u0103ta \u00eengrijit \u0219i sigur pe el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014\u00a0Ar\u0103\u021bi minunat<\/em>, a spus el \u0219i m-a ajutat s\u0103-mi dau jos paltonul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Apartamentul era spa\u021bios, cu tavane \u00eenalte. \u00cen hol era curat, dar aerul p\u0103rea greu, ca \u0219i cum ferestrele nu s-ar fi deschis de mult timp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen living, pe mas\u0103, erau dou\u0103 pahare. Nimic altceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Cina va fi gata cur\u00e2nd?<\/em> am \u00eentrebat calm. \u2014 Mi-e deja foame.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Desigur<\/em>, a z\u00e2mbit el. \u2014 Hai s\u0103 mergem \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am intrat \u0219i m-am oprit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Chiuveta era complet plin\u0103 cu vase murdare. Farfurii, oale \u0219i tig\u0103i erau \u00eempr\u0103\u0219tiate, ca \u0219i cum nu ar fi fost sp\u0103late de foarte mult timp. Pe mas\u0103 erau produse aruncate aiurea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Uite<\/em>, a spus David cu o expresie mul\u021bumit\u0103. \u2014 Totul e gata.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Ce anume e gata?<\/em> am \u00eentrebat, sim\u021bind tensiune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Via\u021ba real\u0103 de familie<\/em>, a r\u0103spuns el. \u2014 Nu am nevoie doar de o femeie pentru \u00eent\u00e2lniri. Caut o gospodin\u0103. Vreau s\u0103 v\u0103d cum o femeie are grij\u0103 de cas\u0103 \u0219i de b\u0103rbat.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n S-a apropiat \u0219i a spus mai \u00eencet:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Nu am sp\u0103lat vasele inten\u021bionat. Vreau s\u0103 v\u0103d cum te descurci. Cuvintele nu conteaz\u0103. Buc\u0103t\u0103ria arat\u0103 totul.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am stat acolo, \u00een rochia mea frumoas\u0103, \u00een mijlocul acestui mizerii \u0219i m-am uitat la el. Nu glumea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n G\u00e2nduri familiare mi-au trecut prin cap. Poate s\u0103 ajut. Poate a\u0219a trebuie. Toat\u0103 via\u021ba ni s-a spus s\u0103 fim cumin\u021bi, r\u0103bd\u0103tori \u0219i recunosc\u0103tori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i apoi am f\u0103cut ceea ce am considerat corect <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 David<\/em>, am spus calm. \u2014 Am venit la o \u00eent\u00e2lnire. Nu am planificat s\u0103 fac cur\u0103\u021benie.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Ce e r\u0103u \u00een asta?<\/em> a \u00eentrebat el sincer surprins. \u2014 \u0218i uite \u0219or\u021bul at\u00e2rn\u00e2nd. Suntem adul\u021bi. Am nevoie de bor\u0219, chiftelu\u021be \u0219i vase curate. Vreau s\u0103 v\u0103d grij\u0103.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Apoi a ad\u0103ugat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Dac\u0103 acum faci mofturi, ce vei face c\u00e2nd m\u0103 voi \u00eemboln\u0103vi? Vei pleca?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Era o manipulare pur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Am cincizeci \u0219i opt de ani. Am crescut copii. Am \u00eengrijit ani de zile un so\u021b bolnav. \u0218tiu s\u0103 g\u0103tesc, s\u0103 fac curat \u0219i s\u0103 \u021bin casa \u00een ordine. Am f\u0103cut asta toat\u0103 via\u021ba mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i tocmai de aceea nu aveam de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 fac asta acum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Ai dreptate<\/em>, am spus. \u2014 Ai nevoie de o gospodin\u0103. Buc\u0103tar, menajer\u0103 \u0219i \u00eengrijitoare \u00eentr-o singur\u0103 persoan\u0103.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n El deja se \u00eentinsese spre \u0219or\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 A\u0219teapt\u0103<\/em>, l-am oprit. \u2014 Ai gre\u0219it formatul. Am venit s\u0103 m\u0103 relaxez \u0219i s\u0103 socializez. Am \u0219i eu buc\u0103t\u0103rie acas\u0103 \u0219i am petrecut suficient timp la aragaz.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e2nd vin la un b\u0103rbat, a\u0219tept grij\u0103, nu a doua tur\u0103 de munc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Fa\u021ba lui s-a schimbat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 A\u0219a sunte\u021bi voi acum<\/em>, a spus el iritat. \u2014 Voi vre\u021bi doar restaurante.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Nu m-am angajat la tine la munc\u0103<\/em>, i-am r\u0103spuns. \u2014 \u0218i nu voi trece teste. Am patruzeci de ani de experien\u021b\u0103 \u00een gospod\u0103rie. E suficient.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am luat cutia de bomboane de pe mas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Unde mergi?<\/em> s-a pierdut el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Aici nu e mas\u0103. E o buc\u0103t\u0103rie murdar\u0103 \u0219i cerin\u021bele tale.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2014 Atunci pleac\u0103<\/em>, a \u021bipat el. \u2014 R\u0103m\u00e2i singur\u0103.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Cuvintele acestea trebuiau s\u0103 r\u0103neasc\u0103. Dar nu au f\u0103cut-o. El doar testa dac\u0103 poate s\u0103 se poarte a\u0219a cu mine. Testul de \u201egospod\u0103rie\u201d e \u00eentotdeauna un test de stim\u0103 de sine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 o femeie accept\u0103 s\u0103 spele vase la prima \u00eent\u00e2lnire, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 mai departe cu ea se poate face orice. 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