{"id":40008,"date":"2025-06-11T06:19:50","date_gmt":"2025-06-11T06:19:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=40008"},"modified":"2025-06-11T06:19:51","modified_gmt":"2025-06-11T06:19:51","slug":"dupa-moartea-mamei-noastre-sora-mea-m-a-abandonat-intr-un-centru-de-plasament-ani-mai-tarziu-am-primit-un-apel-de-la-spital","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=40008","title":{"rendered":"DUP\u0102 MOARTEA MAMEI NOASTRE, SORA MEA M-A ABANDONAT \u00ceNTR-UN CENTRU DE PLASAMENT \u2013 ANI MAI T\u00c2RZIU, AM PRIMIT UN APEL DE LA SPITAL"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

LA O V\u00c2RST\u0102 FRAGED\u0102, ANDREEA \u0218I-A ABANDONAT SORA MAI MIC\u0102, LAVINIA, \u00ceNTR-UN CENTRU DE PLASAMENT \u2014 ANI MAI T\u00c2RZIU, ACEASTA A AJUNS S\u0102 AIB\u0102 GRIJ\u0102 DE NEPO\u021aII EI NOU-N\u0102SCU\u021aI, CARE SE CONFRUNTAU CU ACELA\u0218I DESTIN<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Lavinia \u0219i sora ei mai mare, Andreea, se certau constant c\u00e2nd erau mici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00cen cele din urm\u0103, Andreea a plecat la facultate, \u00een timp ce Lavinia era \u00eenc\u0103 la liceu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Certurile dintre ele s-au oprit pentru o vreme, deoarece nu mai locuiau \u00een aceea\u0219i cas\u0103. Dar de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd Andreea venea \u00een vizit\u0103, discu\u021biile aprinse reveneau. \u201eTot ce-mi doresc pentru voi dou\u0103 este s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne\u021bi unite, orice s-ar \u00eent\u00e2mpla\u201d, le spunea mama lor, Mirela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Totul s-a schimbat c\u00e2nd Mirela s-a \u00eemboln\u0103vit grav. Cum tat\u0103l fetelor nu era prezent, femeia nu a avut alt\u0103 op\u021biune dec\u00e2t s\u0103-i cear\u0103 ajutorul Andreei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201e\u00cen cel mai r\u0103u caz, te rog, nu-\u021bi abandona sora. Lavinia va trebui s\u0103 locuiasc\u0103 \u00eentr-un centru de plasament, dar dup\u0103 ce termini facultatea, \u00eentoarce-te dup\u0103 ea\u201d, i-a cerut mama pe patul de moarte fiicei sale mai mari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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La scurt timp, Mirela a murit \u00een somn. Dup\u0103 moartea mamei sale, Lavinia a fost dus\u0103 \u00eentr-un centru de plasament, a\u0219tept\u00e2nd ziua \u00een care sora ei avea s\u0103 termine facultatea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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La sf\u00e2r\u0219itul anului, fata a aflat c\u0103 Andreea se absolvise \u0219i a \u00eencercat s\u0103 o sune. Dar sora ei a \u00eenchis apelul f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 rosteasc\u0103 un cuv\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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C\u00e2nd s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nile de a\u0219teptare s-au transformat \u00een luni, Lavinia a realizat c\u0103 Andreea nu avea de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 se \u00eentoarc\u0103. Cele dou\u0103 surori nu au mai vorbit niciodat\u0103 \u0219i resentimentele dintre ele s-au ad\u00e2ncit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dup\u0103 un an greu, un cuplu minunat, Tudor \u0219i Gabriela, au adoptat-o pe Lavinia. Ace\u0219tia au tratat-o ca pe fiica lor, iar ea a reu\u0219it s\u0103 se bucure de restul anilor de liceu p\u00e2n\u0103 la absolvire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Timpul a trecut, iar Lavinia \u0219i-a terminat studiile universitare. P\u0103rin\u021bii adoptivi au fost al\u0103turi de ea la ceremonia de absolvire. \u201eOrice s-ar \u00eent\u00e2mpla, suntem la un telefon distan\u021b\u0103\u201d, i-a spus Gabriela fiicei lor adoptive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Lavinia a devenit un agent imobiliar de succes \u00een ora\u0219ul natal. \u00cei pl\u0103cea s\u0103 ajute oamenii s\u0103-\u0219i g\u0103seasc\u0103 casa visurilor, a\u0219a cum Tudor \u0219i Gabriela f\u0103cuser\u0103 pentru ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00centr-o zi, Lavinia a primit un apel de la spitalul local. O asistent\u0103 i-a spus c\u0103 ea este persoana de contact de urgen\u021b\u0103 a Andreei. \u201e\u00cemi pare r\u0103u s\u0103 v\u0103 spun asta, dar sora dumneavoastr\u0103 a decedat din cauza unor complica\u021bii la na\u0219tere. A dat na\u0219tere la gemeni, iar dumneavoastr\u0103 sunte\u021bi cea mai apropiat\u0103 rud\u0103\u201d, a spus asistenta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Lavinia a r\u0103mas confuz\u0103 \u0219i furioas\u0103. Andreea nici m\u0103car nu \u00eei spusese c\u0103 era \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103, \u0219i cu at\u00e2t mai pu\u021bin c\u0103 ea era persoana de contact \u00een caz de urgen\u021b\u0103. \u201eCu ce drept?\u201d, \u0219i-a spus \u00een sinea ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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A decis s\u0103 \u00eei sune pe Tudor \u0219i Gabriela pentru sfat. Ei o ajutaser\u0103 s\u0103 treac\u0103 peste durerea abandonului \u00een trecut \u0219i \u0219tia c\u0103 vor avea un cuv\u00e2nt \u00een\u021belept de spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201e\u0218tiu c\u0103 e greu de acceptat, dar Andreea era sora ta, iar acei doi bebelu\u0219i nu au nicio vin\u0103. M\u0103car du-te la spital \u0219i caut\u0103 ni\u0219te r\u0103spunsuri\u201d, i-a spus Tudor Laviniei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Lavinia le-a mul\u021bumit p\u0103rin\u021bilor adoptivi pentru sfat, dar \u00eenc\u0103 nu era convins\u0103. Sim\u021bea c\u0103 responsabilitatea apar\u021binea tat\u0103lui copiilor, nu ei. Nu voia s\u0103 adopte copiii, mai ales dup\u0103 tot ce Andreea \u00eei f\u0103cuse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ajuns\u0103 la spital, \u00een c\u0103utarea unor r\u0103spunsuri, Lavinia a vorbit cu una dintre asistente. Aceasta i-a spus c\u0103 Andreea a l\u0103sat un bilet \u00eenainte s\u0103 moar\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201ePoate c\u0103 e prea pu\u021bin \u0219i prea t\u00e2rziu, dar acum \u00een\u021beleg c\u00e2te gre\u0219eli am f\u0103cut \u0219i c\u00e2t de mult le regret. \u0218tiu c\u0103 iertarea e ultimul lucru la care te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti acum, dar te rog s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi aminte\u0219ti ultima mea dorin\u021b\u0103. Te rog, accept\u0103-i pe copiii mei. Te implor.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201eDup\u0103 ce am devenit mam\u0103, am \u00een\u021beles ce sim\u021bea mama noastr\u0103 c\u00e2nd m-a rugat s\u0103 nu te las singur\u0103. Simt acelea\u0219i emo\u021bii acum\u2026 \u00cemi pare at\u00e2t de r\u0103u\u201d, scria \u00een bilet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pentru Lavinia, totul era greu de procesat. Se \u00eentreba dac\u0103 nu cumva exista \u0219i altceva \u00een spatele pove\u0219tii. \u201eUnde e tat\u0103l copiilor?\u201d, g\u00e2ndea ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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A descoperit \u00een telefonul Andreei sute de apeluri \u0219i mesaje trimise unui b\u0103rbat pe nume Dorian. S-a dovedit c\u0103 acesta plecase din ora\u0219 c\u00e2nd a aflat c\u0103 Andreea era \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ea r\u0103m\u0103sese singur\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 sprijin, luni de zile \u00eenainte de a-i na\u0219te pe gemeni. Laviniei i s-a p\u0103rut c\u0103 istoria se repet\u0103. \u0218i mama ei, Mirela, fusese abandonat\u0103 de so\u021b dup\u0103 na\u0219terea celei de-a doua fiice \u0219i fusese nevoit\u0103 s\u0103 le creasc\u0103 singur\u0103 pe am\u00e2ndou\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Lavinia i-a sunat din nou pe Tudor \u0219i Gabriela ca s\u0103 se descarce. \u201eS\u0103-i v\u0103d pe acei bebelu\u0219i \u00een salonul de nou-n\u0103scu\u021bi mi-a amintit de momentul \u00een care am fost l\u0103sat\u0103 \u00een centrul de plasament\u201d, le-a spus ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201eSe pare c\u0103 \u0219tii exact ce ai de f\u0103cut\u201d, i-a r\u0103spuns Tudor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dup\u0103 ce a vorbit cu p\u0103rin\u021bii ei adoptivi, Lavinia i-a trimis un mesaj tat\u0103lui copiilor Andreei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201eSper ca \u00eentr-o zi s\u0103 realizezi c\u00e2t de gre\u0219it a fost s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi abandonezi copiii \u0219i pe sora mea. Tot ce pot spera este c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi vei c\u0103uta iertarea, \u00eenainte s\u0103 fie prea t\u00e2rziu\u201d, spunea mesajul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00cen acea zi, Lavinia a semnat ca tutore legal al celor doi nepo\u021bi. I-a numit Tudor \u0219i Gabriel, \u00een cinstea p\u0103rin\u021bilor adoptivi care o ajutaser\u0103 at\u00e2t de mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pentru ea, cel mai important mod de a-\u0219i onora sora \u0219i mama era s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 acei copii vor r\u0103m\u00e2ne mereu uni\u021bi \u0219i al\u0103turi unul de cel\u0103lalt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201eNu conteaz\u0103 ce ne\u00een\u021belegeri ave\u021bi, b\u0103ie\u021bi, trebuie \u00eentotdeauna s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103, la bine \u0219i la greu\u201d, le spunea Lavinia nepo\u021bilor. Cei trei tr\u0103iau o via\u021b\u0103 fericit\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103, iar Lavinia sim\u021bea o bucurie special\u0103 \u0219tiind c\u0103 le ofer\u0103 un c\u0103min sigur acelor copii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00cen semn de respect, Lavinia \u00eei ducea mereu s\u0103 a\u0219eze flori proaspete la mormintele mamei \u0219i bunicii lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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O iertase pe Andreea \u0219i mereu \u0219i-ar fi dorit s\u0103 se fi \u00eemp\u0103cat cu ea c\u00e2t \u00eenc\u0103 tr\u0103ia. Dar g\u0103sea m\u00e2ng\u00e2iere privind spre Tudor \u0219i Gabriel, c\u0103ci ace\u0219tia aveau ochii Andreei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ce putem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba din aceast\u0103 poveste?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Las\u0103 deoparte ne\u00een\u021belegerile cu cei dragi:<\/strong>\u00a0Dac\u0103 Andreea ar fi \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 treac\u0103 peste conflictele m\u0103runte, ar fi putut forma o leg\u0103tur\u0103 mai puternic\u0103 cu sora ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Niciodat\u0103 nu e prea t\u00e2rziu s\u0103 ier\u021bi:<\/strong>\u00a0Dup\u0103 moartea Andreei, Lavinia a reu\u0219it s\u0103 o ierte \u0219i s\u0103 le ofere copiilor ei un loc \u00een via\u021ba sa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u021bi-a pl\u0103cut povestea, nu uita s\u0103 o distribui cu prietenii t\u0103i! \u00cempreun\u0103 putem duce mai departe emo\u021bia \u0219i inspira\u021bia.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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