{"id":39621,"date":"2025-05-30T05:42:21","date_gmt":"2025-05-30T05:42:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=39621"},"modified":"2025-05-30T05:42:21","modified_gmt":"2025-05-30T05:42:21","slug":"din-armata-fiul-s-a-intors-nu-cu-mainile-goale-ci-cu-un-copil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=39621","title":{"rendered":"Din armat\u0103, fiul s-a \u00eentors nu cu m\u00e2inile goale, ci cu un copil."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Din armat\u0103, fiul s-a \u00eentors nu cu m\u00e2inile goale, ci cu un copil. De obicei, a\u0219a ceva se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu fetele, dar de data asta \u2014 b\u0103iatul a venit cu un bebelu\u0219.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matei a f\u0103cut armata \u00een \u021a\u0103rile Baltice. Acas\u0103 \u00eel a\u0219tepta o fat\u0103, care venise chiar \u0219i la jur\u0103m\u00e2nt. Dar el a cedat tenta\u021biei \u0219i s-a cuplat cu o localnic\u0103 tineric\u0103. Ea a n\u0103scut \u0219i voia s\u0103 renun\u021be la copil. P\u0103rin\u021bii ei ar fi putut s\u0103-l for\u021beze pe Matei s\u0103 se c\u0103s\u0103toreasc\u0103, dar nu le p\u0103sa de el. B\u0103iatul a rugat s\u0103 nu abandoneze feti\u021ba, promi\u021b\u00e2nd c\u0103 dup\u0103 terminarea serviciului militar o va lua la el. Feti\u021ba a fost \u00eenregistrat\u0103 ca Regina, cu numele lui de familie \u0219i prenumele lui ca patronimic. Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva luni, Matei s-a \u00eentors acas\u0103 cu copilul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La \u00eenceput, p\u0103rin\u021bii au fost \u0219oca\u021bi, dar apoi au acceptat \u2014 au oferit ajutor, grij\u0103, bucurie. Iubita \u00eens\u0103 nu i-a iertat tr\u0103darea. Matei s-a ata\u0219at de copil, \u0219i-a recunoscut gre\u0219eala \u0219i considera c\u0103 totul fusese vina lui. Cur\u00e2nd a ap\u0103rut o alt\u0103 femeie \u00een via\u021ba lui. Ea voia s\u0103 se m\u0103rite \u0219i a fost de acord s\u0103 creasc\u0103 feti\u021ba. Dup\u0103 nunt\u0103 s-au mutat la ea, c\u0103ci ea nu voia s\u0103 locuiasc\u0103 cu p\u0103rin\u021bii lui. Ea st\u0103tea acas\u0103, el muncea. Dar copilul era nelini\u0219tit, femeia era nervoas\u0103. \u00centr-o zi, Matei a venit acas\u0103 ziua \u2014 feti\u021ba pl\u00e2ngea \u00eentr-un co\u0219 sub pat, iar deasupra st\u0103tea o pisic\u0103. Revoltat, a luat feti\u021ba \u0219i a dus-o la p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i nu s-a mai \u00eentors. A cerut divor\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar femeia era deja \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103. A n\u0103scut \u0219i i-a adus copilul \u00een acela\u0219i co\u0219. I-a spus direct:<br>\u2014 \u201eOri \u00eel iei, ori \u00eel duc la orfelinat.\u201d<br>Bebelu\u0219ul avea nevoie de lapte matern, iar Matei \u00eel aducea zilnic pentru a fi al\u0103ptat. La \u00eenceput, femeia \u00eel al\u0103pta, apoi \u00eei d\u0103dea laptele, iar \u00een cele din urm\u0103 \u2014 \u0219i-a bandajat s\u00e2nii:<br>\u2014 \u201eDescurc\u0103-te singur.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o zi, o vecin\u0103 i-a povestit despre o fat\u0103 dintr-un sat, care fusese violat\u0103. A n\u0103scut, avea mult lapte \u0219i era bun\u0103 la suflet. Provenea dintr-o familie s\u0103rac\u0103, sem\u0103na cu o eroin\u0103 de poveste \u2014 ro\u0219cat\u0103, cu pistrui, aspectul nu impresiona. Matei a fost de acord, fiind epuizat \u2014 fizic \u0219i psihic. Cel mai important era ca copiii s\u0103 fie la c\u0103ldur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Au mers la cerere. N-a fost nevoie de prea multe insisten\u021be. Matei, f\u0103r\u0103 mari emo\u021bii, a acceptat. S-au c\u0103s\u0103torit, au adus-o acas\u0103. Ea cu copilul ei, el \u2014 cu doi. O chema Uliana. A leg\u0103nat imediat bebelu\u0219ii cu un c\u00e2ntec de leag\u0103n, at\u00e2t de duios, \u00eenc\u00e2t Matei a adormit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu timpul, totul a intrat \u00eentr-un ritm normal. Uliana era harnic\u0103, \u00eei ajuta pe socri. Matei o respecta, de\u0219i la \u00eenceput n-o percepea ca pe o femeie. Ea nu se sup\u0103ra \u2014 fie c\u0103 \u00een\u021belegea, fie c\u0103 nu dorea mai mult. Feti\u021bele au crescut ca ni\u0219te surori. Matei a \u00eenfiat feti\u021ba Ulianei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o zi, \u00een sat a venit prima lui iubire \u2014 Matei s-a \u00eencurcat, a b\u0103ut. \u00cen acea sear\u0103 a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at-o pentru prima dat\u0103 pe Uliana. \u0218i de acolo lucrurile au \u00eenceput s\u0103 se schimbe. Nu era iubire \u2014 dar era lini\u0219te, \u00een\u021belegere, respect. A \u00eenceput s\u0103 o vad\u0103 ca fiind drag\u0103, apropiat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd fetele au mers la \u0219coal\u0103, Uliana i-a spus c\u0103 e \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103. La \u00eenceput, Matei s-a ru\u0219inat \u2014 deja aveau trei copii, de ce ar mai fi nevoie de unul? Dar v\u0103z\u00e2nd frica ei, i-a spus:<br>\u2014 \u201eDac\u0103 avem trei, vom avea \u0219i al patrulea.\u201d<br>S-a n\u0103scut un b\u0103ie\u021bel \u2014 \u0219i din nou, casa s-a umplut de bucurie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anii au trecut. Uliana avea 49 de ani, Matei \u2014 un b\u0103rbat respectabil cu burtic\u0103. Tr\u0103iau lini\u0219tit. \u00centr-o sear\u0103, dup\u0103 cin\u0103, Uliana s-a a\u0219ezat l\u00e2ng\u0103 el \u0219i i-a spus:<br>\u2014 \u201eMatei, vom mai avea unul\u2026\u201d<br>\u2014 \u201eAi \u00eennebunit? O s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103 lumea!\u201d<br>\u2014 \u201ePrea t\u00e2rziu, Matei. Voi na\u0219te.\u201d<br>El a oftat:<br>\u2014 \u201eOf, m-ai terminat\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Noaptea, ea pl\u00e2ngea \u00een t\u0103cere, iar el a morm\u0103it:<br>\u2014 \u201eNu moare nimeni! Va fi copil \u2014 \u0219i e bine.\u201d<br>A \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at-o \u0219i i-a pus m\u00e2na pe burt\u0103. Uliana a n\u0103scut chiar \u00eenainte de aniversare \u2014 \u00eenc\u0103 o feti\u021b\u0103. Au numit-o Eugenia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eugenia a fost m\u00e2ng\u00e2ierea b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bii. Frumoas\u0103, brunet\u0103, lini\u0219tit\u0103. Ceilal\u021bi copii s-au r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit prin lume, dar ea a r\u0103mas. \u00cenv\u0103\u021ba, iar tat\u0103l i-a cump\u0103rat o ma\u0219in\u0103 ca s\u0103 poat\u0103 merge la ora\u0219. Via\u021ba se \u00eenv\u00e2rte. La unii \u2014 lin, la al\u021bii \u2014 cu r\u0103suciri. Dar cel mai important e s\u0103 fie cu iubire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dac\u0103 \u021bi-a pl\u0103cut povestea, nu uita s\u0103 o distribui cu prietenii t\u0103i! \u00cempreun\u0103 putem duce mai departe emo\u021bia \u0219i inspira\u021bia.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Din armat\u0103, fiul s-a \u00eentors nu cu m\u00e2inile goale, ci cu un copil. De obicei, a\u0219a ceva se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu fetele, dar de data asta<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":39588,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39621"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=39621"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39621\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":39622,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39621\/revisions\/39622"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/39588"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=39621"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=39621"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=39621"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}