{"id":39606,"date":"2025-05-29T06:21:23","date_gmt":"2025-05-29T06:21:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=39606"},"modified":"2025-05-29T06:21:39","modified_gmt":"2025-05-29T06:21:39","slug":"un-barbat-fara-adapost-cu-dizabilitati-i-a-dat-singurul-sau-ajutor-de-mobilitate-un-scaun-cu-rotile-unui-baiat-sarac-care-nu-putea-merge-cinci-ani-mai-tarziu-baiatul-l-a-gasit-pe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=39606","title":{"rendered":"Un b\u0103rbat f\u0103r\u0103 ad\u0103post cu dizabilit\u0103\u021bi i-a dat singurul s\u0103u ajutor de mobilitate \u2013 un scaun cu rotile \u2013 unui b\u0103iat s\u0103rac care nu putea merge. Cinci ani mai t\u00e2rziu, b\u0103iatul l-a g\u0103sit pentru a-i \u00eentoarce bun\u0103tatea."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Un flautist cu dizabilit\u0103\u021bi, f\u0103r\u0103 ad\u0103post, \u00ee\u0219i sacrific\u0103 singura speran\u021b\u0103 \u2013 un scaun cu rotile \u2013 pentru un b\u0103iat de opt ani care nu poate merge, ascunz\u00e2ndu-\u0219i durerea. Cinci ani mai t\u00e2rziu, b\u0103iatul se \u00eentoarce \u00een picioare, cu un dar care va schimba totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2ntam la locul meu obi\u0219nuit din pia\u021ba ora\u0219ului c\u00e2nd l-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit prima dat\u0103 pe b\u0103iat. Degetele mele se mi\u0219cau de-a lungul g\u0103urilor flautului din amintiri, \u00een timp ce mintea mea r\u0103t\u0103cea, a\u0219a cum se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 adesea \u00een timpul spectacolelor mele zilnice\u00a0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cincisprezece ani de via\u021b\u0103 pe str\u0103zi m-au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 caut o evadare din realitate, unde doar muzica m\u0103 putea distrage de la durerea constant\u0103 \u0219i pulsant\u0103 din partea inferioar\u0103 a spatelui \u0219i a \u0219oldurilor. Am \u00eenchis ochii, l\u0103s\u00e2nd muzica s\u0103 m\u0103 transporte \u00eentr-un alt timp \u0219i loc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am lucrat \u00eentr-o fabric\u0103. Era o munc\u0103 grea, dar \u00eemi pl\u0103cea ritmul ei, c\u00e2nd corpul intra \u00eentr-un anumit ritm, ceva asem\u0103n\u0103tor unui dans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi au \u00eenceput durerile. Aveam aproape patruzeci de ani \u0219i ini\u021bial am dat vina pe v\u00e2rst\u0103, dar pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce devenea din ce \u00een ce mai dificil s\u0103-mi fac meseria, mi-am dat seama c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 merg la medic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201e\u2026o boal\u0103 cronic\u0103 care, din p\u0103cate, se va agrava cu timpul\u201d, a spus doctorul. \u201eMai ales av\u00e2nd \u00een vedere locul de munc\u0103. Exist\u0103 medicamente pentru ameliorarea durerii, dar, din p\u0103cate, nu exist\u0103 leac.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eram \u00een stare de \u0219oc. A doua zi am vorbit cu managerul \u0219i l-am implorat s\u0103 fiu transferat \u00eentr-o alt\u0103 pozi\u021bie \u00een fabric\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eA\u0219 putea lucra la controlul calit\u0103\u021bii sau la transport\u201d, am spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar managerul a cl\u0103tinat din cap. \u201e\u00cemi pare r\u0103u, e\u0219ti un muncitor bun, dar politica noastr\u0103 este \u00eempotriva angaj\u0103rii de persoane f\u0103r\u0103 certific\u0103rile corespunz\u0103toare pentru aceste pozi\u021bii. Conducerea nu va accepta asta.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-am respectat meseria c\u00e2t de bine am putut, dar \u00een cele din urm\u0103 m-au concediat pentru incapacitatea mea de a-mi \u00eendeplini atribu\u021biile. B\u0103ie\u021bii de la fabric\u0103 \u0219tiau deja despre starea mea \u0219i despre durerea pe care o provoca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen ultima mea zi de munc\u0103, mi-au f\u0103cut un cadou pe care l-am pre\u021buit \u00een fiecare zi de atunci: scaunul cu rotile\u00a0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vocea copilului m-a smuls din g\u00e2nduri \u0219i m-a readus \u00een prezent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eMami, ascult\u0103! E at\u00e2t de frumos!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am deschis ochii \u0219i am v\u0103zut un mic grup de oameni, inclusiv o femeie obosit\u0103 care \u021binea \u00een bra\u021be un b\u0103iat de opt ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ochii b\u0103iatului str\u0103luceau de \u00eenc\u00e2ntare \u00een timp ce \u00eemi privea degetele dans\u00e2nd pe flaut. Fa\u021ba mamei sale era br\u0103zdat\u0103 de oboseal\u0103, dar expresia ei s-a \u00eenmuiat \u00een timp ce \u00ee\u0219i privea fiul reac\u021bion\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201ePutem sta pu\u021bin mai mult?\u201d, a \u00eentrebat b\u0103iatul, tr\u0103g\u00e2nd de jacheta ponosit\u0103 a mamei sale. \u201eV\u0103 rog? N-am mai auzit niciodat\u0103 muzic\u0103 ca asta.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ea l-a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219at mai tare, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103-\u0219i ascund\u0103 epuizarea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201e\u00cenc\u0103 c\u00e2teva minute, Tommy. Trebuie s\u0103 mergem la programare.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eDar mami, uite cum i se mi\u0219c\u0103 degetele! E ca prin magie.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am pus flautul jos \u0219i am ar\u0103tat spre b\u0103iat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eVrei s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 c\u00e2n\u021bi? Te pot \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba o melodie simpl\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fa\u021ba lui Tommy s-a \u00eentunecat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eNu pot merge. M\u0103 doare prea tare.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00e2inile mamei sale s-au str\u00e2ns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eNu ne permitem o c\u00e2rj\u0103 sau un scaun cu rotile\u201d, a explicat ea \u00eencet. \u201eDoctorii spun c\u0103 am nevoie de fizioterapie, dar\u2026\u201d A t\u0103cut, greutatea grijilor nerostite umpl\u00e2ndu-i ochii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Privind-i, mi-am v\u0103zut propria poveste reflectat\u0103 pe fe\u021bele lor: durerea constant\u0103, lupta pentru demnitate, cum societatea trece cu indiferen\u021b\u0103 pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 cei s\u0103raci cu dizabilit\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Adventist World Aprilie 2024 Rus\u0103 de Adventist World Magazine \u2013 Issuu<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar \u00een ochii lui Tommy, am v\u0103zut \u0219i ceva ce pierdusem de mult: speran\u021ba. Acea lic\u0103rire de bucurie c\u00e2nd asculta muzica mi-a amintit de ce am \u00eenceput s\u0103 c\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eDe c\u00e2t timp o por\u021bi?\u201d, am \u00eentrebat, nefiind sigur\u0103 c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 aud r\u0103spunsul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eTrei ani\u201d, a r\u0103spuns ea \u00eencet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-am amintit de ultima mea zi de munc\u0103 \u0219i de darul vie\u021bii pe care mi-l d\u0103duser\u0103 colegii mei \u0219i \u0219tiam ce trebuie s\u0103 fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u0103r\u0103 ezitare, am apucat m\u00e2nerele scaunului cu rotile \u0219i m-am ridicat. Durerea mi-a str\u0103b\u0103tut coloana vertebral\u0103 \u0219i \u0219olduri, dar am for\u021bat un z\u00e2mbet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eIa scaunul meu cu rotile\u201d, am spus. \u201eNu\u2026 nu am nevoie de el. E doar o unealt\u0103. Nu sunt cu adev\u0103rat o persoan\u0103 cu dizabilit\u0103\u021bi. Dar te va ajuta pe tine \u0219i pe b\u0103iatul t\u0103u.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eO, nu, nu putem\u2026\u201d a \u00eencercat mama s\u0103 m\u0103 contrazic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S-a uitat la mine \u0219i am \u0219tiut c\u0103 b\u0103nuia c\u0103 mint. A\u0219a c\u0103 am z\u00e2mbit mai larg, am \u00eempins scaunul cu rotile spre ei \u0219i am insistat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eV\u0103 rog. M\u0103 va bucura s\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 va fi folosit de cineva care chiar are nevoie de el. Muzica nu este singurul dar pe care \u00eel putem oferi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ochii lui Tommy s-au m\u0103rit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eSerios, domnule? Vorbi\u021bi serios?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am dat din cap, abia st\u0103p\u00e2nindu-mi durerea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ochii mamei sale s-au umplut de lacrimi \u00een timp ce \u00eel punea cu grij\u0103 pe Tommy \u00een c\u0103rucior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eNu \u0219tiu cum s\u0103 v\u0103 mul\u021bumesc. Am cerut ajutor de at\u00e2tea ori, dar nimeni\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eZ\u00e2mbetul t\u0103u este recuno\u0219tin\u021ba mea\u201d, i-am spus lui Tommy, care deja \u00eencerca s\u0103 \u00eemping\u0103 c\u0103ruciorul. \u201eNu exist\u0103 nimic mai frumos dec\u00e2t z\u00e2mbetele tale.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi s-au umplut ochii de lacrimi \u00een timp ce \u00eei priveam cum pleac\u0103. M-am \u00eendreptat cu grij\u0103 spre cea mai apropiat\u0103 banc\u0103 \u0219i m-am a\u0219ezat, renun\u021b\u00e2nd la orice preten\u021bie c\u0103 nu sufeream.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trecuser\u0103 cinci ani, iar timpul nu fusese bun cu mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dificultatea de a m\u0103 deplasa cu c\u00e2rje mi-a \u00eenr\u0103ut\u0103\u021bit starea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Durerea a devenit constant\u0103, omniprezent\u0103, ocup\u00e2ndu-mi fiecare g\u00e2nd \u00een timp ce mergeam de la subsolul meu (sub o cas\u0103 abandonat\u0103) spre pia\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar continuam s\u0103 m\u0103 joc. Nu mai calma durerea a\u0219a cum o f\u0103cea \u00eenainte, dar m\u0103 ajuta s\u0103 nu \u00eennebunesc de fric\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam adesea la Tommy \u0219i la mama lui, sper\u00e2nd c\u0103 sacrificiul meu le schimbase via\u021ba. Uneori, \u00een t\u0103cere, mi-l imaginam pe Tommy alerg\u00e2nd prin parc sau pe holul \u0219colii \u00een vechiul meu c\u0103rucior, mama lui st\u00e2nd \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it \u00eenalt\u0103 \u0219i m\u00e2ndr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i apoi a venit ziua care a schimbat totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2ntam o melodie popular\u0103 veche pe care m\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021base bunica c\u00e2nd o umbr\u0103 a c\u0103zut peste cea\u0219ca mea de ceai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am ridicat privirea \u0219i am v\u0103zut un adolescent \u00eentr-un costum elegant st\u00e2nd \u00een fa\u021ba mea, cu un pachet lung sub bra\u021b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eBun\u0103 diminea\u021ba, domnule\u201d, a spus el cu acel z\u00e2mbet familiar. \u201eV\u0103 aminti\u021bi de mine?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-am mijit ochii \u0219i inima mi-a tres\u0103rit c\u00e2nd l-am recunoscut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eDumneavoastr\u0103?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Z\u00e2mbetul lui Tommy s-a l\u0103rgit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eAm crezut c\u0103 nu m\u0103 vei recunoa\u0219te.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eDar cum\u2026?\u201d Am ar\u0103tat spre postura lui dreapt\u0103. \u201eTu mergi!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eVia\u021ba e plin\u0103 de surprize\u201d, a r\u0103spuns el, a\u0219ez\u00e2ndu-se l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine. \u201eLa c\u00e2teva luni dup\u0103 ce mi-ai dat scaunul cu rotile, am aflat c\u0103 o rud\u0103 \u00eendep\u0103rtat\u0103 mi-a l\u0103sat o mo\u0219tenire. Dintr-o dat\u0103, ne puteam permite un tratament adecvat. S-a dovedit c\u0103 afec\u021biunea mea putea fi vindecat\u0103 cu o terapie adecvat\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eMama ta?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eA \u00eenfiin\u021bat o firm\u0103 de catering. \u00centotdeauna i-a pl\u0103cut s\u0103 g\u0103teasc\u0103, dar \u00eenainte nu avea puterea. Acum \u00ee\u0219i \u00eendepline\u0219te visul.\u201d Tommy s-a uitat timid la mine \u0219i mi-a \u00eentins un pachet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eAcesta este pentru tine, domnule.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am desf\u0103cut h\u00e2rtia \u0219i am r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 cuvinte. \u00cen\u0103untru era o cutie elegant\u0103 de flaut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u201eAcest cadou este modul meu umil de a-\u021bi mul\u021bumi pentru bun\u0103tatea ta\u201d, a spus el. \u201ePentru c\u0103 m-ai ajutat c\u00e2nd to\u021bi ceilal\u021bi m-au abandonat.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u201eEu\u2026 nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 spun\u201d, am b\u00e2lb\u00e2it. \u201eE prea mult.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u201eNu, nu e deloc prea mult\u201d, a r\u0103spuns Tommy, \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 cu bl\u00e2nde\u021be. \u201e\u00ce\u021bi datorez fericirea mea.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Un flautist cu dizabilit\u0103\u021bi, f\u0103r\u0103 ad\u0103post, \u00ee\u0219i sacrific\u0103 singura speran\u021b\u0103 \u2013 un scaun cu rotile \u2013 pentru un b\u0103iat de opt ani care nu poate<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":39588,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39606"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=39606"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39606\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":39608,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39606\/revisions\/39608"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/39588"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=39606"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=39606"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=39606"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}