{"id":39533,"date":"2025-05-26T10:01:42","date_gmt":"2025-05-26T10:01:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=39533"},"modified":"2025-05-26T10:01:42","modified_gmt":"2025-05-26T10:01:42","slug":"sotul-mi-a-spus-ca-vrea-sa-divortam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=39533","title":{"rendered":"So\u021bul mi-a spus c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 divor\u021b\u0103m."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

So\u021bul mi-a spus c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 divor\u021b\u0103m. M-a durut, dar am fost de acord \u0219i am decis s\u0103 m\u0103 r\u0103zbun. La oficiul st\u0103rii civile, \u00een fa\u021ba tuturor, am citit o scrisoare pe care o scrisesem dup\u0103 desp\u0103r\u021bire. Cei prezen\u021bi au r\u00e2s \u00een hohote, iar fostul meu so\u021b abia se mai \u021binea pe picioare de ru\u0219ine.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Iat\u0103 ce am scris \u00een acea scrisoare:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201eDragul meu,
Am trecut prin multe \u00een ace\u0219ti 15 ani. \u00cen bucurii \u0219i \u00een necazuri, \u00een durere \u0219i \u00een fericire \u2013 am fost mereu al\u0103turi de tine, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 te sus\u021bin, iar acum, chiar dac\u0103 povestea noastr\u0103 s-a \u00eencheiat, vreau s\u0103 p\u0103strez \u00een suflet doar lucrurile bune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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M-ai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat r\u0103bdarea \u0219i hot\u0103r\u00e2rea. \u00cen loc s\u0103 m\u0103 pl\u00e2ng de greut\u0103\u021bi, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 le dep\u0103\u0219esc f\u0103r\u0103 stres inutil. Am \u00eencercat s\u0103 rezolv totul singur\u0103, ca s\u0103 nu te \u00eempov\u0103rez cu grijile mele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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La divor\u021b i-am citit aceast\u0103 scrisoare: to\u021bi r\u00e2deau, iar el era ro\u0219u ca focul.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Tu ai fost primul meu profesor de medicin\u0103. \u021ain minte cum refuzai injec\u021biile, \u0219i eu trebuia s\u0103 fiu pentru tine \u0219i so\u021bie, \u0219i asistent\u0103. C\u00e2nd te pr\u0103bu\u0219eai la vederea unui ac, eu luam ini\u021biativa f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ezit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M-ai f\u0103cut s\u0103 devin me\u0219ter \u00een gospod\u0103rie. Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 fac repara\u021bii, s\u0103 folosesc o \u0219urubelni\u021b\u0103 sau un ciocan \u2013 pentru c\u0103 tu veneai acas\u0103 obosit \u0219i uitai complet de toate astea. Eu le f\u0103ceam pe toate, \u00een timp ce tu te odihneai din cauza durerii\u2026 la deget.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu \u0219urubelni\u021ba \u0219i ciocanul am devenit o femeie care se descurc\u0103 \u00een orice situa\u021bie.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tot tu m-ai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 fiu o femeie hot\u0103r\u00e2t\u0103. Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 rezolv conflicte cu vecinii, s\u0103 pl\u0103tesc amenzi, s\u0103 scriu explica\u021bii oficiale.
\u021aii minte cum a trebuit s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b s\u0103 conduc? \u021ai-au suspendat permisul, a\u0219a c\u0103 \u00een c\u00e2teva zile a trebuit s\u0103 m\u0103 descurc la volan, ca s\u0103 te iau de la petrecerile unde, de obicei, nu erai \u00een cea mai bun\u0103 form\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 bucur c\u0103, datorit\u0103 \u021bie, am fost mereu \u00een mi\u0219care.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu st\u0103teai \u00eentins pe canapea, iar eu c\u0103ram saco\u0219ele grele \u0219i s\u0103pam gr\u0103dina, c\u0103ci tu refuzai categoric s\u0103 te ridici din cauza durerii\u2026 \u00een deget.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M-ai f\u0103cut profesionist\u0103 \u00een mai multe domenii. C\u00e2nd trebuia s\u0103 aducem bani \u00een cas\u0103, eu am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 lucrez oriunde \u2013 doar s\u0103 avem cu ce tr\u0103i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i, \u00een final, vreau s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi mul\u021bumesc c\u0103 ai plecat. Tu credeai c\u0103 nu te \u00een\u021beleg \u0219i ai tr\u00e2ntit u\u0219a. Dar, sincer, c\u00e2nd ai plecat\u2026 am sim\u021bit u\u0219urare. A fost momentul \u00een care am putut, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, s\u0103 respir liber.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00ce\u021bi mul\u021bumesc pentru tot. Sunt recunosc\u0103toare pentru experien\u021ba pe care mi-ai oferit-o \u0219i pentru tot ce am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat \u00een anii petrecu\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

So\u021bul mi-a spus c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 divor\u021b\u0103m. M-a durut, dar am fost de acord \u0219i am decis s\u0103 m\u0103 r\u0103zbun. La oficiul st\u0103rii civile, \u00een<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":39187,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39533"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=39533"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39533\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":39534,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39533\/revisions\/39534"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/39187"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=39533"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=39533"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=39533"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}