{"id":38785,"date":"2025-04-28T07:59:02","date_gmt":"2025-04-28T07:59:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=38785"},"modified":"2025-04-28T07:59:03","modified_gmt":"2025-04-28T07:59:03","slug":"in-1993-mi-au-lasat-la-usa-un-bebelus-surd-mi-am-asumat-rolul-de-mama-dar-nu-mi-imaginam-ce-l-astepta-in-viitor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=38785","title":{"rendered":"\u00cen 1993 mi-au l\u0103sat la u\u0219\u0103 un bebelu\u0219 surd, mi-am asumat rolul de mam\u0103, dar nu-mi imaginam ce-l a\u0219tepta \u00een viitor."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Iar spre diminea\u021b\u0103 a venit \u00een\u021belegerea c\u0103 noi trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00een lumea lui, nu s\u0103-l for\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u00een a noastr\u0103. Limbajul semnelor \u2013 aceasta era cheia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La biblioteca din Z\u0103rne\u0219ti am g\u0103sit o carte sub\u021bire despre limbajul semnelor. Era veche, cu pagini \u00eeng\u0103lbenite, dar pentru mine era o comoar\u0103. \u00cen fiecare sear\u0103, dup\u0103 ce Andrei adormea, st\u0103team la masa din buc\u0103t\u0103rie, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u00e2nd semn dup\u0103 semn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mihai m-a surprins prin entuziasmul s\u0103u. De\u0219i muncea din greu la ferm\u0103 toat\u0103 ziua, seara se a\u0219eza l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine \u0219i exersa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Uit\u0103-te la m\u00e2inile mele, femeie! \u2014 r\u00e2dea el, ar\u0103t\u00e2ndu-mi b\u0103t\u0103turile. \u2014 Devin m\u00e2ini de intelectual!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dup\u0103 trei luni, comunicam deja prin semne simple. Andrei \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba uimitor de repede. Ochii lui inteligen\u021bi urm\u0103reau fiecare mi\u0219care a m\u00e2inilor noastre, iar z\u00e2mbetul lui c\u00e2nd reu\u0219ea s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 un nou semn era r\u0103splata noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o zi, c\u00e2nd Andrei avea aproape trei ani, Mihai l-a luat pe umeri \u0219i au ie\u0219it \u00een gr\u0103din\u0103. I-am privit prin fereastr\u0103 \u2013 b\u0103rbatul meu v\u00e2njos ar\u0103t\u00e2nd spre cer, spre copaci, spre flori, iar Andrei f\u0103c\u00e2nd semne cu m\u00e2nu\u021bele lui. \u00cenv\u0103\u021bau \u00eempreun\u0103 limbajul lumii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218tii, Ana, \u2014 mi-a spus Mihai \u00een acea sear\u0103, \u2014 cred c\u0103 e mai de\u0219tept dec\u00e2t to\u021bi copiii din sat la un loc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aveam aceea\u0219i impresie. Andrei observa totul, analiza, \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba cu o vitez\u0103 care ne uimea. La patru ani \u0219tia deja alfabetul, putea s\u0103 scrie numele s\u0103u \u0219i recuno\u0219tea zeci de cuvinte scrise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd a venit timpul s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la \u0219coal\u0103, am \u00eent\u00e2mpinat primul obstacol serios. Directorul \u0219colii din sat ne-a privit comp\u0103timitor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u00cen\u021belege\u021bi, doamn\u0103 Popescu, nu avem condi\u021bii pentru\u2026 copii speciali. Exist\u0103 \u0219coli specializate la ora\u0219\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 El nu e \u201especial\u201d, \u2014 am replicat, sim\u021bind cum mi se \u00eenro\u0219esc obrajii. \u2014 E doar surd. \u00cen rest e mai inteligent dec\u00e2t mul\u021bi copii care aud.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00een\u021beles atunci c\u0103 va trebui s\u0103 lupt pentru fiul meu. Am mers la inspectoratul \u0219colar, am scris peti\u021bii, am b\u0103tut la u\u0219i. \u00cen cele din urm\u0103, l-au acceptat, cu condi\u021bia s\u0103 stau cu el \u00een clas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a am devenit asistentul lui personal. St\u0103team \u00een ultima banc\u0103 \u0219i traduceam tot ce spunea \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea \u00een limbajul semnelor. Copiii se uitau curio\u0219i la \u00eenceput, apoi s-au obi\u0219nuit. Unii chiar au \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be semne de la Andrei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dup\u0103 primul semestru, fiul nostru avea cele mai bune note din clas\u0103. \u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea, doamna Elena, care la \u00eenceput fusese reticent\u0103, acum \u00eel l\u0103uda \u00een fa\u021ba tuturor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Are o memorie vizual\u0103 extraordinar\u0103. Re\u021bine tot ce vede, p\u00e2n\u0103 la cel mai mic detaliu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Via\u021ba noastr\u0103 c\u0103p\u0103tase un ritm. Diminea\u021ba \u2013 \u0219coal\u0103, dup\u0103-amiaza \u2013 teme \u0219i joac\u0103, seara \u2013 pove\u0219ti \u00een limbajul semnelor. Mihai \u00eei construise un atelier mic l\u00e2ng\u0103 \u0219ur\u0103, unde Andrei petrecea ore \u00eentregi cioplind figurine din lemn. Avea m\u00e2ini dibace \u0219i un sim\u021b artistic \u00eenn\u0103scut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd Andrei a \u00eemplinit zece ani, am primit o scrisoare. O femeie din ora\u0219ul apropiat auzise despre noi \u0219i despre b\u0103iatul nostru surd care \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba \u00eentr-o \u0219coal\u0103 obi\u0219nuit\u0103. Ea era profesor la o \u0219coal\u0103 pentru copii cu deficien\u021be de auz \u0219i voia s\u0103 ne \u00eent\u00e2lnim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Domni\u0219oara Maria Ionescu a devenit un \u00eenger p\u0103zitor pentru Andrei. Ne-a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat limbajul semnelor profesionist, ne-a conectat cu comunitatea surzilor din ora\u0219, ne-a ar\u0103tat tehnologii noi care puteau ajuta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Are un potential extraordinar, \u2014 ne-a spus ea dup\u0103 ce a petrecut o zi cu Andrei. \u2014 Ar trebui s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la liceu, apoi la facultate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mihai a privit-o ne\u00eencrez\u0103tor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Facultate? Un copil surd?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 De ce nu? \u2014 a r\u0103spuns ea cu ochii str\u0103lucind. \u2014 Suntem \u00een secolul XXI. Exist\u0103 traduc\u0103tori, exist\u0103 tehnologie, exist\u0103 legi care garanteaz\u0103 accesul egal la educa\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La paisprezece ani, Andrei a c\u00e2\u0219tigat primul concurs na\u021bional de matematic\u0103. St\u0103tea pe scen\u0103, cu medalia la g\u00e2t, iar noi pl\u00e2ngeam \u00een public \u2013 de m\u00e2ndrie, de emo\u021bie, de recuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 pentru acest copil care ne schimbase via\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen liceu, via\u021ba a devenit mai complicat\u0103. Adolescen\u021ba e dificil\u0103 pentru oricine, dar pentru cineva \u201ediferit\u201d poate fi un co\u0219mar. Andrei a avut parte de batjocur\u0103, de excludere, de priviri pline de mil\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o sear\u0103 l-am g\u0103sit pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd \u00een camera lui. Nu-l v\u0103zusem niciodat\u0103 a\u0219a \u2013 el, care era \u00eentotdeauna puternic, optimist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eDe ce eu?\u201d a f\u0103cut el semn cu m\u00e2inile tremur\u00e2nde. \u201eDe ce trebuie s\u0103 fiu diferit?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L-am str\u00e2ns \u00een bra\u021be, sim\u021bindu-i corpul zvelt tremur\u00e2nd de suspine silen\u021bioase. Ce puteam s\u0103-i spun? C\u0103 via\u021ba e nedreapt\u0103? C\u0103 oamenii pot fi cruzi? C\u0103, uneori, trebuie s\u0103 lup\u021bi de zece ori mai mult doar pentru a fi considerat egal?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen acea noapte, Mihai a venit t\u00e2rziu de la c\u00e2mp \u0219i l-a g\u0103sit pe Andrei \u00eenc\u0103 treaz, uit\u00e2ndu-se pe fereastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu \u0219tiu ce au discutat, dar a doua zi, Andrei s-a trezit alt om. Cu o determinare nou\u0103 \u00een privire, cu umerii drep\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eVoi deveni doctor,\u201d ne-a anun\u021bat el prin semne la micul dejun. \u201eVoi ajuta al\u021bi copii ca mine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u00e2s, crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 e o faz\u0103 trec\u0103toare. Dar Andrei nu glumea. A studiat biologia \u0219i chimia cu o intensitate care ne uimea. A \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be englez\u0103, pentru a putea citi studii medicale interna\u021bionale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La optsprezece ani, a fost acceptat la Facultatea de Medicin\u0103. A fost primul student surd din istoria universit\u0103\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Au fost ani grei, plini de obstacole. Profesori care refuzau s\u0103 adapteze cursurile, colegi care \u00eel priveau cu suspiciune, pacien\u021bi care nu voiau s\u0103 fie examina\u021bi de un \u201edoctor defect\u201d, cum \u00eel numise cineva odat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar Andrei avea o calitate rar\u0103 \u2013 putea s\u0103 transforme fiecare obstacol \u00eentr-o oportunitate. C\u00e2nd nu putea auzi b\u0103t\u0103ile inimii cu stetoscopul, a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 simt\u0103 vibra\u021biile cu degetele. C\u00e2nd nu putea comunica verbal cu pacien\u021bii, a dezvoltat o empatie \u0219i o capacitate de observare care compensau perfect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen 2018, doctorul Andrei Popescu a deschis prima clinic\u0103 din \u021bar\u0103 specializat\u0103 \u00een tratarea copiilor cu deficien\u021be de auz. O clinic\u0103 unde fiecare membru al personalului cunoa\u0219te limbajul semnelor, unde p\u0103rin\u021bii g\u0103sesc sprijin, iar copiii \u2013 speran\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen ziua inaugur\u0103rii, st\u0103team \u00een r\u00e2ndul din spate, al\u0103turi de Mihai, acum cu p\u0103rul complet alb. Andrei ne-a v\u0103zut \u0219i a venit direct la noi, ignor\u00e2nd jurnali\u0219tii \u0219i oficialit\u0103\u021bile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eTotul este datorit\u0103 vou\u0103,\u201d a f\u0103cut el semn, cu lacrimi \u00een ochi. \u201eVoi a\u021bi crezut \u00een mine c\u00e2nd nimeni altcineva nu a f\u0103cut-o.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen acea sear\u0103, st\u00e2nd pe terasa casei noastre din sat, Mihai a scos albumul vechi de fotografii. Am privit \u00eempreun\u0103 imaginea b\u0103ie\u021belului g\u0103sit \u00een co\u0219, cu ochii lui mari \u0219i curio\u0219i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Te-ai fi g\u00e2ndit vreodat\u0103 c\u0103 va ajunge p\u00e2n\u0103 aici? m-a \u00eentrebat Mihai, m\u00e2ng\u00e2indu-mi m\u00e2na.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Nu, am r\u0103spuns sincer. Dar \u0219tii ce? Cred c\u0103 nu e vorba doar despre ce a realizat el ca medic. E vorba despre c\u00e2\u021bi oameni a schimbat pe drum \u2013 noi, profesorii lui, colegii, pacien\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mihai a \u00eencuviin\u021bat, cu ochii umezi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u0218i c\u00e2nd m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 aproape am sunat la mili\u021bie \u00een acea diminea\u021b\u0103\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am z\u00e2mbit, amintindu-mi ziua care ne-a schimbat destinul. Un co\u0219 l\u0103sat la poart\u0103, un bilet simplu \u0219i un copil care nu putea auzi lumea, dar care a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat-o s\u0103 asculte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen 1993, mi-au l\u0103sat la u\u0219\u0103 un bebelu\u0219 surd. \u0218i asta a fost cea mai mare binecuv\u00e2ntare din via\u021ba noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dac\u0103 \u021bi-a pl\u0103cut povestea, nu uita s\u0103 o distribui cu prietenii t\u0103i! \u00cempreun\u0103 putem duce mai departe emo\u021bia \u0219i inspira\u021bia.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Iar spre diminea\u021b\u0103 a venit \u00een\u021belegerea c\u0103 noi trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00een lumea lui, nu s\u0103-l for\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u00een a noastr\u0103. 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