{"id":38523,"date":"2025-04-14T08:34:19","date_gmt":"2025-04-14T08:34:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=38523"},"modified":"2025-04-14T08:34:19","modified_gmt":"2025-04-14T08:34:19","slug":"copiii-si-au-abandonat-mama-batrana-sa-se-stinga-intr-o-casa-paraginita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=38523","title":{"rendered":"Copiii \u0219i-au abandonat mama b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 se sting\u0103 \u00eentr-o cas\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103ginit\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u201eDragii mei fii,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 citi\u021bi aceast\u0103 scrisoare, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 eu nu mai sunt printre voi. Nu v\u0103 judec pentru c\u0103 m-a\u021bi p\u0103r\u0103sit \u00een ultimii ani. \u00cen\u021beleg c\u0103 ave\u021bi propriile vie\u021bi, familii, probleme. Dar trebuie s\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi adev\u0103rul \u00eenainte de a veni s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bi\u021bi ce a mai r\u0103mas din casa noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acum un an, c\u00e2nd medicul mi-a spus c\u0103 mai am pu\u021bin de tr\u0103it, am luat o decizie. Nu am vrut s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eempov\u0103rez cu bolile \u0219i nevoile mele. \u0218tiam c\u0103 nu ve\u021bi veni s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eengriji\u021bi, a\u0219a cum nu a\u021bi f\u0103cut-o \u00een ultimii cinci ani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am v\u00e2ndut casa. Da, casa \u00een care v-a\u021bi n\u0103scut \u0219i a\u021bi crescut nu mai este a noastr\u0103. Am v\u00e2ndut-o Larisei \u0219i so\u021bului ei, vecinii care mi-au adus m\u00e2ncare \u0219i medicamente \u00een ultimele luni de via\u021b\u0103, care m-au dus la doctor c\u00e2nd nu mai puteam merge singur\u0103, care au stat l\u00e2ng\u0103 patul meu \u00een ultimele zile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu v-am spus nimic pentru c\u0103 \u0219tiam c\u0103 v-a\u021bi fi opus. Nu din dragoste pentru mine, ci pentru c\u0103 a\u0219tepta\u021bi s\u0103 mo\u0219teneasc\u0103 aceast\u0103 proprietate. Banii ob\u021binu\u021bi din v\u00e2nzarea casei i-am donat pentru construirea unui ad\u0103post pentru c\u00e2ini b\u0103tr\u00e2ni \u0219i abandona\u021bi. Poate vi se pare o nebunie, dar Rex, b\u0103tr\u00e2nul nostru c\u00e2ine, a fost mai fidel dec\u00e2t voi \u00een ultimii ani. El nu m-a p\u0103r\u0103sit niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu v\u0103 las nimic material, dragii mei. Nu pentru c\u0103 nu v-am iubit, ci pentru c\u0103 am vrut s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b cea mai important\u0103 lec\u021bie a vie\u021bii \u2013 niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 nu abandona\u021bi pe cei care v-au dat via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i v-au crescut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 vre\u021bi totu\u0219i s\u0103 lua\u021bi ceva din aceast\u0103 cas\u0103, lua\u021bi amintirile. Fotografiile de familie sunt \u00een podul casei, \u00een vechea lad\u0103 de lemn. Poate c\u0103, privindu-le, v\u0103 ve\u021bi aminti de timpul c\u00e2nd familia noastr\u0103 era unit\u0103 \u0219i plin\u0103 de dragoste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu dragoste etern\u0103, Mama voastr\u0103, Ludmila\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andrei l\u0103s\u0103 scrisoarea s\u0103-i cad\u0103 din m\u00e2ini. Serghei r\u0103mase nemi\u0219cat, cu fa\u021ba alb\u0103 ca varul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eNu e posibil,\u201d \u0219opti Serghei \u00een cele din urm\u0103. \u201eTrebuie s\u0103 fie o gre\u0219eal\u0103. Casa este a noastr\u0103!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen acel moment, u\u0219a se deschise \u0219i intr\u0103 Larisa \u00eempreun\u0103 cu so\u021bul ei, Pavel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201e\u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 a\u021bi aflat astfel,\u201d spuse Larisa cu bl\u00e2nde\u021be. \u201eAm \u00eencercat s\u0103 v\u0103 contact\u0103m de mai multe ori \u00een ultimul an, s\u0103 v\u0103 spunem despre starea mamei voastre, dar fie nu a\u021bi r\u0103spuns, fie a\u021bi spus c\u0103 sunte\u021bi prea ocupa\u021bi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eNu ave\u021bi dreptul!\u201d strig\u0103 Andrei. \u201eVom contesta v\u00e2nzarea! Era bolnav\u0103, nu era \u00een toate min\u021bile!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pavel, un b\u0103rbat calm \u0219i solid, scutur\u0103 din cap. \u201eLudmila Alexeevna era perfect lucid\u0103 c\u00e2nd a semnat actele. Avem confirm\u0103ri medicale \u0219i legale. A fost decizia ei, luat\u0103 \u00een deplin\u0103 cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 de cauz\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eDe ce ar face asta?\u201d \u00eentreb\u0103 Serghei, vocea lui fiind acum mai mult confuz\u0103 dec\u00e2t furioas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201ePentru c\u0103 se sim\u021bea singur\u0103 \u0219i abandonat\u0103,\u201d r\u0103spunse Larisa. \u201e\u00cen ultimele \u0219ase luni de via\u021b\u0103, nu a\u021bi venit niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 o vede\u021bi, de\u0219i v-am sunat de nenum\u0103rate ori s\u0103 v\u0103 spunem c\u00e2t de grav bolnav\u0103 era.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Serghei se pr\u0103bu\u0219i pe un scaun, acoperindu-\u0219i fa\u021ba cu m\u00e2inile. Andrei continua s\u0103 stea \u00een picioare, tremur\u00e2nd de furie \u0219i ru\u0219ine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eCe s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat cu Rex?\u201d \u00eentreb\u0103 brusc Andrei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eRex a murit la o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 dup\u0103 mama voastr\u0103,\u201d spuse Pavel. \u201eEra b\u0103tr\u00e2n \u0219i, cred eu, nu a putut suporta pierderea. I-am f\u0103cut un morm\u00e2nt l\u00e2ng\u0103 gr\u0103dina de trandafiri, acolo unde obi\u0219nuia s\u0103 stea la soare cu Ludmila.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andrei \u0219i Serghei privir\u0103 \u00een jurul lor, observ\u00e2nd pentru prima dat\u0103 schimb\u0103rile din cas\u0103. Pere\u021bii erau proasp\u0103t zugr\u0103vi\u021bi, mobila veche fusese restaurat\u0103, fotografiile de familie \u2013 pe care nu le mai v\u0103zuser\u0103 de ani de zile \u2013 erau aranjate cu grij\u0103 pe perete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eAm p\u0103strat multe din lucrurile mamei voastre,\u201d continu\u0103 Larisa. \u201eEa ne-a rugat s\u0103 o facem. Spunea c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi ve\u021bi dori poate s\u0103 le vede\u021bi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eNe pute\u021bi ar\u0103ta\u2026 fotografiile din pod?\u201d \u00eentreb\u0103 Serghei cu voce stins\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pavel \u00eencuviin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i \u00eei conduse sus, \u00een podul casei, care fusese \u0219i el cur\u0103\u021bat \u0219i organizat. \u00centr-un col\u021b st\u0103tea vechea lad\u0103 de lemn, lustruit\u0103 \u0219i \u00eengrijit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andrei o deschise cu m\u00e2ini tremur\u00e2nde. \u00cen\u0103untru erau zeci de albume foto, scrisori legate cu panglici, desene f\u0103cute de ei c\u00e2nd erau copii, felicit\u0103ri de ziua mamei, primul lor dinte, \u0219uvi\u021be de p\u0103r\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eA p\u0103strat totul,\u201d \u0219opti Andrei, sim\u021bind cum i se formeaz\u0103 un nod \u00een g\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen timp ce r\u0103sfoiau albumele, Larisa \u0219i Pavel cobor\u00e2r\u0103 discret, l\u0103s\u00e2ndu-i singuri cu amintirile lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ore \u00eentregi, cei doi fra\u021bi r\u0103maser\u0103 \u00een pod, privind fotografii \u0219i citind scrisori vechi, redescoperind o mam\u0103 pe care o uitaser\u0103 de mult timp. V\u0103zur\u0103 poze cu ea t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 \u0219i frumoas\u0103, \u021bin\u00e2ndu-i \u00een bra\u021be c\u00e2nd erau bebelu\u0219i, fotografii de la zilele lor de na\u0219tere, de la primul lor day de \u0219coal\u0103, de la absolviri\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eNu-mi amintesc c\u00e2nd am \u00eencetat s\u0103 o vizitez regulat,\u201d spuse Serghei \u00eentr-un t\u00e2rziu. \u201eLa \u00eenceput erau doar s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, apoi luni, apoi\u2026 ani.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eMereu am crezut c\u0103 voi avea timp mai t\u00e2rziu,\u201d r\u0103spunse Andrei. \u201eC\u0103 o voi vizita c\u00e2nd voi fi mai pu\u021bin ocupat. \u0218i acum e prea t\u00e2rziu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it cobor\u00e2r\u0103 din pod, afar\u0103 se \u00eentunecase. Larisa preg\u0103tise ceai \u0219i \u00eei a\u0219tepta la buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201ePutem\u2026 putem vedea morm\u00e2ntul ei?\u201d \u00eentreb\u0103 Andrei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Larisa \u00eencuviin\u021b\u0103. \u201eBine\u00een\u021beles. M\u00e2ine diminea\u021b\u0103 v\u0103 conducem.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201e\u0218i\u2026 ad\u0103postul de c\u00e2ini?\u201d ad\u0103ug\u0103 Serghei. \u201eCel construit cu banii din v\u00e2nzarea casei?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eE la marginea ora\u0219ului,\u201d r\u0103spunse Pavel. \u201eSe nume\u0219te \u2018Ad\u0103postul Ludmila\u2019. Pute\u021bi veni oric\u00e2nd s\u0103-l vizita\u021bi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen noaptea aceea, Andrei \u0219i Serghei au dormit \u00een vechile lor camere, acum renovate, dar p\u0103str\u00e2nd esen\u021ba din copil\u0103ria lor. A doua zi, au vizitat morm\u00e2ntul mamei lor, simplu dar \u00eengrijit, apoi ad\u0103postul de c\u00e2ini, unde o pl\u0103cu\u021b\u0103 de bronz o comemora pe Ludmila Alexeevna, \u201eo inim\u0103 mare care a iubit necondi\u021bionat\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cenainte de a pleca, Larisa le-a \u00eenm\u00e2nat un pachet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eMama voastr\u0103 a l\u0103sat asta pentru voi, \u00een cazul \u00een care ve\u021bi veni dup\u0103\u2026 dup\u0103 ce nu va mai fi. A spus s\u0103 v\u0103 dau doar dac\u0103 ve\u021bi vizita morm\u00e2ntul ei.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen\u0103untru erau dou\u0103 scrisori, una pentru fiecare, \u0219i un album foto nou, cu fotografii din ultimul an al vie\u021bii Ludmilei \u2013 z\u00e2mbind \u00een gr\u0103din\u0103, \u021bin\u00e2nd \u00een bra\u021be un c\u0103\u021bel, s\u0103rb\u0103torind Anul Nou al\u0103turi de Larisa \u0219i Pavel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eNu a fost singur\u0103 la sf\u00e2r\u0219it,\u201d spuse Larisa bl\u00e2nd. \u201eAsta ar trebui s\u0103 v\u0103 aduc\u0103 pu\u021bin\u0103 pace.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andrei \u0219i Serghei au plecat \u00een acea zi cu mai pu\u021bin dec\u00e2t speraser\u0103 material, dar cu lec\u021bii de via\u021b\u0103 care le vor schimba pentru totdeauna perspectiva asupra familiei \u0219i a responsabilit\u0103\u021bii. Casa copil\u0103riei lor nu le mai apar\u021binea, dar aminitirile \u0219i lec\u021biile primite acolo le vor r\u0103m\u00e2ne pentru totdeauna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dac\u0103 \u021bi-a pl\u0103cut povestea, nu uita s\u0103 o distribui cu prietenii t\u0103i! \u00cempreun\u0103 putem duce mai departe emo\u021bia \u0219i inspira\u021bia.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201eDragii mei fii, Dac\u0103 citi\u021bi aceast\u0103 scrisoare, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 eu nu mai sunt printre voi. Nu v\u0103 judec pentru c\u0103 m-a\u021bi p\u0103r\u0103sit \u00een ultimii ani.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":38467,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38523"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=38523"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38523\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":38524,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38523\/revisions\/38524"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/38467"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=38523"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=38523"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=38523"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}