{"id":42285,"date":"2025-10-04T07:06:37","date_gmt":"2025-10-04T07:06:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=42285"},"modified":"2025-10-04T07:06:37","modified_gmt":"2025-10-04T07:06:37","slug":"am-70-de-ani-si-nu-am-copii-dar-nu-trebuie-sa-ma-compatimiti-dimpotriva-continuarea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/?p=42285","title":{"rendered":"\u201dAm 70 de ani \u0219i nu am copii. Dar nu trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 comp\u0103timi\u021bi, dimpotriv\u0103\u2026\u201d \u2013 continuarea"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Odat\u0103 am mers la dermatolog \u0219i, ca de obicei, am a\u0219teptat mult timp la r\u00e2nd pe coridor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acolo am cunoscut o femeie care mi-a schimbat viziunea asupra vie\u021bii. Mi-a atras imediat aten\u021bia prin felul ei elegant \u0219i \u00eengrijit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u0103rea s\u0103 aib\u0103 cam 65 de ani, dar c\u00e2nd am \u00eenceput s\u0103 vorbim, am aflat c\u0103 avea deja peste 70! Nici nu-mi venea s\u0103 cred.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-a povestit c\u0103 a fost c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 de dou\u0103 ori, dar la b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021be a r\u0103mas singur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prima c\u0103s\u0103torie s-a terminat cu un divor\u021b. \u00cenc\u0103 de la \u00eenceput, i-a spus sincer so\u021bului c\u0103 nu \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te copii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>El a acceptat asta, dar dup\u0103 ce ea a trecut de 30 de ani, a readus subiectul \u00een discu\u021bie, sper\u00e2nd c\u0103, cu timpul, i se va trezi instinctul matern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Asta nu s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u0219i, dup\u0103 mai multe discu\u021bii, au decis s\u0103 se despart\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A doua oar\u0103 s-a c\u0103s\u0103torit cu un b\u0103rbat care avea deja o fiic\u0103 din prima c\u0103s\u0103torie. Rela\u021bia lor a fost fericit\u0103, pentru c\u0103 el nu a mai deschis vreodat\u0103 subiectul copiilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Avea deja o fiic\u0103 \u0219i faptul c\u0103 so\u021bia lui nu voia copii nu l-a deranjat deloc. Dar via\u021ba lor \u00eempreun\u0103 nu a fost lung\u0103 \u2013 el a murit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De atunci, ea locuie\u0219te singur\u0103 \u00een casa ei mare \u0219i spune c\u0103 singur\u0103tatea nu o deranjeaz\u0103 deloc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mul\u021bi cred c\u0103 copiii \u00eei vor ajuta la b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021be \u0219i vor fi mereu acolo, dar ea nu vede lucrurile a\u0219a. To\u021bi copiii cresc \u0219i pleac\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i construiasc\u0103 propriile vie\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tocmai de aceea, niciodat\u0103 nu \u0219i-a dorit copii \u0219i nici acum nu regret\u0103 decizia luat\u0103. Tr\u0103ie\u0219te o via\u021b\u0103 \u00eemplinit\u0103 \u0219i are tot ce \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2013 Iar paharul cu ap\u0103 mi-l va aduce oricine, at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t \u00eel pl\u0103tesc pentru asta \u2013 a spus ea. Tu ce p\u0103rere ai despre acest mod de a vedea via\u021ba?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u021bi-a pl\u0103cut povestea, nu uita s\u0103 o distribui cu prietenii t\u0103i! \u00cempreun\u0103 putem duce mai departe emo\u021bia \u0219i inspira\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201dAceast\u0103 poveste este inspirat\u0103 din evenimente \u0219i persoane reale, \u00eens\u0103 a fost fic\u021bionalizat\u0103 \u00een scopuri creative. Numele, personajele \u0219i detaliile au fost schimbate pentru a proteja intimitatea \u0219i pentru a \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi nara\u021biunea. Orice asem\u0103nare cu persoane reale, sau cu evenimente reale este pur \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103toare \u0219i nu este inten\u021bionat\u0103 de c\u0103tre autor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Autorul \u0219i editorul nu \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 responsabilitatea pentru exactitatea evenimentelor sau pentru modul \u00een care sunt portretizate personajele \u0219i nu sunt r\u0103spunz\u0103tori pentru eventuale interpret\u0103ri gre\u0219ite. Aceast\u0103 poveste este oferit\u0103 \u201eca atare\u201d, iar orice opinii exprimate apar\u021bin personajelor \u0219i nu reflect\u0103 punctele de vedere ale autorului sau ale editorului.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Odat\u0103 am mers la dermatolog \u0219i, ca de obicei, am a\u0219teptat mult timp la r\u00e2nd pe coridor. 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