Mi-am f\u0103cut o programare la dermatolog \u0219i am stat pe hol, a\u0219tept\u00e2ndu-mi r\u00e2ndul. O femeie s-a a\u0219ezat l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine \u0219i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 vorbim. S-a dovedit a fi o interlocutoare pl\u0103cut\u0103, iar conversa\u021bia noastr\u0103 m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 reflectez asupra multor aspecte ale vie\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Primul lucru care mi-a atras aten\u021bia a fost c\u00e2t de elegant\u0103 \u0219i \u00eengrijit\u0103 era. I-a\u0219 fi dat cel mult 50 de ani. Dar \u00een timpul conversa\u021biei, mi-a m\u0103rturisit c\u0103 are peste 70 de ani. Sincer, am fost uimit\u0103 \u2013 ar\u0103ta mult mai t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 dec\u00e2t femeile de v\u00e2rsta ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Aceast\u0103 femeie, care s-a prezentat ca Ana, mi-a povestit c\u0103 a fost c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 de dou\u0103 ori, dar acum tr\u0103ie\u0219te singur\u0103. Prima sa c\u0103snicie s-a \u00eencheiat cu un divor\u021b, deoarece nu \u0219i-a dorit copii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u00cenc\u0103 de la \u00eenceput, \u0219i-a avertizat so\u021bul c\u0103 nu vrea s\u0103 aib\u0103 copii, dar dup\u0103 ce a \u00eemplinit 30 de ani, el a \u00eenceput s\u0103 sugereze tot mai des c\u0103 o familie adev\u0103rat\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 aib\u0103 un copil. Cu toate acestea, instinctul matern nu i-a ap\u0103rut niciodat\u0103 \u0219i nu a fost dispus\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i schimbe convingerile. Pentru ea, a fost mai u\u0219or s\u0103 se despart\u0103 dec\u00e2t s\u0103 renun\u021be la propriile principii. Dup\u0103 o discu\u021bie sincer\u0103, au decis s\u0103 divor\u021beze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Mai t\u00e2rziu, Ana s-a c\u0103s\u0103torit cu un b\u0103rbat care avea deja un copil dintr-o c\u0103snicie anterioar\u0103. Acesta nu \u00ee\u0219i mai dorea al\u021bi copii, a\u0219a c\u0103 subiectul nu a fost niciodat\u0103 discutat. Au tr\u0103it ferici\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 via\u021ba lor comun\u0103 a fost curmat\u0103 tragic \u2013 so\u021bul ei a murit \u00eentr-un accident de ma\u0219in\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Ana a m\u0103rturisit c\u0103 singur\u0103tatea nu o apas\u0103 deloc. Dimpotriv\u0103, este fericit\u0103 c\u0103 poate tr\u0103i a\u0219a cum \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 se adapteze la nevoile altcuiva. Este convins\u0103 c\u0103 a f\u0103cut alegerea corect\u0103 \u0219i nu regret\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Prietenele ei, care odinioar\u0103 sperau c\u0103 copiii lor vor avea grij\u0103 de ele, acum ofteaz\u0103 dezam\u0103gite. Copiii au crescut, \u0219i-au urmat propriul drum \u0219i nu sunt foarte interesa\u021bi de p\u0103rin\u021bii lor \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ni\u021bi. Tocmai din acest motiv, Ana nu s-a g\u00e2ndit niciodat\u0103 serios la maternitate \u2013 sim\u021bea c\u0103 nu este drumul ei. Acum duce o via\u021b\u0103 \u00eemplinit\u0103 \u0219i se bucur\u0103 de fiecare moment. Lipsa copiilor i-a adus bucurie, nu triste\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u2014 Un pahar cu ap\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu voi muri nici de foame, nici de boal\u0103. \u00cen timp ce prietenii mei \u00ee\u0219i cheltuiau banii pe cre\u0219terea copiilor, eu i-am economisit. Iar acum aceste economii \u00eemi sunt suficiente pentru a-mi asigura \u00eengrijire \u0219i sprijin p\u00e2n\u0103 la sf\u00e2r\u0219itul vie\u021bii!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ce p\u0103rere ave\u021bi despre aceast\u0103 alegere? O considera\u021bi corect\u0103?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Mi-am f\u0103cut o programare la dermatolog \u0219i am stat pe hol, a\u0219tept\u00e2ndu-mi r\u00e2ndul. O femeie s-a a\u0219ezat l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine \u0219i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 vorbim. S-a<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":37876,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37875"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=37875"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37875\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":37877,"href":"http:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37875\/revisions\/37877"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/37876"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=37875"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=37875"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/calatorinromania.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=37875"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}